The Crown v Gerard Baden-Clay, 17th June - Trial Day 5 - Week 2

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  • #421
mmmmmmmmmmm why the request for the STD test when she found out about the affair , don't need an std test if u aint doin it

squizzy1, the affair had been going on for 3 years when Allison found out. There had likely been some relations between ABC and GBC in that 3 years, albeit in the earlier part. I would be getting a STD test too in those circumstances.
 
  • #422
Sorry, what was the name of the anti-malarial medication again?
 
  • #423
and the chipped tooth

My theory with the chipped tooth is, Allison was trying to use her phone during a struggle with GBC which resulted in the chipped tooth from the phone, the scratches to his face and the body welts from Allison holding onto his clothing.
 
  • #424
mmmmmmmmmmm why the request for the STD test when she found out about the affair , don't need an std test if u aint doin it

That's right they did, however infrequent. Pity sex maybe? Is that the term? :blushing:
 
  • #425
Sorry, what was the name of the anti-malarial medication again?

Lariam

Edit: Brisbane News have incorrectly reported Valerian. (edit again - they have corrected it now)
 
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squizzy1, the affair had been going on for 3 years when Allison found out. There had likely been some relations between ABC and GBC in that 3 years, albeit in the earlier part. I would be getting a STD test too in those circumstances.




sure ,you are right , imagine if he had it how many of his floozies had it . perish the thought lol
 
  • #428
I found it :-) Mefloquine, marketed as Lariam.

"Mefloquine: Applications to Forensic Psychiatry" Elspeth Cameron Ritchie, MD, MPH,
Jerald Block, MD and Remington Lee Nevin, MD, MPH
J Am Acad Psychiatry Law 41:2:224-235 (June 2013)

"Mefloquine (previously marketed in the United States as Lariam®) is an antimalarial medication with potent psychotropic potential. Severe psychiatric side effects due to mefloquine intoxication are well documented, including anxiety, panic attacks, paranoia, persecutory delusions, dissociative psychosis, and anterograde amnesia. Exposure to the drug has been associated with acts of violence and suicide."

So the drug has form, but I reckon you'd have to work hard to show evidence of recent symptoms - certainly not borne out by testimony of today's witnesses.
 
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Ms McHugh agreed she had texted Mr Baden-Clay and demanded to meet him in June 2012. They took a taxi to units Mr Baden-Clay was renting.

“I had asked him, yes, to explain,” Ms McHugh told the court.

They met for 1.5 hours, during which time they discussed Mr Baden-Clay’s other affairs and he told her she should fall in love with someone else.

Ms McHugh said she accepted his decision because “his girls (daughters) would never accept me anyway”.

Mr Byrne asked: “Gerard’s never discussed with you (the) circumstances of his wife’s disappearance?”

Ms McHugh: “No. Only to say he didn’t know what was happening.”

http://www.theaustralian.com.au/new...-husbands-affair/story-e6frg6nf-1226957153032
 
  • #431
I know it may seem odd to some that Allison and Gerard were still intimate whilst he was having affairs. Let's all be realistic here...even in bad relationships there are times of intimacy where things aren't as bad. I do believe they would have had sex at times even during a bad relationship. On the day my ex fiance left me we slept together in the morning and an hour later he threw coffee at me and walked out. I know it would be hard to understand if you haven't been in a rough relationship, but there are times of intimacy.

I actually think Allison was an eternal optimist, that she could make things better, she could improve, Gerard would change. I felt the same way about my ex fiance and was shocked when he snapped and left that morning. I am so glad he is gone now because I realised that whilst in that relationship I adjusted my expectations. Not so bad became good, bad became mildly acceptable but you constantly hoped for change. The gauge for what is acceptable moves as they wear you down. If you are a soft hearted, sensitive, loving person as I believe Allison was, then this sort of treatment by another would have a massive effect. Also Allison was always an achiever and to have felt that she was failing at her marriage because Gerard was constantly putting her down, would be hard to accept.
 
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Kate Kyriacou ‏@KateKyriacou 40s
Court has resumed. Relationships Australia counsellor Carmel Ritchie is back on the stand. #badenclay

Kate Kyriacou ‏@KateKyriacou 52s
Ms Ritchie says Allison told her the affair began on the 27th August, not long after their wedding anniversary. #badenclay
 
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3:24pm: "Was there any discussion about him leaving his wife?" Mr Fuller asked.
Ms McHugh replied: "Yes Gerard was very fearful of Allison not being able to manage the pressure of a divorce. He had voiced concerns about her mental strength ... I was very aware of Allison's depression from day one, when Gerard told us all about her illness, but he was very concerned that she wouldn't handle it and [how] that would impact on the girls.''

Read more: http://www.brisbanetimes.com.au/que...ay-4-week-2-20140616-3a6an.html#ixzz34rnFqdn9

That to me implies he told everyone about Allison's illness...

BBM

So Toni states that she knew Allison was fragile, knew it would impact their kids and STILL persisted...what a piece of work. I think she has NPD...

Yet she claimed she and GBC never spoke about Allison
 
  • #434
The name and the prestige that went with it would have opened doors particularly in British society, but also in South Africa, not something Australians take a lot of notice of and something that they smirk at about "poms". The pride though of the Baden name would have been very strong, hence Olivia name change.

Gerard was the third child and the second son, really nothing remarkable and truly the "spare". He would have known all his life that he wasn't as "good" as his brother, but would have strived to prove himself to Dad.

Respectfully snipped by me.
Fab Post Sprat however Gerard WAS the first born....the heir not the spare....
http://www.thepeerage.com/p6368.htm
 
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Kate Kyriacou ‏@KateKyriacou 53s
Allison told Ms Ritchie Gerard told her the affair was partly her fault. #badenclay
 
  • #436
Kate Kyriacou ‏@KateKyriacou 40s
Allison told the counsellor she'd asked him two years earlier, on their anniversary "what's wrong with us?". #badenclay
 
  • #437
Kate Kyriacou ‏@KateKyriacou 1m
Gerard told Allison he wanted to leave. #badenclay


David Murray ‏@TheMurrayD 1m
Allison told counsellor of confronting Gerard about the affair, he was now honest but blamed her depression for some of it #badenclay
 
  • #438
Kate Kyriacou ‏@KateKyriacou 54s
Ms Ritchie is reading from her notes. She says Allison presented with marital issues, surrounding her husband's affair. #badenclay

Kate Kyriacou ‏@KateKyriacou 52s
Ms Ritchie says Allison told her her husband and his mistress had the same personality type. Ambitious. #badenclay

Kate Kyriacou ‏@KateKyriacou 1m
Ms Ritchie says Allison and Gerard had different parenting styles. Allison never felt quite good enough. #badenclay
 
  • #439
Kate Kyriacou ‏@KateKyriacou 1m
Ms Ritchie says Allison reported having an extreme reaction to anti malaria medication. #badenclay

Kate Kyriacou ‏@KateKyriacou 1m
Allison told the counsellor Gerard's attitude to her depression was "get over it". #badenclay
 
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Kate Kyriacou ‏@KateKyriacou 37s
Ms Ritchie says Allison said Gerard had changed in the past few months, developing a "look after myself" attitude. #badenclay


Kate Kyriacou ‏@KateKyriacou 1m
Ms Ritchie says Allison believed her depression contributed to the affair. #badenclay
 
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