This is just strictly my opinion, but when it comes to custody cases in these situations, it is very difficult to determine what is being said out of fear, grief, and pure intent on doing damage control, and in some cases, just pure revenge.
I could not be consistent if I wanted to about what I wore last week, had for lunch, how many times I went to the store or how many bowel movements I produced and that is not because I am aloof or a killer, it is because I am like many people who don't realize that one week of my life all of those details may just determine whether I keep my kids and/or my freedom. I will read them again tomorrow if I get a chance, but if I did not read them and find myself firmly believing he was guilty beyond reasonable doubt the first time, it is doubtful I will the second time...but I will refresh for the sake of discussion