TipDog
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While I can understand and sympathize with all of that, I find it incredibly disrespectful to Reeva's family and friends. They have been sitting over there listening to the same things that OP and his family/friends have been. Reeva's family and friends have behaved very admirably IMO. They have actually lost Reeva, forever. Reeva will never come back, not in 25 years, not in 15 years, NEVER. If OP goes to prison for the crime that HE committed, his family and friends will have him back. They will still be able to see him, talk to him, etc. If the judge feels that Aimee should be allowed to stay in the courtroom then perhaps Aimee should be told to stop the theatrics. If Aimee can not comply, then she needs to watch the trial unfold at home on the tv so that she can mourn however she sees fit without it affecting the family of the true victim in this case.
MOO
I get where you are coming from, but you're judging from a very removed stance.
Remember that Reeva's family lost her over a year ago. They actually are showing what is more normal for most humans with respect to the grieving process. They've accepted that she's gone forever.
I do not believe that June Steenkamp is holding anything together and "behaving." She just is composed because the moment of utter, life-shattering loss of a daughter has already passed. I'm in no way saying that the loss is any less today than then, but in the normal grieving process, she has already hit all the stages. Now, she wants answers. And also, not trying to be petty here, I believe the Steenkamps simply have more class and education than OP's family. Stoicism is a more natural behavior for someone who is more interested in facts than emotions.
And to this point - the over the top grieving is also why many people are questioning OP's outbursts in court. He too lost Reeva (accidentally killed/intentionally murdered, doesn't matter which) over a year ago. He was there. So, why all the puking and crying and grieving now? Not normal, not in the least - and not genuine. No - he's now grieving for the potential loss of his own freedom, is more like it.