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I agree. What has she got now? She burned her bridges with her mother and older sister, her father is in jail, her oldest brother is dead, another older brother is in Minnesota, and the last sibling is mentally ill and no help to her. She is really very much alone. I doubt she is on any of her neighbors' good side either. And like Jacie said, she probably has the emotional maturity of a ten year old. I'm not sure she even has a job. I think she was the full time caretaker for the boys before they were removed. What has she got? Maybe not even the life insurance money either. The house could be foreclosed before long...She is in a real pickle. If I were her, I think I would soften a little and start cultivating some friends real fast.