Tim Miller Speaks Out

[nightfallgypsy]

Ok, does the message say "love you" or " I love you".. anyone from the south can tell you, it is a huge difference. I dont see inappropriate behavior.

 

[MissJames]

I would have to know the amount of time that they spent together to go where you are going. There is social space and intimate space and it appears she has jumped the hurdle too soon. Love what he does, yeah...love him...WHOA! Out of bounds.

I love him and would tell him so,just because he's an amazing person who has selflessly helped so many.He pushes himself to exhaustion trying to bring missing family members home to loved ones.I don't think Teresa meant it in an intimate way,just a grateful way.But that's JMO.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

LOL I guess Southerners are a bit more free with saying "love you. Bye." than other people. Maybe we all need therapy to develop our sense of "boundaries". :waitasec:

 

[MissJames]

I would have to know the amount of time that they spent together to go where you are going. There is social space and intimate space and it appears she has jumped the hurdle too soon. Love what he does, yeah...love him...WHOA! Out of bounds.

I love him and would tell him so,just because he's an amazing person who has selflessly helped so many.He pushes himself to exhaustion trying to bring missing family members home to loved ones.I don't think Teresa meant it in an intimate way,just a grateful way.But that's JMO.

 

[grinchmaiden]

I agree with Stiletto. I say all the time that "I love TM" (SS I have given this alot of thought) But I agree that saying that at the end of her message was not appropriate.

 

[awakewriter]

Snipped from this interview: http://www.thesky973.com/pages/5128823.php

What Tim said about the voice mail messages he was received:

“I’ve got a voice message on my phone that (RC) called his father-in-law and his father-in-law called me and said,’Tim, I thought you came down here to be a friend, but apparently you’re not, because Ronald called me and said if he had $35,000, he could have his daughter home.’”

…

“I am willing to play the voice message tomorrow. I got a voice message from Ronald’s mother I think on the 18th or 19th that said, ‘Tim, Misty won’t even talk to Ronald right now. She’s on secret phone calls and stuff. She’s ready to break. We have to get her. We can get her tomorrow. Please, Tim. Help me, help me. We can get her.’ I’m willing to play that.”

 

[cyberborg]

LOL I guess Southerners are a bit more free with saying "love you. Bye." than other people. Maybe we all need therapy to develop our sense of "boundaries". :waitasec:

It is a European thing too, just affection .... they say darling, honey, hon, love you ..... it is normal.

 

[tehcloser]

Ok, here is my question. After the last couple of days, Misty has to know that Ron and TN are saying she had something to do with it, how are they all still in the same house????????????

 

[stilettos]

LOL I guess Southerners are a bit more free with saying "love you. Bye." than other people. Maybe we all need therapy to develop our sense of "boundaries". :waitasec:

I am a Southerner SS...I say I love you to my very, very close friends...family and never, ever to another man or married man. not appropriate...at least that is the way I was taught.

I may say to my husband...gosh I just love that Tim Miller...If I were single, I may say that to my Mom...never would I leave that type of intimate statement of love to a man on his machine unless it were a serious relationship headed to the future. That's just me though....maybe I was raised differently. Our head therapist at the residential treatment center where our Foster children came from dealt with this exact issue with the female children in therapy. I am repeating his words about appropriate boundaries.

 

[cyberborg]

Ok, here is my question. After the last couple of days, Misty has to know that Ron and TN are saying she had something to do with it, how are they all still in the same house????????????

RC did a LOT of damage control in the media and said he stands by MC 100%, he called everyone else out so who else does MC have to really support her (and maybe has something on her)?

Rock and a hard place.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

TN says "It's definitely time" so does that mean they have had conversations before this call about when it is time to do this search? Misty is running scared, and afraid Ron is talking on the phone to someone about her? TN also says, "I don't know if we can get her out there?". Was this about the search or going to take those tests? Sounds like a place to me, IDK. At any rate it sounds like they have been setting this up for a while. JMO

She didn't say "there" she said "here". I don't think it had anything to do with a search because that didn't come up until after the tests were done when they were off camera according to Steph.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

Phone message from Teresa:

Hey, Tim! It's Teresa. Uhm...it is definitely time. I don't know if you are going to be able to get her out here tomorrow after she gets out of court, but NG is tearin' her up and she is runnin' scared as she can get. Uhm..she does...will not let Ronald walk out of the room while he's on the phone. He walked outside to smoke a cigarette and the minute that he picked up the phone...she ran out there and told him she needed it. Uhm...I think she is runnin' scared so I think it's time. Anyway, give me a call when you get this. Talk to you later. Love you. Bye.

http://www.thesky973.com/pages/5137544.php Click on link to Teresa Neves audio.

 

[MissJames]

I would have to know the amount of time that they spent together to go where you are going. There is social space and intimate space and it appears she has jumped the hurdle too soon. Love what he does, yeah...love him...WHOA! Out of bounds.

There is such a thing as love in a friendship way and a grateful way.I think we are all different as to what is an appropriate time to express love.Some people just can't spit the words out of their mouth,others are rather free with "love you'' s. My daughter says it automatically at the end of each phone call.My MIL has probably never said it to anyone.I'm in between,but I would probably tell Tim Miller I love him if I had a chance.He's an amazing humanitarian. Shoot,people shout I love you to the President!
Not arguing with you,Stilletto.I just think we are all very different in when it's appropriate to say"love you".

 

[stilettos]

So how do we know when TN is lying? When she said Misty was the Second coming of girlfriend's and Motherhood...or now when she infers that she may be culpable. Do any of these people have a familiarity with the truth?

 

[awakewriter]

Snipped from this interview: http://www.thesky973.com/pages/5128823.php

What Tim said about the voice mail messages he was received:

“I’ve got a voice message on my phone that (RC) called his father-in-law and his father-in-law called me and said,’Tim, I thought you came down here to be a friend, but apparently you’re not, because Ronald called me and said if he had $35,000, he could have his daughter home.’”

…

“I am willing to play the voice message tomorrow. I got a voice message from Ronald’s mother I think on the 18th or 19th that said, ‘Tim, Misty won’t even talk to Ronald right now. She’s on secret phone calls and stuff. She’s ready to break. We have to get her. We can get her tomorrow. Please, Tim. Help me, help me. We can get her.’ I’m willing to play that.”

 

[stilettos]

Phone message from Teresa:

Hey, Tim! It's Teresa. Uhm...it is definitely time. I don't know if you are going to be able to get her out here tomorrow after she gets out of court, but NG is tearin' her up and she is runnin' scared as she can get. Uhm..she does...will not let Ronald walk out of the room while he's on the phone. He walked outside to smoke a cigarette and the minute that he picked up the phone...she ran out there and told him she needed it. Uhm...I think she is runnin' scared so I think it's time. Anyway, give me a call when you get this. Talk to you later. Love you. Bye.

http://www.thesky973.com/pages/5137544.php Click on link to Teresa Neves audio.

So when did Misty have a court date that coincides with NG "tearing Misty up?"

 

[Kat]

I just listened to the Big Hank recording. (that's not name calling that's how I keep them straight, big hank and little hank).

Sounded like sour grapes and he was chastising TM to me. It sounded to me like, when one of my kids is in trouble by me and they say ~ Oh yeah? Well "siblings name" did such and such and he didn't get in trouble. etc.. along those lines.

I know I'm late listening to it, but just wanted to throw in my :twocents:

 

[SeriouslySearching]

I am a Southerner SS...I say I love you to my very, very close friends...family and never, ever to another man or married man. not appropriate...at least that is the way I was taught.

I may say to my husband...gosh I just love that Tim Miller...If I were single, I may say that to my Mom...never would I leave that type of intimate statement of love to a man on his machine unless it were a serious relationship headed to the future. That's just me though....maybe I was raised differently. Our head therapist at the residential treatment center where our Foster children came from dealt with this exact issue with the female children in therapy. I am repeating his words about appropriate boundaries.

Yes, I gathered it was coming from a therapist which is why I mentioned it. Not everyone is so cautious with boundary issues or needs to be. Some of us are just casual people who express our feelings at times and it isn't meant to be taken as this undying love which goes into sex, flirting, or other areas. My friends and I use that expression all the time..."Love you, Bye!" when ending a call.

 

[grinchmaiden]

We have all watched this family and inappropriate behavior is no stranger to any of them.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

I just listened to the Big Hank recording. (that's not name calling that's how I keep them straight, big hank and little hank).

Sounded like sour grapes and he was chastising TM to me. It sounded to me like, when one of my kids is in trouble by me and they say ~ Oh yeah? Well "siblings name" did such and such and he didn't get in trouble. etc.. along those lines.

I know I'm late listening to it, but just wanted to throw in my :twocents:

It was exactly what Hank did in that phone call. (I call his son Tommy.)