My dad, brothers & husband ~ all relatively sensitive guys, at least most of the time, but ~ I am CERTAIN ~ if they were on this jury, all the talk about relationships & "feelings" would make them SO ANGRY right now! And once they had the opportunity to deliberate ~ they'd waste NO more time discussing whether she "felt" a certain way about things.. It would be ALL about premeditation (i.e. gas cans) and the number of stab wounds & gun shots. Period.. All is not lost ~ this stupid crap about "relationships" blah, blah, blah ~ they're gonna take it out on her, I'm sure of it.