State vs. Jason Lynn Young 2-20-2012

[Turnadot]

I get the "overbearing" mother in law issue (I have one), but come on. He's just a jerk about it.

TBH, so would I be after a certain point. It seems Michelle's mother crossed boundaries quite a lot, even with Michelle, IMO.

 

[terminatrixator]

I agree. Michelle initiated it though, if I'm not mistaken. Talking about communication problems.

Obviously she couldn't talk to him to his face. Anything she said he turned around on her, everything always became h er fault.

 

[Pocono Sleuther]

Ok. I despise JY. I wholeheartedly believe he is guilty but I can see his side with the mil issues. It's just too much. NOT an excuse for murder but I do feel there was entirely too many people involved in this marriage. Loads of unnecessary pressure on both of them having this type of involvement.

 

[cityslick]

Not always though. My mother in law only became fanatical after kids were born.

Is that the case here though?

 

[~n/t~]

See, this is the kind of stuff you got to know going into the relationship/marriage. If you find out the potential mother in law is just always around, going to be a problem, then don't get involved. Once you get married, you bought into the package deal (yes, the in laws are a package deal).

When they say your 'marrying into the family', it's not a lie.

My ex MIL destroyed my marriage! God honest truth.

 

[Just the Fax]

"I do love you too, i want this to work , JY"

Yikes

 

[Pocono Sleuther]

Is that the case here though?

I think the involvement here was always a bit much. Not just after the kids.

 

[Turnadot]

Could be but it sounds like she was a major problem in the marriage? He could be full of poo about all of this though and just looking for excuses (mental abuse)?

It does sound that way. Crossing the line and telling information wrt Michelle's pregnancy took me aback.

Don't know why though, my mother-in-law is Italian. I'll just leave it there, lol.

 

[Bottle Cap]

"I enjoy my freedom and independence" - JY

ayup.

 

[~n/t~]

I think the involvement here was always a bit much. Not just after the kids.

It sure sounds like it.

 

[cityslick]

Ok. I despise JY. I wholeheartedly believe he is guilty but I can see his side with the mil issues. It's just too much. NOT an excuse for murder but I do feel there was entirely too many people involved in this marriage. Loads of unnecessary pressure on both of them having this type of involvement.

It happens a lot in marriages and that's why a lot end in divorce. Usually what happens is you get married but you're still tied to the hip with your mother, therefore bringing the mother into the marriage more than she needs to be. Some spouses are understanding of this, but some don't either.

 

[luckyme]

He likes his freedom??? Is that what she said?

 

[Lori59]

He IS a SELF absorbed <mod snip>

 

[Pocono Sleuther]

"I enjoy my freedom and independence" - JY

ayup.

A bit too much. Eh?

 

[janesdean]

He IS a SELF absorbed <mod snip>

He absolutely IS ! :maddening:

 

[~n/t~]

It does sound that way. Crossing the line and telling information wrt Michelle's pregnancy took me aback.

Don't know why though, my mother-in-law is Italian. I'll just leave it there, lol.

Michelle brought that up in her email which suggests she is aware of her mother's issues and was bothered by that.

Italian mom, eh? Let's not go there. :floorlaugh:

 

[Pocono Sleuther]

It happens a lot in marriages and that's why a lot end in divorce. Usually what happens is you get married but you're still tied to the hip with your mother, therefore bringing the mother into the marriage more than she needs to be. Some spouses are understanding of this, but some don't either.

I know. I'm divorcing from a similar situation. It just breaks my heart for them. Yes, them. Because I don't think they ever had a chance.

 

[~n/t~]

bell aggy (?) = Michelle Money

 

[Turnadot]

It happens a lot in marriages and that's why a lot end in divorce. Usually what happens is you get married but you're still tied to the hip with your mother, therefore bringing the mother into the marriage more than she needs to be. Some spouses are understanding of this, but some don't either.

I can't think of one spouse who would be understanding of being married to him/her...and their mother. I'm sorry, but Michelle's mother was too involved in that marriage, IMO.

I love my mother-in-law to bits, but if she acted as if she was part of my marriage, I would absolutely go to my husband and ask him to talk with his mother about it.

She does meddle, and can be intrusive, but there's a line there. She has never crossed it - close - but if she ever did, I would be livid.

IMO

 

[Just the Fax]

The email to MM is new this trial.