Families that truly care search. They put up flyers themselves. They get the word into the community and advocates within the community amplify it. They hold rallies. They organize search parties. They turn it into a thing that demands media coverage.
If they have enough money to live on then yes.
But if they don't... if all the family and friends are poor, and don't have any luck with finding someone who would help their efforts then they are just hitting one wall after another. Not everyone who tries succeeds, even with noticeable efforts.
What are you saying is just hurtful. It's not like everyone borns with knowledge about how to effectively advertise their search efforts for missing loved one. Even now, and it was much harder back then.
Many people who do these things are doing them because they learned that this is the right way, that other families do that, that even if they can't afford thousands of flyers and walking around to plaster them all around they can ask, and try to find someone who would print them for free, help to distribute it between their friends and acquaintances
The process was the same in 1989 as it is now only the media has changed. The kids that went missing in my community from the 80s had posters up for the duration and even though they're in NamUs and Doe and Charlie and have their own Facebook group with thousands of mostly local members, I STILL see posters for them too sometimes.
Yeah, and I'm saying that not all people and kids who went missing and were loved had that.
To imply that the authorities are the only ones that did not place this case at a high priority is tantamount to accusing them of dereliction of duty and corruption.
I didn't implied that, at least not before you mentioned that Triquika seems to be low priority to both, LE and family. Then I theorized.
IF they placed this case at low priority then accusation of dereliction of duty and corruption is appropriate in my opinion.
Maybe they didn't.
Maybe there was something else at play here to cause such long way for Triquika to wait for her name back and it wasn't in any way LE's fault.
I said that I hope that they are on their way to solve this case now.
But if they knew about her going missing even back then (which I don't know if they do) and somehow messed that up for years in their own jurisdiction there is something seriously wrong with that.
We don't know how Triquika's family situation looked like. What if she had only 60 yo overworked, sickly Grandma caring for her, without the slighest idea how and where to look for her?
What if it was simmilar like with that poor Asian girl, who got murdered near her home after she had a fight with her father who had such overgrown ego that he assumed that she ran away, disrespected him and forbade anyone to even mention her, lying here and there that she moved in with her aunt, simultaneously cutting that aunt out of family basically? She was missed, she was loved, but decades went by before that part of family who cared about her figured that all out.
Saying that family doesn't care or see it as low priority implies that attitude towards whole family - while some could be lied about her whereabouts, cut off from contacts for asking too many questions, threatened, not adjusted to new media or dead since before or not long after her going missing.
As far as LE is concerned, family members could be involved with the fact that child/someone went missing or ended up dead. And if they have a murder victim they know for sure that murderer is out somewhere.
LE can't die out in 30 years, while the only relative of the victim could, so bit more responsibility on them - IF they knew and SINCE they knew, whenever it happened that they learned about Triquika.