Lux et Veritas
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IMO
1. we have no independent evidence that OP shouted HHH from the balcony… only OP's word… and the independent objective evidence seems to indicate that the balcony access was blocked at the time with duvet and large fan.
2. I don't believe OP shouted HHH in pure mockery or to create an alibi… I believe that OP was embarrassed/ashamed AND annoyed/frustrated when Reeva screamed HHH…
… in OP's mind it was embarrassing because the neighbors would certainly hear that and OP would have to face those neighbors on a daily basis… plus there is the whole media aspect… the screams for help by Reeva could be leaked in the media and that would be disastrous for OP's sponsors : another incident of violence towards a woman… not good.
… in OP's mind it was annoying and frustrating because he deemed Reeva was overreacting to the situation they were in… OP mimicked Reeva's behavior to show her how "stupid" her reactions were… By shouting HHH, OP reflected onto Reeva her own behavior… this is a very common and well-known mechanism during a couple's heated argument or between children.
It's a bit like :
X : "Stop or I'm calling the police"
Y : "Go ahead call the police"
X : "I'm serious I'll call the police"
Y : "No problem, I'll call the police myself"
In this example X is probably genuine in her threat to call the police if Y's behavior does not stop… but Y is not genuine in his desire for wanting the police called.
Now say that Y shoots and kills X… witnesses say they heard a both a woman (X) and a man (Y) scream for the police…
… can we infer that Y could not have murdered X because he was heard screaming for the police… I think not… same goes for the HHH in OP's case
EXCELLENT, AJ!
Since I fully believe that OP is a narcissist, yelling a mocking "Help! Help! Help!" during a vicious fight is absolutely what a person in a narcissistic rage would do.
If OP did yell HHH from the balcony (I'm voting NO WAY) it must have been in a "soft manner" because the very LAST thing he wanted was immediate help from some random neighbor(s)!!
His strategic plan was to stall everyone else and get buddy Stander to his house FIRST to witness his tragic theatrics.
FWIW, the short page below is definitely worth reading - perhaps a jumping off point for further exploration. (May explain a lot of what we've seen in OP.)
IMHO, the article screams OP. (Remember OP's very nasty, hostile reaction to losing the 200M to Alan Oliveira? Arnu Fourie moving out to another room because OP was screaming and yelling all the time?) Narcissists do a lot of that. They have a pathological need to be right all the time, to win all the time, they hate not being in total control, they hate losing, being called out as wrong or challenged is intolerable and they'll do ANYTHING to avoid it. It's all about EGO and POWER and whatever preserves and boosts it. ... yes, I have close personal experience with a narcissist in my family. lol
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_rage_and_narcissistic_injury