Time to move on/How best to honor Caylee now *merged*

[LinasK]

It will take a long time for people to get over this... There is nowhere to move on to. Where can we go?? Haleigh Cummings??? Seems people have gotten away with murder there, too. Kyron Horman??? Same story. Haylie Dunn?? Has she even been found yet? I'll admit to not being sure, as I haven't been overly active here since around April... I'm guessing not, and somebody is getting away with murder there, too??

Exactly! This verdict was a travesty and a miscarriage of justice and I'll continue to speak out about it as I did and still do with OJ. If others want to move on and help with other cases, that's great, just don't order the rest of us to do so!

I love the idea of doing something positive, but I don't care for language that tells someone else how they should be feeling or what they should be doing.
Grieving and processing are very different for each individual .Though well meaning, to suggest that someone should" just get over it " or "it's time to move on" can be hurtful to the person that's just not ready.

 

[LinasK]

It's not time for ME to move on. I'm going to sit right here and fume until some kind of justice occurs for this precious little girl. Even if the only justice she ever gets is that thing who gave birth to her can't show her face in public without a crowd calling her out.

That's just how I roll.

Bravo!!! That's exactly how I feel!!!:clap::clap::clap::goodpost:

 

[Italy]

Exactly! This verdict was a travesty and a miscarriage of justice and I'll continue to speak out about it as I did and still do with OJ. If others want to move on and help with other cases, that's great, just don't order the rest of us to do so!

Good for you!

As the saying goes, "Victory belongs to the most persevering".

Through the voices of those who refused to "move on", OJ continues to be recognized as a murderer. The same will be true of Casey Anthony.

 

[Hoodie]

Dear Mr. G,
I hope that you reconsider the idea of publishing a book having yo do with Casey Anthony and the death of her daughter, Caylee.

Instead, I would ask you to do something positive in the name of Caylee. Casey Anthony's lies affected thousands of people. Several hundred of them include the Orange County School students who live in the Anthony neighborhood. Did you know that buses had to drive by the body dumping site everyday? That the Winter program the students had prepared for -for several weeks-was abruptly cancelled due to Casey's not revealing where her garbage bagged daughter was located-and the students lives were changed forever? It was a horrible and heart breaking time for the students and parents.

Instead, please do something worthy of a book publisher and donate a new library building to the school and stock it with children's books and e books and computers.

Change a life in a positive way. Please send out the positive ripples that would change other vulnerable and equally important kids' lives. Do not put money in Casey's pocket and reward her for being an excellent liar.

I beg you to change the world in a positive way. *Your strong voice would change things towards the better.

Thank you,

And I signed it and emailed it

I don't remember which forum posted the USA today article about Trident Publishing fishing for Casey, but I sure do appreciate it!

 

[Hoodie]

Ugh, typos-
I really should reread before I post and send! Sorry if I offend!

 

[RR0004]

Since the verdict I have felt so many things. Hurt, pain, disbelief, shock, anger, bitterness, you name it, I felt it. This is just so WRONG. Movies, stories, even TV shows don't end this way. The villain is not supposed to win over the good guys. I saw Harry Potter this past weekend, and it ended so happily and felt so right. But not this verdict. It is not right, so wrong I can't even put it into words. Evil doesn't win. It wasn't supposed to end this way. Mighty Casey was supposed to strike out, not get out. Over and over, I keep telling myself this, hearing it in my head.

But...it happened, and there's nothing I can do about it. She's out there, God help us all. And yet, I can't seem to totally move on from this. I guess I'm hoping for a sign, something to say that Casey isn't going to become an infamous millionaire living off of her acquittal the rest of her life, something to tell me the devil isn't going to keep reaping rewards from this.

I know she has no motivation to live a normal, settled down life. I know that she'll end up arrested again, maybe even convicted the next time. The waiting is just so horrible. The waiting is killing me. And each day just seems to bring more joy to her and more misery to me. It's just not fair no matter how I look at it. It's just not fair at all that she got away with it. How does this happen? How do we, as a society, set people free because there's no solid, dot connected map or video to show that she did it? When does using common sense, logic, and your gut to make the right decision get shoved off to the side for the sake of entitlement and selfishness?

Justice is not just flawed in this case, it's bent and broken. We'll continue to see verdicts like these in the future, I just know it. We are losing logic and reason to me me me, what is best for me, not justice, but for me, and it's just disgusting. I hope the twelve are able to sleep at night with the law as their crutch, or whatever flimsy excuse they gave. I wonder how they'll feel when she kills again, and they had the chance to prevent it and didn't.

Apparently all you need is a weird family and 31 days, and you're guaranteed an acquittal. How many more cases like this one will now occur? How many more families will be weird and lie on the stand to get their murderous loved one off?

I can't, just can't devote myself to other cases. I was watching Criminal Minds, and an ep came on regarding a child that was kidnapped, and I turned it off. What hurts more than anything is that kids are still expendable, and can be thrown away like trash with no real consequences to the person, most times the parent, that did it. I don't hurt for Casey and whatever the F she does from here on out. I hurt for Caylee, who's lost in all of this, gone like she never existed, a footnote in the life of the Anthony's.

She was and never will be a footnote to me. She is in my heart everyday for the rest of my life. But that's just it, I have to get back to my life, and not let Casey make me miserable. That's not fair to me, not fair to anyone. I have my own life to lead, and I'll be darned if I let Casey continue to get in the way of it.

But it's just so hard, those lingering thoughts, the hurt, the doubt of justice, the doubt in humanity, the want for karma to slap Casey hard...I know it will take time...there's just so much time, almost too much...

I'm just so tired...I don't want to talk about it, defend why I believe she's guilty and the jury was horribly, awfully, dead wrong in their verdict. I don't want to correct facts or posters, don't want to keep hearing about this case or Casey. I'm just tired, and I want to sleep knowing that evil isn't right outside my door...I just can't be sure anymore...this world is just much darker than it used to be, and I hate feeling that way.

I'm just glad I'm not the only one...so many of us hurt for poor Caylee...it is nice to be in a place where people feel like I do. That is helping me move on. That is helping me honor Caylee. We cared when we her family didn't. And we'll continue to care. And you know what? No one, not the Anthony's, not the defense, not even Casey can ever take that from us. And that brings me some measure of peace, maybe the only peace I'll ever get from this case.

What can I do but live, and laugh, and love, and never forget the good and pureness of Caylee and what she could have been and who she could have turned out to be? That is what I must do. That is the only way for me to find true peace and move on...it's just so hard to do right now...

Sorry this was so long. I guess I was talking myself through it all while posting!

We can put a man on the moon but we can't put Casey back in jail?! Surely there's a way...somehow. I promised a little girl who I did not know that I wouldn't leave her until justice was served. I hope to one day be able to release her balloon...and I pray that there is someone out there who will find the biggest government loophole ever and throw her b*tt into prison where she so rightly belongs.

 

[darnudes]

I am sure this wont be a popular thread, but as most of you I am sickened by the verdict, but it is time for us as a group to stand up for another child the way we have for Caylee. There are so many missing and murdered children still out there, so in honor of her lets try to help another.

Totally get what you're saying but everyone has different speeds for coming to terms with things.

I don't know about moving on as such but I've accepted the verdict however, I'll never let Casey Antony forget she had a daughter called Caylee.

 

[denjet]

Originally Posted by Pita
Caylee Memorial To Become Permanent
Walkway, Benches To Be Built Off Suburban Drive
http://www.clickorlando.com/news/28583780/detail.html

I feel this post is the best way to honor Caylee:
Good! That's a really nice way to honor Caylee, kinda like the flowers people left to honor Laci & Connor in Mark Geragos's boat in Scott Peterson's case.
This is one that Lee, Cindy, and George won't be able to tear down and destroy, and the annual walk by their house will be a constant reminder to them of the criminal they helped create and harbor!!!

Although it sounds like a nice idea, please let's be careful not to support any organizations before checking them out ... as we have learned, this case has brought the scum of the earth out to capitalize on this tragedy ...
The website for the organization behind buying the land and paying to do sidewalks and benches looks very hinky to me ...
http://bringkidshome.org/
No details on officers or directors of the non-profit and a lot of their site devoted to Caylee related topics

Just sayin ... it needs to be checked out ... I'm going to do what I can

ETA: I can't find any info on this org ... also the Anthony's were supposed to be started a new non-profit to support thinks like Caylee's Law etc. according to their lawyer and it was supposed to be started today

 

[LinasK]

Although it sounds like a nice idea, please let's be careful not to support any organizations before checking them out ... as we have learned, this case has brought the scum of the earth out to capitalize on this tragedy ...
The website for the organization behind buying the land and paying to do sidewalks and benches looks very hinky to me ...
http://bringkidshome.org/
No details on officers or directors of the non-profit and a lot of their site devoted to Caylee related topics

Just sayin ... it needs to be checked out ... I'm going to do what I can

I was surprised to hear that the landowner of the propery had sold it, I sure hope this is true!!!
Found this on their site, they don't seem to be affiliated with KidFinders...:
[SIZE=-1]General Description?[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]
Bring Kids Home is a volunteer organization that began in 2006 as a research organization on the general subject of Missing and Abused Children, this led to the development of a software application to analyze cold cases and a desire to become more active in the community.[/SIZE] [SIZE=-1]Who Founded Bring Kids Home?[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]
Bring Kids Home was funded through the estate of H. G. Segura a professional welterweight boxer from East Los Angeles. Bring Kids Home is not reliant on donations for operating expenses and is an independent organization.[/SIZE] [SIZE=-1]Is Bring Kids Home Tax Exempt?[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]
Bring Kids Home was approved as a public charity with 501(c)(3) status in August of 2009 by the Internal Revenue Service. You can search for us at this link. An organization must be in good standing to remain in the IRS database.[/SIZE] [SIZE=-1]Does Bring Kids Home Have a Single Paid Executive?[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]
No we are strictly volunteer. We are fundamentally opposed to non-profits that pay large salaries to their executive staff, this defeats the purpose of fund raising to help children. We have no intention of paying executive salaries.[/SIZE]

 

[Melanie]

Well, if you're me - boycott HLN. sent tweets to Vinnie, etc. I am LIVID when turning on HLN today and it's now the Casey Anthony channel. The verdict has been read, the felon is <probably> sipping champagne. Why the need to re-hash the entire trial over and over again. How about looking at the Rebecca Nalepa/and Maxie Shacknai incident where they died in Jonah Shacknai's mansion. Max "fell" off the stairwell last Monday, while Rebecca was found bound in electrical wire hanging from a balcony last Wednesday. That's news -- and it's recent!!!

Oh, there's a thread here on it too!

Hugs,

Mel

 

[denjet]

I was surprised to hear that the landowner of the propery had sold it, I sure hope this is true!!!
Found this on their site, they don't seem to be affiliated with KidFinders...:
[SIZE=-1]General Description?[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]
Bring Kids Home is a volunteer organization that began in 2006 as a research organization on the general subject of Missing and Abused Children, this led to the development of a software application to analyze cold cases and a desire to become more active in the community.[/SIZE] [SIZE=-1]Who Founded Bring Kids Home?[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]
Bring Kids Home was funded through the estate of H. G. Segura a professional welterweight boxer from East Los Angeles. Bring Kids Home is not reliant on donations for operating expenses and is an independent organization.[/SIZE] [SIZE=-1]Is Bring Kids Home Tax Exempt?[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]
Bring Kids Home was approved as a public charity with 501(c)(3) status in August of 2009 by the Internal Revenue Service. You can search for us at this link. An organization must be in good standing to remain in the IRS database.[/SIZE] [SIZE=-1]Does Bring Kids Home Have a Single Paid Executive?[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]
No we are strictly volunteer. We are fundamentally opposed to non-profits that pay large salaries to their executive staff, this defeats the purpose of fund raising to help children. We have no intention of paying executive salaries.[/SIZE]

I'm not finding any info whatsoever on their site ... just vague pages ... they call themselves BringKidsHome ... one word and the site and associated Facebook were created in 2011 ...

This bothers me too ... "An Independent Certified Public Accounting Firm will be overseeing all funds raised in this project"

IMO this org is bogus and should not be supported until looking into it ...

I still haven't found this org listed as a non-profit but I'll keep looking

 

[LinasK]

I'm not finding any info whatsoever on their site ... just vague pages ... they call themselves BringKidsHome ... one word and the site and associated Facebook were created in 2011 ...

This bothers me too ... "An Independent Certified Public Accounting Firm will be overseeing all funds raised in this project"

IMO this org is bogus and should not be supported until looking into it ...

I still haven't found this org listed as a non-profit but I'll keep looking

It's not an impressive website nor an expensive one, I had to dig. I found this info under the Contact page, then About Us FAQ's. Confusing to navigate...

 

[Wishbone]

Restaurateur Jeff Ruby took out a half page ad in the Orlando Sentinel Saturday saying the people of Orlando got the verdict of the Casey Anthony trial wrong. I sent him an email thanking him for what many of us believe. Here is the email he sent back to me&#8230;.

Thank you for taking the time to send me your uplifting comments. Interestingly, some very negative and offensive blogs, emails, etc. have been going around about my opinion and reason for taking out the ad. It meant a great deal to me to hear from you and so many other people from all over America that feel the way you and I do.

Warmly,
Jeff Ruby

 

[Aedrys]

We can put a man on the moon but we can't put Casey back in jail?! Surely there's a way...somehow. I promised a little girl who I did not know that I wouldn't leave her until justice was served. I hope to one day be able to release her balloon...and I pray that there is someone out there who will find the biggest government loophole ever and throw her b*tt into prison where she so rightly belongs.

I wish I was as strong as you are...I love people like you here, you keep me going!

And sadly, no more space program either. Gah, how depressing along with the verdict!

But you're right, hopefully she will one day be back in prison. It's not like she's ever going to be a contributing member to society!

 

[Tiki]

I'm not finding any info whatsoever on their site ... just vague pages ... they call themselves BringKidsHome ... one word and the site and associated Facebook were created in 2011 ...

This bothers me too ... "An Independent Certified Public Accounting Firm will be overseeing all funds raised in this project"

IMO this org is bogus and should not be supported until looking into it ...

I still haven't found this org listed as a non-profit but I'll keep looking

I posted on a different thread abut this. there was a conversation when this was first announced but that thread seems to have been closed. I believe someone found them on an IRS site listing them as a not for profit, but I don't know what it takes to start one. No mention was made of Pastor Eddy DelValle at that time - it was a woman and there had been no activity on their FB page until the Caylee Memorial got started. It seems DelValle supposedly bought the land and then hooked up with them. After that a press release was sent out about the "walk" and all the media started reporting on it.

I one article he was quoted as saying they would start in a few months and finish next year, but on the website disclaimer for buying a brick it sounds like they don't have zoning or even a design yet.
I emailed them today - would have called if there was a #, but there isn't. I haven't heard anything back - not even an auto response.. I think there would have been an uproar from the neighbors.
I get the feeling this is their first project - and it has me concerned.

ETA: MURT ALERT
Well, they have Murt behind them - on his blog - don't know if it's allowed to link.
Murt calls them "nationally known".

.

 

[charok]

i too, am NOT going to accept the jurys verdict,nor am i going to move on anytime soon. imo, casey is getting away w/ murder...seeing her tread to the car, all serious, then that famous, wide cheesy grin of hers as she slips in...like the same smiling, when the verdict read, like a fudge you america...i got away w/ it.ha ha ha...well moutian_kat said it best..
Originally Posted by Mountain_Kat View Post
It's not time for ME to move on. I'm going to sit right here and fume until some kind of justice occurs for this precious little girl. Even if the only justice she ever gets is that thing who gave birth to her can't show her face in public without a crowd calling her out.

That's just how I roll.

i agree 100%....god forbid if she steps foot in ok. im letting her have a piece of my mind( no not violence, due to mods disclaimer about wishing threatening violence) but i will ALWAYS be looking out, and if i should see her, i will call her out( verbally),if she is smart enough to stay away from ok, then i will just simply pray that someday she WILL pay for what she did, even if its on judgement day. i PREFER to see it in my lifetime...only way i can move on. and those who say, thoughts of vengence and revenge, even if its just verbal, or wishing karma will serve her/casey,will lead me to an early grave, well that is MY cross to bear, and i WILL bear it. ALONE
i DID sign the caylees law petition as a peaceful alternate option.

 

[suzyq211]

Restaurateur Jeff Ruby took out a half page ad in the Orlando Sentinel Saturday saying the people of Orlando got the verdict of the Casey Anthony trial wrong. I sent him an email thanking him for what many of us believe. Here is the email he sent back to me&#8230;.

Thank you for taking the time to send me your uplifting comments. Interestingly, some very negative and offensive blogs, emails, etc. have been going around about my opinion and reason for taking out the ad. It meant a great deal to me to hear from you and so many other people from all over America that feel the way you and I do.

Warmly,
Jeff Ruby

I would love to thank him myself!

 

[denjet]

It's not an impressive website nor an expensive one, I had to dig. I found this info under the Contact page, then About Us FAQ's. Confusing to navigate...

no it isn't ... I'm still not finding it under non-profits in Florida ... I'll check around tomorrow but the Anthonys are starting a new non-profit and supporting Caylee's Law etc. so I've been on the lookout for that one ...
There are no new ones with Cindy or George listed on them but they could use a lawyer for the officer/director

Just did a search on the IRS site and NO org with this name exists ! Searched it as 3 words and also as 1 word

IRS Search For Charities

 

[denjet]

I posted on a different thread abut this. there was a conversation when this was first announced but that thread seems to have been closed. I believe someone found them on an IRS site listing them as a not for profit, but I don't know what it takes to start one. No mention was made of Pastor Eddy DelValle at that time - it was a woman and there had been no activity on their FB page until the Caylee Memorial got started. It seems DelValle supposedly bought the land and then hooked up with them. After that a press release was sent out about the "walk" and all the media started reporting on it.

I one article he was quoted as saying they would start in a few months and finish next year, but on the website disclaimer for buying a brick it sounds like they don't have zoning or even a design yet.
I emailed them today - would have called if there was a #, but there isn't. I haven't heard anything back - not even an auto response.. I think there would have been an uproar from the neighbors.
I get the feeling this is their first project - and it has me concerned.

ETA: MURT ALERT
Well, they have Murt behind them - on his blog - don't know if it's allowed to link.
Murt calls them "nationally known".

.

Thanks Tiki! It has me concerned too ... You've just confirmed my suspicions ... It's more than hinky ... and their website is very, very hinky ... It could be the Anthonys or some other scammer ...
All I know is they are NOT in the IRS database for the country and they are NOT in the Forida database either ...
I just hope not too many people are scammed by this ...

Not only is their no justice for Caylee, there are creeps around every corner trying to make a buck off of her ... disgusting ... :maddening:

ETA: Just noticed your Murt Alert ... gawd ...

 

[Tiki]

no it isn't ... I'm still not finding it under non-profits in Florida ... I'll check around tomorrow but the Anthonys are starting a new non-profit and supporting Caylee's Law etc. so I've been on the lookout for that one ...
There are no new ones with Cindy or George listed on them but they could use a lawyer for the officer/director

Just did a search on the IRS site and NO org with this name exists ! Searched it as 3 words and also as 1 word

IRS Search For Charities

I did find it - based in Bellevue WA - not NY as was stated.
http://www.irs.gov/app/pub-78/searchFromResults.do?nameSearchTypeStarts=false&names=bring+kids+home&nameSearchTypeAll=true&city=&state=All...&country=USA&deductibility=all&dispatchMethod=search&searched.nameSearchTypeStarts=false&searched.names=bring+kids+home&searched.nameSearchTypeAll=false&searched.city=&searched.state=All...&searched.country=USA&searched.deductibility=all&searched.sortColumn=name&searched.indexOfFirstRow=75&searched.isDescending=false&submitName=Search

I still find it suspicious even tho the website says they got some "famous" designer from Orlando to design the memorial.
If there is no design yet, they can't have zoning approval, I don't think, so IMO they ought not be soliciting funding.

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More info:
Contact person T Segura Bellevue WA
a person named <mod snip> - lived in WA and NJ) produced the Caylee Memorial video

http://www.melissadata.com/lookups/np.asp?ein=263337415

and on guidestar as located in Sussex, NJ

http://www2.guidestar.org/ReportNonProfit.aspx?ein=26-3337415#