I agree..I would take the chance of incriminating myself in the sex related charges in order to make it VERY CLEAR that i DID NOT kill my child deliberately! (if I didn't)
That's the kind of choice Ross made after Stoddard read him his rights and he didn't immediately invoke.
If there's anything this particular trial has taught me, it's how easy it is for people to make initial judgements based on their certainty they can just KNOW someone is guilty because they're not showing their emotions "correctly."
I can imagine what I would have read here if he took the stand. It would have been impossible for him to convince folks here who "know " he's guilty of anything, much less of his innocence, and where it counts, in that courtroom, he would hsve risked not doing the emotion thing right- again - and being put away for life.