I don't dread your questions. I just don't want to stir things up to a frenzy and start an argument.
It is hard to answer this particular question - because everyone loves someone that another person might not have any use for. But I will give it a go. I am putting a disclaimer smack dab in the middle though that this is coming out of my mouth, not Billie's. Shawn is funny, and I have heard Billie talk about how sweet and caring he is. They have gone through ups and downs like anyone else (although maybe more extreme), and she feels like she can count on him. The kids were not scared of him. While of course I have not had the opportunity to talk to Hailey about this, DD has not given any indication that he dislikes Shawn. I dont really know what else to say, because I cannot just reach into Billie's heart and pull her feelings out.
And of course there is the fact of not wanting to believe that someone you love can do something awful..... but it is more than that. Maybe Billie is in denial, as so many people say, but I don't see it. She knows him, and for whatever reason feels in her heart that he is not capable of hurting her kids.
Hi there! Please don't answer these questions if you feel they are too personal ok? I don't want to step over any bounds of break TOS.
1.Does Billie have any idea then who would take Hailey? Can she think of anyone? (God bless Hailey who's been missing almost a month.

2.IIRC you said you met Shawn a while ago. Did you know that Shawn was a fan of slasher films and liked to scare people?
3.Did you know that Shawn collected mask like those worn in some horror movies?
I'm curious about what Shawn may have shared with you about himself.
From personal experience, I've met people who would tell you their life story in 10 minutes. lol Just wondering if Shawn was that type of person.
TIA