Ok, that was definitely weird!
Oh! I thought Soozie was joking when she posted that! (I missed half of this stuff in the trial today, because of bad streaming) .. oh my goodness!

Ok, that was definitely weird!
I think his emotion lends a great deal of credibility to his account. There's simply no evidence that he intended to kill Reeva or flew into a rage at 3:00 a.m. and killed Reeva as a result.
I know that many really want his story to be false; they want him to be guilty; they don't want this to be a tragic and irreparable accident. But the evidence is just not there.
Oscar's testimony seemed truthful.
Honestly, how many cases have you heard of when someone's accidentally 'killed' someone, realises they're still alive, and yet doesn't bother to get them any help at all? I cannot accept that he thought she was still alive and just sat there while her life was extinguished. He denied her medical help when she most needed it, although that's depending on whether she was actually alive or not. I can't tell when he changes what he's said. Maybe Nel can get to the bottom of it. All I know is that instinct should propel you to get help for the person, not just sit there while they're dying. He was collected enough to ring Stander though.Believe me, when you discover someone in such a condition, even if to the rest of the world there is no hope, you tell yourself it's not happening, your instincts take over and you say and do anything to make it 'not true'.
I don't think most people have any rational control over themselves, you can be the calmness most collect person in everyday life.....but when faced with such horror you fall apart.
One minute ok,...the next not! Human nature.:twocents:
Nel said: "There is no evidence to support Pistorius' burglar claim".
So I'd say that was a tad more than 'maybe'...
Perhaps it would be prudent to wait till Nel's actually questioned OP before deciding that he has no case.
He knows more about it than you or I do, after all.
No. He really said that!! I think I'd be too embarrassed to admit that if it were me :floorlaugh:Oh! I thought Soozie was joking when she posted that! (I missed half of this stuff in the trial today, because of bad streaming) .. oh my goodness!![]()
Only thing with that is, there is no evidence to support the State's premeditated murder claim :-\
So not many hearts or minds have been changed by Oscar's testimony. I suspect that those who already found him guilty would be smearing him no matter how he came across on the stand.
Those who think he's innocent don't take any notice of the witness testimony, even though the witnesses have no reason to lie, and OP has every reason. The witnesses are part of the evidence that OP knew who he was shooting.There is the testimony of several reputable professional people who heard an altercation and then gun shots.
He was immediately expressing extreme sorrow and regret. This is not something that has just now been ginned up for trial.
Perhaps that is because most adults do it in private. Coming unexpectedly across my fiancé dead of a heart attack, I let out blood curdling screams, I cursed at God and I screamed words that I am ashamed at to this day - and I believe all the neighbors heard as it was spring and the windows were open. FOR DAYS AND NIGHTS afterwards they heard me in my neighborhood doing the same thing. I've never screamed so loud and long and talking/screaming before or since..... for days and nights. NOTE: If you have a friend who has a death of a close one, do NOT let them be alone
But you are VERY on target for one thing, I was protesting his death, and wanted to be comforted - but it was beyond reach. .......ok, enough of that and back to Reva.
Yeah, within his testimony he's reaching out to ONE PERSON to identify with him perhaps (therefore the strange reference to the Israeli dance/judiasm?...gotta get religion in there)
He did show a great deal of emotion. But his initial emotional testimony was all about HIMSELF. HE had nightmares, kept smelling blood, couldn't sleep, etc etc. Poor Oscar. :violin:
I think that was what put me off so much. His initial apology could have been more Reeva oriented. It could have been one in which he took the blame and held himself accountable. But he appears to be throwing everyone else, including Reeva herself, under the bus. If she had only closed the doors like he asked her to do before she fell asleep, he wouldn't have had to shoot her?![]()
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Reeva also texted in this context: "... and you are a nice guy."
It seems, somebody had claimed the opposite of "nice guy" this morning/afternoon. Why should Reeva ever have written that sentence? A financial meeting with great problems I don't believe. There have to be some other problems than "well being" and "money" - something that had offended him personally. IMO
There is the testimony of several reputable professional people who heard an altercation and then gun shots.
The way OP was sobbing sounded like genuine grief to me. In my own life, when I've experienced the loss of a loved one, my voice sounded very similar and deeper than it typically sounds when I've cried at other times that didn't involve such a life-altering loss. The only times in my life when I've cried like that have been after my father passed away, after my mother passed away, and after a close friend's death.
I recognized the pain in OP's voice when he broke down. It's a pain that comes from one's core.
I think he regrets his actions.
I don't need to think of OP as an unfeeling monster in order to also believe that he deserves to be punished for killing Reeva.
I don't feel sorry for him, even though I believe his pain is genuine.
OP is 100% responsible for shooting Reeva. OP is 100% responsible for the sorrow he has caused Reeva's parents. Despite his own suffering, Reeva deserves justice.
What troubles me about his emotional state is that he seems to have moved on in his normal life. RS death is now 14th months ago. I would expect him to be upset but not out of control after this length of time. It just doesn't ring true when one reads he is out partying, holidaying with friends, has a new girlfriend, seen joking with he lawyers at lunch in the last few days.
Yup, that is all classic DV stuff.
There is the testimony of several reputable professional people who heard an altercation and then gun shots.