Brini
Future Irene Adler
- Joined
- Aug 28, 2008
- Messages
- 7,522
- Reaction score
- 0
Hi All:
I went to a dinner and a movie, got back and read what happened.....
Whew. How to say this w/out throwing more gasoline on the thread......
My intention w/ my posts this afternoon was not to drive TP away. I think I am the one who did. I started it w/ my post about not being enlightened. I had hoped I was trying to convey w/ respect why I am confused and frustrated. I understand that there are those of you who really don't mind getting the info we have from Tony in the way he feels he should and can at this time provide it. With respect, I see it completely differently. I know he is a member, just like us, but IMO, he is a person involved in this case (although minimally as compared to some) and so I thought the bar should be a little higher w/ his posts--realizing that in answering some questions and not others and having to be cryptic w/ some answers would cause confusion. (I wasn't here when Yuri was, so I don't have a frame of reference for that.) I don't have anything to offer any of you, except my opinions and musings. He does, and so perhaps unfairly on my part, I am expecting more from him. I was not angry, more confused than anything else. I know we are not entitled to have this info, and many of you view it as a gift. I'm deeply sorry that I ruined that for you. That was not my intention at all. I was trying to convey something w/out being brutal. Direct and very to the point, absolutely. That's my style. My husband would probably sympathize w/ Tony and a lot of you.....
But if it would get him back here for you, I will bow out of this thread. (And not in a huff or a snit, which is so not me.) Maybe it's for the best. A very few of my fellow WS members "get" me and what I was trying to say, but the majority of you were not questioning his motives for posting, so that should win out.
Again, I am sorry I drove him away. I'm a straight shooter, a very cynical person who likes bottom lines. It is not the first time it has landed me in a situation like this.
So, Tony, if you are reading.....come back for the members who had great questions for you and were looking forward to more time with you. I am sorry you felt you have to leave.
I don't think it was all you, honey.