Seriously, the judge is not doing anything wrong. It is extremely frustrating to us and the jury and the courtroom observers. But the judge is doing her job. She CANNOT force Jodi to sit in court sick - even if Jodi is lying (which she most probably is). The defendant has the right to be present and assist her counsel with her defense. The judge can, if prepared, make alternate arrangements for the defendant to monitor the trial, i.e., from an alternate location. That would have to include her attorney being present with her - so Nurmi and Wilmont would have to split up. There would have to be a contingency plan.
While I get frustrated with how slowwwwwwwwwww this trial has moved along, from what I have see, outside of the Judge sustaining some things or overruling some things that I disagree with, she is doing a good job. I work for a judge. If you think YOU are tired and exhausted from this trial, I can guarantee you that listening to the courtroom antics and separating the opposing teams from a school yard fight day in and day out is truly mentally exhausting for the judge.
Sorry. Didn't mean to rant on.