Aedrys
If justice doesn't get you, karma will.
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I'm just going to say it. Kaine is NOT helping by stating that "the judge" thinks that finding Kyron is the top priority and that the divorce is "part of the investigation." The only judge he has been in front of is about his divorce/civil matter, and so far, no one has been charged with anything about Kyron. Houze is an expert at getting people off on technicalities, and he WILL do that if he can. And he might just be able to do that based on Terri's right to the 5th.
I am empathetic and understanding to Kaine's and Desiree's hurt, struggle and wont for the truth. I really am. However, it is equally important to not sabotage the criminal investigation and prosecution for whatever happened or is happening to this precious little boy.
ETA: These judges have and will have a very heavy load upon them, as this case will most certainly set a precedent regarding civil/criminal rights during potential concurrent proceedings. As we have seen, Rackner, Houze and Bunch are quoting cases left and right to bolster their opinions and positions.
Their child is taken and Terri is the last person to see him. Evidence keeps coming out that is sinking Terri and further as the person who did this. So is Kaine supposed to keep his pain to himself to protect Terri's rights? He is not going to walk on eggshells with her. He is not going to be nice about this. This is his SON, not a sock, not a toy, a flesh and blood CHILD. He has the right to say what he wants about the person he thinks took and hurt his child. As for the judge, if the judge was to look the other way like nothing is happening that is not unethical but going overboard in being fair in Terri. Boohoo, cry me river. She can dish it but not take it apparently - and how is that a violation of her rights anyway? As long as the judge isn't bending over backwards to accomodate Kaine, which would be another ethical and this time legal violation, then the judge has the right to do what he or she wants. The judge cannot ignore the missing child when ANOTHER child's life is a stake. That would be a horrendous oversight that the judge would be raked over the coals for later.
I still haven't seen any proof that any of her rights are in jeopardy. And if she was so worried about her right to privacy, then she shouldn't have been emailing and texting people like crazy. People like that aren't thinking about privacy at all. Terri definitely wasn't. It's no wonder she bristled at the police looking into her. She knew the crap she had put out there would come back and haunt her.
Terri just needs to deal with what's going on. It's not going to stop, and no one is up and going to be nice to her when she is doing nothing but helping herself and not giving a crap about a missing and endangered child. No rights are being violated here. She can have to right to silence while Kaine and Desiree have the right of free speech. They can say what they want especially when evidence is showing up to support what they are saying. We may not have seen all of that evidence yet, but by reactions we've seen, it's most definitely there and there's more we probably don't even know about yet.
As long as no one is violating her rights, Terri is, all by herself, up a creek without a paddle. And honestly, if any of her rights were being violated, Houze and Bunch would be on that faster Speedy Gonzales can run. There's no way they're not going to make a big deal about her rights being violated. And they haven't. That says a LOT to me about Terri and her rights thus far.
The only thing violated right now is her feelings, and that doesn't count for squat in a court of law.