My point is there is a double standard here. We are excusing the behavior of one, while even possible accusing the other of lying. We don't know what she told HF, just like we don't know what he told his parents. What we do know is she was gone from her home from 4 days no call and text and he was for 3 extra days. I find it very hypocritical to excuse one behavior and not the other. But that is me. Know, you know more than we do, so I understand why you may feel differently.
YES. ^^^ and there it is.
That is exactly what I meant by cherry picking.
However, I, too, understand why some feel differently.