I can't help but wonder...
If Elizabeth was male, and destroyed the apartment, including tearing up/ cutting up the baby clothes- would she have been taken more seriously?
If Elizabeth was a man, and took off with Gabriel, hiding him at the Smith's- would law enforcement have been so lenient, allowing the baby to immediately be returned to her- if she were male?
If Elizabeth were a man, but still had the same history of violent rages and destruction of property, would people have been quicker to call her out on her domestic violence?
And if Elizabeth was male, would it be so hard to believe and accept that 'he' may have killed Gabriel?
If she were a man, who took off out of state with the baby during a custody battle, and then texted and called 'his' girlfriend that 'he' murdered the baby, with everyone knowing 'his' history of violent rages?
I think if Elizabeth were a man, the landfill search would have started over a month ago.
My opinion only, of course.