Actually, I say "bring in some ethical editors to sit down on the so-called journalists who are basically doing celebrity-style gossip." My best old editor would have fired some of these idjits.
But if you gag the media--then you've gagged KH & DY.
And exactly how do you write the gag order? That would be very complicated. Can anyone other than the LE/attorneys/those sworn in to testify to GJ or during a trial be "gagged?" How about crossing the "prior restraint" guidelines? How about the First Amendment rights of citizens to chat up reporters?
Complex stuff.
For all those who don't understand why those debating privacy feel it's important, let me share that I share your feelings about finding whoever did this, find out what was done, and do it in such a way that there is no room for "reasonable doubt" once it goes into a courtroom. However, consider this--OK, my friends aren't trainable (response to a post that said friends thinking clearly--or close thereof--wouldn't call with personal stuff during a time like this). They're gonna do what they're gonna do.
And secondly--suppose the investigation goes on for say, 8 weeks? Or 9 weeks? Or, Gawd forbid, 9 months? For how long does everyone who is connected to anyone who is of any interest in this case have to give up their right to privacy.
As far as I'm concerned, they can get the legal court-approved right to monitor/track anyone involved in this case, and that includes all family members, all friends, etc. Note I said "court-approved." There is a legal responsibility to do so.
But tossing everyone's right to privacy down that loooong, slipperly slope is something that creates an avalanche. So it's OK to throw away our constitutional rights in this case?
But what about the one where "she's a mother of three?" "He's a father of four?" "She's a grandmother." Other victims of crime are important, too, and leave others in torment and anguish. If everyone connected in some way to a crime loses their right to privacy, I suspect "privacy" would become a vanishing thing.
As far as what everyone would do if they were in TH's situation, well, none of us are her. And frankly, if she's guilty, she gets a bat phone. If she's innocent and wants privacy--to talk to her attorney or her friends/family--she gets a bat phone. Yes, people will interpret that action how they will. And they will judge the friends who got the phone(s) for her.
But it's her right to do so.
Emotionally, I find it very hinky that friends got her bat phones. However, intellectually and in terms of evidence tendered so far, I find it a perfectly reasonable thing to do.
I'm so tired of this fence. But I'll never be tired of supporting the constitutional rights that make this nation one of the best, and freest, if not the best, ever created. Yea, I get all sentimental about stuff like that.
And I've raged before about "criminals' rights" like everyone else. But in this case, to this point, all I see is LE that's been focused on one person since the get-go, a divorce and child custody issue that's used information from LE, allegations, suspicions, innuendoes, sex, lies and everything but videotape.
And total illogic in many cases. DY says TH has always been a liar. Then she and KH say Terri said this or that (the $ for the lawyer, or her railing about the polygraphs, etc. etc.) So if she's a liar, why were things said by her brought forward to support their belief that she did it? And I'm not attacking them, not at all, but there's so much personal stuff and contradictory stuff being played out in the media that it's mind boggling.
The onus is on LE to find and present enough evidence to make an arrest. That's the bottom line.