The below quote pretty much sums it up IMO
thank you. Thought as much

The below quote pretty much sums it up IMO
Me too, Leilei, me too. Manic is not happy, and ITA with your synopsis!
this is why they have purple
Did ALV, in fact, interview Jodi?
This feels almost like a mistake! Are they going to throw a curve and this is the lead up? I thought this was to be the DT's star witness? WTF?
I like this witness, and she definitely knows what she's talking about in terms of all the various forms of abuse. I am really eager to hear how she relates this to Travis and Jodi. I would be surprised if she makes a flat out conclusion that Travis was an abuser -- maybe she'll couch it as Travis having more power in the relationship and Jodi's perception. A lot of what she will be relying on will be what Jodi has relayed to her, but there are other pieces of evidence besides Jodi's word that she can point to as well.
For example, Travis not wanting Jodi to spend time at Rachel's, Travis joking about why Jodi would want to spend time with her family, telling her not to write things in her journal, the names Travis called her and ultimately telling her she's the worst thing that ever happened to her, Travis getting mad at her for hanging out with John "" because he was not in the church, etc. Those are all things that can be found in her journals or in the text messages between Travis and Jodi.
And I hate to say it, but those behaviors of Travis' are unhealthy behaviors and are not appropriate in a romantic relationship. Obviously, the healthy thing to do would be for Travis to leave the relationship if he was unhappy with Jodi's behaviors. Travis did have more power in the relationship, but that does not mean he was abusive -- especially in this situation because Jodi was constantly doing the passive aggressive stuff to hurt Travis and sabotage his life.
I'm not particularly worried because there are so many behaviors of Jodi's that Juan can ask her about that clearly fall within her continuum. And besides that, there's nothing that remotely would cause Jodi to fear for her life when she murdered Travis.
Interesting.... like what things have you observed?
So lets see at this point we have an Abuser as one who:
1-Isolates their victims from friends and family--------x for Jodie
2-abuses animals------------------------------------xfor Jodie
3 threatens suicide as a tool for control--------------x for Jodie
4-Retaliation for time given to others-----------------x for Jodie
5-intrusive knowledge of personal communications----x for Jodie
.....and Oh Yea, physical abuse to the tune of 28 STAB WOUNDS, BULLET TO THE HEAD AND A SLASHED THROAT! I know I missed more, but I would say that Mr. M has a good start on cross.:jail:
I didn't know that, I just had two small grandchildren diagnosed with epilepsy. And just got a call from my daughter, My granddaughter is on life support. The dr's are giving her 20% survival.
Reading here to keep my mind busy.
I've wondered if JA is jealous of her mother & twin aunt. Might explain some of the twin dressing between JA & Willmott? MOO
I couldn't see if JA's mom was wearing the ribbon but EVERYONE to the left of Auntie was wearing the ribbons too.
I've wondered if JA is jealous of her mother & twin aunt. Might explain some of the twin dressing between JA & Willmott? MOO
I agree. I think when she starts comparing and trying to apply to TA the whole thing will fall apart. She might just cross over. jmo
Property destruction? Like Jodi stealing and destroying Travis' journals? Hmmm??? Slashing tires? hmmmm???