Jake, don't try to superimpose your confusion on others !! Some of us have been around quite a long time READING ! We do not all feel the need to post a response to everything said. Most of us have followed other cases and have learned the art of critical reading.
I agree with other posters that some family members and friends should stay away from message boards. They are too close to the case and too emotionally involved.
Try critical posting, Jess. If you want to, of course. I'd certainly be interested.