Thread No. 20

[sweetmop]

I suspect we will hear that Jy was taking his lawyer's advice and preserving his constitutional rights...:sick:

There is absolutely no excuse under the sun for this failure to honor or even acknowledge the Mother of his child (children). I don't care how mountain folk do things. JMO

:innocent: I guess I am considered " mountain folk ", though I am a Western transplant to this area, living approximately 30 minutes from Brevard, NC. and I honered my mom on Mother's Day. She was the best mother. A beautiful person, who taught me what is good and fair and right.
I agree that there is no excuse for JY to totally ignore his dead wife on Mother's Day, she was the sweet mother of the child he supposedly loves and adores, and I would lean toward Michelle being the primary caregiver of Cassidy since her birth. JY, we all know was tied up with so many extra curricular activities, that he didn't have as much time to spend with the child, most likely.Michelle, I believe did it all.

It has nothing to do with the vicinity from which you come from or were raised as to how you deal with some common courtesies of life... JY is an a**, and I think he never really loved or respected Michelle. He felt pushed into that marriage, and he felt an anger towards Michelle for taking his " freedom " away from him. He disrespected Michelle in life, why should things change after her horrendous death? Honoring the dead is really for the living, as the dead ones have gone on to a Better Place. Honoring her mother should have been a given for little Casssidy. If Daddy was too big of a b*****d to go and take her to do that, someone in the Young family should have seen to it that Cassidy could go and put flowers on her mommy's grave!
One more thing, you would think that JY's ' super legal eagle ' would have suggested he make a Mother's Day appearence at the cemetary for good PR at least. To look like the grieving and caring spouse, at least. I suppose JY is still just too grief stricken and not able to contain his grief in public. :furious:
I am a mom and a pediatric nurse. I know a little bit about children and the psyche of a child. Dear sweet Cassidy will suffer for many years of her life, as she will have alot of questions and she will want the answers and the truth. I am one of those horrible people who does believe JY is the murderer and he has forever changed who his little girl will be, it is already set into motion.
I don't know what goes on within the home where Cassidy lives, but God love her and bless her, she needs all of our prayers. :blowkiss:

 

[raisincharlie]

Sweetmop,

No disrespect meant by my comment - hope I did not offend you, it was not my intent. I was recalling a Brevardier who claimed things such as grief etc. are never shown in public. I just find it a shame that honoring a lost loved one is apparently not worth showing either. One does not need to make a 5 hour trip to have flowers placed on Mother's Day, or any day for that matter, a simple phone call works wonders. There simply is no excuse - even grief, which honestly I doubt is or ever was involved in this case, ever. JMO. And I agree with your other comments as well.

 

[sweetmop]

Sweetmop,

No disrespect meant by my comment - hope I did not offend you, it was not my intent. I was recalling a Brevardier who claimed things such as grief etc. are never shown in public. I just find it a shame that honoring a lost loved one is apparently not worth showing either. One does not need to make a 5 hour trip to have flowers placed on Mother's Day, or any day for that matter, a simple phone call works wonders. There simply is no excuse - even grief, which honestly I doubt is or ever was involved in this case, ever. JMO. And I agree with your other comments as well.

Oh no RC, I wasn't offended by your words. I know exactly what you're saying and WHO the " Brevardier " is that you're speaking of!
God bless the guy, he so wants to be a friend to JY and believe he's innocent, doesn't he? Where he got his ideas on public displayel of grief, etc., I don't know... let's just say he is soooo confused in so many areas. No RC, you could never offend. I am so sick of all the shenaniganns out of Brevard, their ideas, beliefs and actions offend me! I've got the utmost respect for you and I ageree with most everything you post here.
Just waiting, patiently for the arrest!:banghead:

 

[jilly]

It has nothing to do with the vicinity from which you come from or were raised as to how you deal with some common courtesies of life... JY is an a**, and I think he never really loved or respected Michelle. He felt pushed into that marriage, and he felt an anger towards Michelle for taking his " freedom " away from him. He disrespected Michelle in life, why should things change after her horrendous death? This says it in a nutshell Sweetmop. Honoring the dead is really for the living, as the dead ones have gone on to a Better Place. Honoring her mother should have been a given for little Casssidy. If Daddy was too big of a b*****d to go and take her to do that, someone in the Young family should have seen to it that Cassidy could go and put flowers on her mommy's grave!At the very least, you'd think that if this family had any love for Michelle that they would pick up the phone and send flowers on Cassidy's behalf!!

This family must have really been upset that they even had to attend the funeral. That was obvious the way they stormed into the place like they owned the place glaring at the media. My God - it's unbelievable. Nothing but anger on their faces rather than grief stricken. They didn't mind showing that emotion to the whole world.

The gravesite, as I've read, does not even had a headstone yet. I can imagine LF must be beside herself about this. I know if it was my daughter, I sure would. We have been told that in some places it's the practice to not put down a headstone until the ground settles....well - it's been over 6 months!! I think if I was LF, I'd go to the press about this - keep this in the news so tht jy doesn't get a minute's peace.

Hopefully, there will eventually be a headstone so that Cassidy can at least find her mother when she wants to visit her in a few years....and she will!

This whole thing makes me so :furious: but at the same time, I believe in Karma. I have personally witnessed the lives of a couple of people who have done harm to others go down the drain - losing their jobs, their families and one person even ended up being murdered himself. jy is not going to have an easy life from this point on even though he may think so right now.

 

[scandi]

Hi Sweetmop,

I had no idea you lived that close to Brevard. A nagging thought in some of our minds is that the accoutrements to the crime were hidden or dumped off those trails north of Brevard in the lowlands of the Appalacian Mtns.

If we are thinking of JY for this, he was in Boy Scouts and they would most likelyh have outings and camp there, and also someone in the family has a guide service in that neck of the woods. Do they do white water rafting there? Just curious.

Anyhoo, could you tell us what the terrain is like from Duffield on down to Brevard. For instance, maybe there are more trails that would be easy to access by Brevard, or maybe up by Duffield there are some areas where the road winding down SWesterly towards NC might have areas of drop off at the edge of the road.

I am just trying to get a picture in my mind of what it would be like to drive around those two cities or inbetween, and where you might go to really stash something that you never would ever want to see the light of day again without being seen. For me city dumpsters just don't do that!

Thanks. Ewwww, that was kind of a tall order! Just give basics if you want, OK ;}
Scandi

 

[philamena]

I just don't get it either Strach! I guess I can see with a 3 yr old, that you would want to move her away and let her readjust but I just don't see how a supposed loving husband could not send flowers to the gravesite on Mother's Day on behalf of Cassidy. Out of sight, out of mind, I guess. This guy did not love her at all imo.

I sure hope they're going to be able to charge him but I worry that if they don't have enough now, what could possibly make that possible in the future? If he did this on his own and he keeps his mouth shut forever, I don't hold out much hope.

I'd like to know why there isn't there enough to charge him, you know? He's the husband. The husband who was communicating with another women via the net and the husband was having an affair. Did his alibi check out? I bet it didn't. Something about the time line has to be off.
I'd also like to know what Cassidy said immediately after her mommy was found? What did she say when she saw her dad?

 

[nanandjim]

This family must have really been upset that they even had to attend the funeral...

Didn't they all wear sunglasses to support their son? Why didn't they just tell their son that he needed to show respect and not wear sunglasses to Michelle's burial? That act alone shows me that they didn't care about Michelle. They were all too willing to show total disrespect to Michelle and all too willing to stand behind their relative, even though he was in the wrong in this situation. That speaks volumes to me.

 

[jilly]

I'd like to know why there isn't there enough to charge him, you know? He's the husband. The husband who was communicating with another women via the net and the husband was having an affair. Did his alibi check out? I bet it didn't. Something about the time line has to be off.
I'd also like to know what Cassidy said immediately after her mommy was found? What did she say when she saw her dad?

I'd like to know why there isn't enough too. It can't be this easy to murder your wife - can it???:banghead:

 

[jilly]

Didn't they all wear sunglasses to support their son? Why didn't they just tell their son that he needed to show respect and not wear sunglasses to Michelle's burial? That act alone shows me that they didn't care about Michelle. They were all too willing to show total disrespect to Michelle and all too willing to stand behind their relative, even though he was in the wrong in this situation. That speaks volumes to me.

As far as I remember, all the 'supporting' men wore sunglasses - certainly not his mother. Strange. They're like some aliens from a horror movie. I'd still like to know if jy had a scratch around his eye or something. What a defiant bunch!

 

[strach304]

I was reading some of the defenses given for Jason not honoring Michelle on mothers day and the same ones were given at her b-day and other memorial. But picking up the phone and ordering flowers isn't a 5 hour trip each way was my main point, there is no excuse. I have a brother who grew up basically with two sisters and a mother and that would not fly. This is the first Mothers Day since Michelle has passed, she was also an expectant mother therefore this M-Day is very significant. Cassidy should have been told by Jason that "we sent mommy flowers" or something like that.

This just figures in right along with his real reason for not talking to LE. He's a selfish sub-human narcissist (sp) that cares about no one but himself. I also find it rather ridiculous to see Meredith put down constantly about her weight when Jason's side of the family look like Amazons themselves. No offense meant about overweight people, my own sister is a very big girl. I was just pointing out the hypocrisy.

 

[nanandjim]

...I'd still like to know if jy had a scratch around his eye or something...

Did the police ever get a warrant to photograph Jason's body? I also think that he was hiding something by wearing the glasses. Of course, the members of his family thought that they were being clever to make it a "family" affair. However, it just made me suspicious.

 

[raisincharlie]

Did the police ever get a warrant to photograph Jason's body? I also think that he was hiding something by wearing the glasses. Of course, the members of his family thought that they were being clever to make it a "family" affair. However, it just made me suspicious.

The Non Testimonial Order issued by the court allowed for photographs, voice samples, and numerous forensic type samples to include DNA. Jason had to show up at CCBI before the funeral if I recall correctly, with his lawyer of course.

 

[j2mirish]

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The Non Testimonial Order issued by the court allowed for photographs, voice samples, and numerous forensic type samples to include DNA. Jason had to show up at CCBI before the funeral if I recall correctly, with his lawyer of course.

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[sweetmop]

This family must have really been upset that they even had to attend the funeral. That was obvious the way they stormed into the place like they owned the place glaring at the media. My God - it's unbelievable. Nothing but anger on their faces rather than grief stricken. They didn't mind showing that emotion to the whole world.

The gravesite, as I've read, does not even had a headstone yet. I can imagine LF must be beside herself about this. I know if it was my daughter, I sure would. We have been told that in some places it's the practice to not put down a headstone until the ground settles....well - it's been over 6 months!! I think if I was LF, I'd go to the press about this - keep this in the news so tht jy doesn't get a minute's peace.

Hopefully, there will eventually be a headstone so that Cassidy can at least find her mother when she wants to visit her in a few years....and she will!

This whole thing makes me so :furious: but at the same time, I believe in Karma. I have personally witnessed the lives of a couple of people who have done harm to others go down the drain - losing their jobs, their families and one person even ended up being murdered himself. jy is not going to have an easy life from this point on even though he may think so right now.

Hi jilly, great post! You brought out some really good observations also. The family did hit michelle's funeral like gangbusters, didn't they? The strangest behaviors I've ever seen and you're right ... they appeared quite inconveinienced with the whole service. I think they were very crude and very disrespectful.
I am also a big believer in Karma. And I too have seen {bad} Karma played out in lives. It is not a pretty sight either. JY should be a complete physical, psychological and emotional wreck! Wonder if he is?

 

[sweetmop]

Scandi, Wow! Yep, tall order you asked for! I'm just joking with you! I live approximately halfway between Asheville NC and Brevard NC, it takes around 30 minutes to get to either place. In fact I work in Asheville.
Well, I must tell you that I don't know a thing at all about Duffield, just not familiar with it, in fact I'd never even heard of Duffield until this case. I do have a few friends that live in Brevard, it's a very pretty little town.
Brevard does have many state parks, hiking trails... from beginner to intermediate, lots of beautiful waterfalls too. There are several rivers too and yes there are probably 3 or 4 white water rafting sites. It is a popular area for anything outdoors. If JY chose to dump weapon or anything else, well, the odds are 0 % of ever finding it again. The terrain is very dense, mountainous and aggressive. There's simply no flat ground, just thick and gnarly forest. Did you see the movie, " The Last of the Mohicans "?. Great movie by the way. Well, much of that movie was filmed in the Brevard, Transylvania county area. You can see just how treacherous some of that area is. You can hike into the forest( many trails ), and then come upon a huge granite mountain and a beautiful waterfalls. In fact Brevard is touted as the ' land of Waterfalls '.
I am afraid that if JY dropped the sack of bloodied clothes, tools, weapons that they are all long gone to the human beings of this day and age.
I hope that I somehow helped out with answering a little bit of your questions. You know I just may have to pack up the hubby and kids and go over that way tomorrow.:dance: " Talk " to you later, Scandi.

 

[jilly]

Hi jilly, great post! You brought out some really good observations also. The family did hit michelle's funeral like gangbusters, didn't they? The strangest behaviors I've ever seen and you're right ... they appeared quite inconveinienced with the whole service. I think they were very crude and very disrespectful.
I am also a big believer in Karma. And I too have seen {bad} Karma played out in lives. It is not a pretty sight either. JY should be a complete physical, psychological and emotional wreck! Wonder if he is?

Thanks sweetmop! I enjoy ALL your posts!

Maybe I'm a sucker but it's always been my opinion that he was guilt ridden the first couple of weeks. I agree with RC that when he fell "plumb to his knees" it exhibited blind acceptance and then, I think, for a short time, when reality set in, he may have experienced some remorse with the "crying towel". That coupled with the report we got stating he was walking around Brevard in the early days looking like a "zombie". BUT that's all history now. He's moved on.:furious:

 

[jilly]

Scandi, You know I just may have to pack up the hubby and kids and go over that way tomorrow.:dance: " Talk " to you later, Scandi.

While you're at it, maybe you could treat the kids to Pizza Hut - cause we understand it's a hangout for the Youngs'. :crazy:

By the way, I'd sure like to know how you chose your nic?

 

[Indigator]

I am not surprised by the behavior of Young. He was raised by these disrespectful people and his circle of friends are just as pathetic. The fruit does not fall far from the tree and eventually all of them will reap what they sow. I hope we are all here to see it.

 

[jilly]

I am not surprised by the behavior of Young. He was raised by these disrespectful people and his circle of friends are just as pathetic. The fruit does not fall far from the tree and eventually all of them will reap what they show. I hope we are all here to see it.

Well said Indigator & welcome! And although I haven't really read anything about his immediate friends, I kind of had that feeling.

 

[snowshuze]

Another day, another week....still praying for justice for Michelle Young and baby boy.