This need to level all things and make all things equal is what drove me crazy about the public schools. You seem determined to do that too. Are you a public school teacher?
No. I dont like that about public schools either Yolorado! As a matter of fact, I took my last two kids out of public school in their middle school grades and home schooled until they started to attend college.
We aren't really talking about Catholics right now, although the Catholics I know will openly acknowledge various shortcomig of their religious structure and clearly disavow the sexual abuse by priests, unlike members of the FLDS who don't seem willing to see Jeff's errors or to rebuke him. I know many Catholics becaue they don't live in a closed society. They live in my neigborhood. They attend the same schools. They shop at my grocery. Their church groups worked with others in the community helping tornado and huricane victims. They don't set themselves apart and try to establish their own laws while ignoring those of society. I don't know any of them who planned and witnessed a marriage a 12 or 14 year old in our generation, and they don't routinely stop educating their kids around 12-14 in present times. In fact, Notre Dame University is a really big deal and a lot of them hope their kids will go there and to other colleges and universities to learn and grow so that they can support themselves and be of benefit to society, not just Catholic society, US society. They are part of our society, unlike the FLDS.
I wasnt talking about Catholics as individual people. I am sure that you and I both know some wonderful people who follow the Catholic faith. I should start any statement I make about the Catholics with a disclaimer apologizing to the faith at large. I use them to illustrate a point NOT because they are worse than other religions because that simply isnt true. I use the Catholic religion only because they are so prominent and well known. To all Catholics, I would apologize if I appear to be "picking" on them. That is not my intent.
In looking at the Catholic faith at large I was "using them" as an example of how people will continue to follow a religious leader even thought that leader is clearly wrong. I mentioned an example of the same thing in the protestant arena also. It stretches across all denominations. The fact is people follow their religious leaders based on faith. When the leader is reviled that can make the leader seem MORE attractive to his followers because that is viewed as "persecution". That is why if you want to break up the following of a maniacal perverted religious leader (Warren Jeffs) you need to approach things carefully. It would probably not be a good idea to raid his nest and take the most clearly innocent (in this case - the children) and stick them in a horse stable while you figure out your next move. That only causes lots of issues to be raised. Issues like civil rights and womens rights and religious persecution and on and on and on.
What do you think of people who follow Warren Jeffs? Doesn't bother you? You like it? Who cares?
I feel for them. I especially feel for the women and the children. I think their way of life looks incredibly difficult to live. It looks physically hard and I think that they must be living it because they truly believe it is the right way. People usually take the easy route, so for them to take such a hard one it must be based on faith on their part. Because I think their faith is misguided I see all that they are doing as being for nothing. That is why I feel for them.
You think it's fine to kiss 12 year olds, marry them, and marry 14 year olds to their cousins when the 14 year old doesn't want to marry her cousin? People have married their cousins before, why shouldn't everyone else? So what if it's against the law in some states? It was ok before, why the pass the law if it was ok before? Makes sense for Warren to marry anywhere from 50-180 women; after all he's the alpha male? He should be able to develop stable, loving relationships with all those women, and their children to boot, right? He can provide for all those people, even if he has to steal money, buildings and heavy equipment from the church to do it, right? That's what you think?
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I have said over and over that I think Warren Jeffs is mentally ill and he is a terrible "leader" and he is right were he needs to be - in jail.
I dont think that my saying that over and over matters though.
In this case, unless an individual (me) is willing to accept with their mouth wide open EVERYTHING the media is dishing out, that means that individual (me) MUST be pro Warren Jeffs. I find that amazing quite frankly.
So what if he can not feed all those mouths and they have to go on wellfare (not just talkin' TX here; now I'm talking historically about UT and AZ, maybe ND, NV, ID?)
Because I have never attempted to defend the FLDS religion, I have never addressed what they do or do not do in other states. I only made one comment on that a long time ago and that was to say that I did not think they were entitled to
any government help with their chosen lifestyle.
Other people go on wellfare, so it's ok for them too? So what if their lifestyle is against the law? Other people break the law, why shouldn't they? And besides, since it they did it historically, it shouldn't be against the law anyway? Why shouldn't they pull something over on society? They're God's chose and society persecutes them anyway? Even if Jeffs can't remember all the names of his wives, let alone his children, that's ok, right? Who needs a dad who knows your name? So what 49-179 guys have to go without? Seems like a great way to structure a society? Correct? Is that what you think? Or, all ways of structuring a society equal, so why judge? Is that where you're coming from? Why bother educating the kids, they'll never leaved the closed society--unless of course they escape or get thrown out? If some schools in the US are bad, why shouldn't the FLDS undereducate their children too? Is that what you think? So what if a few 12 or 14 year olds get married and pregnant, they're having their periods, so why the fridge not? That's your opinon? What do you think about people who follow this man? You have no problem with it? Or you do? Other religions are bad too, so what the heck? Is that what you are saying? Where are you coming from? What do you think?
Trying to use two negatives to point out a positive is always tricky and obviously I failed miserably in making my point.
What I was trying in my own inept way to say is this -
We as a mainstream society have some of the very problems that we are so "shocked" at the FLDS for having. We have child abuse. The sexual exploitation of children is rampant. We have an extremely poor educational system that promotes children through the system and spits them out with a diploma yet unable to read or tell you where South America is located. There are 20 countries that do a better job of educating their children than we do. And where we statistically start to drop behind is from the 8th grade on. That is where we do the
worst Why arent people indignant about that? A lot more children are put "at risk" by that then are at risk in the FLDS home schooling just based on the numbers alone. So why all the outrage directed in only one direction?