texashello
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I'm local, I'm a mom, I know some Saginaw LE and they are wonderful but I want to know who took this precious baby girl!
This reminds me, earlier I was wondering about all the unsolved child disappearances/murders. Which column do those go in, in terms of family/non-family? Do they not get counted at all? Would the numbers look scarier if unsolved/no body cases were counted? If the family gets fully cleared (does LE ever fully rule out any family in absence of perp?), does the abduction go in the "stranger" column even without a suspect?
I think since Alanna was found murdered, if her parents were doing the media rounds, there would would be a lot of criticism of them. People would wonder why they are on TV so soon after hearing that their child was found dead, if LE says it an isolated case, why are they talking to the public/media, etc. I think people don't expect the parents of a murdered child to constantly be giving interviews and there would be some eyebrow-raising if they were.
This reminds me, earlier I was wondering about all the unsolved child disappearances/murders. Which column do those go in, in terms of family/non-family? Do they not get counted at all? Would the numbers look scarier if unsolved/no body cases were counted? If the family gets fully cleared (does LE ever fully rule out any family in absence of perp?), does the abduction go in the "stranger" column even without a suspect?
Although hundreds of thousands of children are reported missing every year, about 115 are cases in which a child is abducted by a stranger and killed, held for ransom or taken for another reason. Kyron's case, though still unsolved, falls in this category, said Ernie Allen, president of the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children.
I have to ask, and this is in general
I would much rather see the killer be a family member , rather than some unknown whack job.
Why do people hope that it is an unknown whack job over a family member?
I have to ask, and this is in general
I would much rather see the killer be a family member , rather than some unknown whack job.
Why do people hope that it is an unknown whack job over a family member?
The family has a relationship with a child. It is personal.
I forget the reasons given for the killing of a child by a family member, but it is because of the relationship. Not that it is OK, but it's about them, not my child.
If it's a whack job, -anyone is at risk and they can strike anywhere at anytime. I hope there are not a lot of them around.
It is tempting to identify with people based on some characteristics. I travel a lot in foreign countries and. one of the things to know is just because someone speaks English, that does not make them a good person. Not that they may not be a good person. It is so easy to assign goodness to people that you feel that you bond with over some things.
I have three family/friends who have been murdered over the years. None of them were super close to me but of course I knew them. What I have seen with their direct family members doesn't match when you see the desperation of family with a missing person.
If my child was missing, I'd be everywhere where someone would listen to me to do whatever it took to get them home. When you have them home deceased, I don't know that it matters as much to the parent or adult child or whatever (comparatively) that justice is served. Many of my family members have stated they have to forgive or let it go because the negativity of it in an ongoing way taints their memories of their loved ones.
The closest family member to me who was murdered remains an open and unsolved case and it just is to the family. He's buried, they have a place to visit, they had a way to grieve. But finding his killer is not high on the list of things for them (of course, it has been 25 years). They still call LE twice a year to see if there has been anything new but honestly, he's gone and finding and punishing that person isn't going to bring him back.
I have a feeling this sounds like it doesn't matter and IT DOES. But compared to putting your faces out there to find a missing Alanna, I don't see it the same way.
I think there are plenty of whack jobs out there and I'd rather see it be one of those, then taken off the street than to imagine family could do something so horrific.
Family is valued in our society.
And, in my experience with my own family/friends, it was a whack job each and every time. One was solved, the female member still unsolved but suspected victim of a serial killer and the third that I mentioned upthread was passing a bar when he was stabbed. It is suspected he may have made a comment to somebody who was drunk and got killed.
I have to ask, and this is in general
I would much rather see the killer be a family member , rather than some unknown whack job.
Why do people hope that it is an unknown whack job over a family member?
Some questions
So was someone driving down the road or sitting at home or visiting, and they see Alanna and say,"Gee. I have nothing to do today. Maybe I should grab that kid."
Or, did someone plan to get a kid and go driving around with supplies.
Or, did some watch her and know she was often unsupervised and plan to get her one day?
I just think someone would be prepared because they were thinking about this kind of actvity
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