paperwing
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Yes it is.
And having gone thru the exhausting pain of infertility, I am so sensitive to families who are waiting for their blessings.
Aaaaaand to bring this back OnT:
I feel like Jodi could have easily turned the oral/anal party into a full on vaginal/ejaculatory shindig with minimal effort. And perhaps she did. Only two people REALLY know and one has been murdered.
But even if she HAD managed to get TA to ejaculate into her erm, vagina, there is no guarantee she'd come up with two blue lines. Unless this is a Lifetime movie.....
Frayed... no, I don't know - personally - what going through that is like, but I will say that I sooo sympathize and feel for those who do with every fiber of my being, every part of my soul... to the extent that I can. I don't know how I'd cope... One aspect about it that bothers me is how others feel like it's appropriate to ask a couple (or a person!) when they're going to have a kid already! For someone struggling with fertility problems, that has to just make it that much more painful. And there seems to be a societal stigma that is just wrong. Okay, I'd better shut up on this now and try to get back o/t too:
Re: JA ever being pregnant (or rather, having a child) who knows if she's been pregnant or not besides JA herself -
Only three words come to mind whenever this comes up:
Munchausen's by Proxy (sp?). I don't know if it would clinically fit her (psychopath/sociopath imv), but she would not have the capability to nurture - except to receive external accolades... which leads me to making the stretch as seeing her taking it further (to get money - SS/Disability, sympathy, attention, etc.). I don't think she'd hesitate harming anyone if she thought she'd benefit from it personally).
I would not be comfortable with JA being responsible or the guardian/parent of *any* child and I honestly don't see her understanding the blessing that having a child through whatever means... really is. Or the blessing that IS the child him/herself. That component is missing in her imv.
((hugs))