My thoughts exactly
To add to that, we’ve seen quite a few cases where daddy or mommy are the rescuers. Sometimes the first call. Jason Young. Michelle Parker. Chris Watts. Patrick Frazee. Scott Peterson.
My thoughts exactly
I've only read the transcripts; but yes, you're correct !That's interesting.
In one interview (I know, as I watched it several times) he says clearly first that the purse and wallet were left in the house.
Then he clearly says -in that same uncut interview - that they were left "in the car" and he makes a big deal of that.
That's not a small "I was nervous so I got mixed up" issue. That's major.
BINGO !.......What was left in that car if anything ?.....mooWhat happened to found left in the car?
I keep thinking he may have taken a nap and didn't want to tell LE in case it made him look bad ?
Nothing wrong with that.
Did he go anywhere in that time span of arriving home and getting the call from school to pick up their son ?
Or her purse. Left upstairs, or wait was left in her car???? With unlocked doors,which he emphasized he always told her keep locked. So hard to remember such crucial details.. purse upstairs/ in her car. It's like Shroedingers purse.No way she wouldn't have the diaper bag with her IMO. A newborn needs changed alot. I think if she did make it home, she wasn't there for very long IMO
BBM I usually agree with you but I respectfully disagree with you here.I keep thinking he may have taken a nap and didn't want to tell LE in case it made him look bad ?
Nothing wrong with that.
Did he go anywhere in that time span of arriving home and getting the call from school to pick up their son ?
Would she be checking her mail so early ? assuming she got home from the book fair around 8:15 (this is my guess based on the phone call he said he had with her on the $25 spent) and the school was only 3 miles (posted upthread)? I guess she could be getting the prior day's mail or maybe they have a really early mail delivery?
Yesterday I completely disregarded the rumor that the door was wide open because no one could find a source, although it is still unconfirmed at least we now know where it came from. I now find it very disturbing that he did not immediately call the police, while yesterday I was not convinced he should have been immediately concerned.
I am speechless!!!Casually mentioning that your fiancée and newborn daughter have been missing for five hours without a car, diaper bag, carseat or purse (with money) and phone has gone to voicemail since 1:40 pm?
Doesn’t make sense to me.
The issue with calling dad first is the context of the call. The way he described it is he came home before 2, and they were gone, with key things left behind. He’s then strangely silent on what he did for the next five hours but he got a call at 6:00 pm from school/daycare to state his son had not been picked up.
So at this point he should be aware that something is very wrong. Because she is the one who picks up their son. Or if he was supposed to then why the hell didn’t he?
In any event, it’s been five whole hours of no contact. Phone goes to voicemail. Diaper bag left behind. Purse with money left behind. Car seat and car left behind.
And now he learns his son has also been left behind. No fiancée rushing through the door with baby, “Oh my gosh I lost track of time!! I can’t believe she slept this long. Can you feed and change her? I’ve got to rush to pick up S!!!”
Nothing. It’s silent. She’s not there. Baby is not there. And son has been left at school and not picked up.
But instead of walking over quickly to the friend/neighbor to see if she’s there, he goes to pick up son. Instead of immediately calling 911, he goes to pick up his son.
Ok. Partially not too incomprehensible because he likely wanted to get there quick and avoid late charges and not have a sad kid sitting there for longer than he had to.
But now he has his kid. He had a chance to question the daycare people. He returns home. What does he do? Because he comes home and she is. still. not. there.
No baby. No partner. No calls. No texts.
Does he dash over to the neighbor’s at the point? No. He doesn’t say that. Does he call around to her friend’s at that point? No. Nothing. Does he call the police? No.
He makes a sandwich.
And then what? Then he finally starts calling friends. And not finding her, not seeing her, knowing her car, purse and money, car seat and diaper bag have been left behind, son not picked up, phone has been going to voicemail since 1:40 p.m. with NO calls or texts, he still doesn’t call police. He calls his dad.
That’s the context.
You know if he had made that call to dad around 3? After searching for her and calling friends? I’d get it. “Dad it seems really weird here. All her stuff but her phone is here but she and the baby are gone. I called her friend’s. Went to the neighbor’s. No one has seen her. Phone is off. I’m getting worried. Am I being crazy? Should I call the police?”
I’d get that. But my God. Five hours later under those circumstances? Asking daddy what to do five whole hours later? Shouldn’t he know what to do as a parent and an adult under those circumstances? Shouldn’t he be panicked?
You know I’d even understand, “Dad! Get over here! I’m freaking out. Something is wrong! She never came home and didn’t pick up our son! I fell asleep thinking she would come home but she didn’t. It’s been five hours! I’m calling the cops. Please come over. I don’t think I can handle this.”
But that’s not what happened. According to SC his dad told him to wait a bit longer to see if she would show up...and he did.
He didn’t call the cops until six hours after they went missing.
That brings me to another paradox one no one has been able to adequately explain to me. He knew his wife didn’t have her car. He said this was the first day she had Margot on her own outside the home. Did he expect her to pick up their son? If not, why didn’t he? Why did the school have to call before he collected his child.
If he did expect her to pick up their son, how did he expect that to occur when she didn’t have a car or car seat? Walk? After being gone for five hours? With no purse or diaper bag?
And again, no panic when his son’s school calls to say mommy never came?
A lot is not making sense to me.
If it's Kindergarten he may even have a half day. They may have waited a few hours? We have half day Kindergarten here.If school was released at 3, unless the kid was in an after school program, there is no way they waited 3 hours before calling someone else to pick the son up from school. Waiting 1 hour even would be unusual unless the school is just super busy after hours and no one noticed that he was still waiting. They would have tried to call her first and when the phone went to voicemail they would have called the next person on the contact list and so on until they got an answer. If the kid was in pre-k and was supposed to be released at 2:15, it makes more sense if he got home at 2, maybe grabbed a snack, watched tv for a minute then around 2:30 was getting called by the school that the son hadn't been picked up yet.
All true. I will only add that by the time he called his Dad it had been 11 hours since he had spoken to his wife. That's a long time considering the circumstances.Casually mentioning that your fiancée and newborn daughter have been missing for five hours without a car, diaper bag, carseat or purse (with money) and phone has gone to voicemail since 1:40 pm?
Doesn’t make sense to me.
The issue with calling dad first is the context of the call. The way he described it is he came home before 2, and they were gone, with key things left behind. He’s then strangely silent on what he did for the next five hours but he got a call at 6:00 pm from school/daycare to state his son had not been picked up.
So at this point he should be aware that something is very wrong. Because she is the one who picks up their son. Or if he was supposed to then why the hell didn’t he?
In any event, it’s been five whole hours of no contact. Phone goes to voicemail. Diaper bag left behind. Purse with money left behind. Car seat and car left behind.
And now he learns his son has also been left behind. No fiancée rushing through the door with baby, “Oh my gosh I lost track of time!! I can’t believe she slept this long. Can you feed and change her? I’ve got to rush to pick up S!!!”
Nothing. It’s silent. She’s not there. Baby is not there. And son has been left at school and not picked up.
But instead of walking over quickly to the friend/neighbor to see if she’s there, he goes to pick up son. Instead of immediately calling 911, he goes to pick up his son.
Ok. Partially not too incomprehensible because he likely wanted to get there quick and avoid late charges and not have a sad kid sitting there for longer than he had to.
But now he has his kid. He had a chance to question the daycare people. He returns home. What does he do? Because he comes home and she is. still. not. there.
No baby. No partner. No calls. No texts.
Does he dash over to the neighbor’s at the point? No. He doesn’t say that. Does he call around to her friend’s at that point? No. Nothing. Does he call the police? No.
He makes a sandwich.
And then what? Then he finally starts calling friends. And not finding her, not seeing her, knowing her car, purse and money, car seat and diaper bag have been left behind, son not picked up, phone has been going to voicemail since 1:40 p.m. with NO calls or texts, he still doesn’t call police. He calls his dad.
That’s the context.
You know if he had made that call to dad around 3? After searching for her and calling friends? I’d get it. “Dad it seems really weird here. All her stuff but her phone is here but she and the baby are gone. I called her friend’s. Went to the neighbor’s. No one has seen her. Phone is off. I’m getting worried. Am I being crazy? Should I call the police?”
I’d get that. But my God. Five hours later under those circumstances? Asking daddy what to do five whole hours later? Shouldn’t he know what to do as a parent and an adult under those circumstances? Shouldn’t he be panicked?
You know I’d even understand, “Dad! Get over here! I’m freaking out. Something is wrong! She never came home and didn’t pick up our son! I fell asleep thinking she would come home but she didn’t. It’s been five hours! I’m calling the cops. Please come over. I don’t think I can handle this.”
But that’s not what happened. According to SC his dad told him to wait a bit longer to see if she would show up...and he did.
He didn’t call the cops until six hours after they went missing.
That brings me to another paradox one no one has been able to adequately explain to me. He knew his wife didn’t have her car. He said this was the first day she had Margot on her own outside the home. Did he expect her to pick up their son? If not, why didn’t he? Why did the school have to call before he collected his child.
If he did expect her to pick up their son, how did he expect that to occur when she didn’t have a car or car seat? Walk? After being gone for five hours? With no purse or diaper bag?
And again, no panic when his son’s school calls to say mommy never came?
A lot is not making sense to me.
I’m having flashbacks of the uncovered cinnamon rolls on Kelsey’s counter.Casually mentioning that your fiancée and newborn daughter have been missing for five hours without a car, diaper bag, carseat or purse (with money) and phone has gone to voicemail since 1:40 pm?
Doesn’t make sense to me.
The issue with calling dad first is the context of the call. The way he described it is he came home before 2, and they were gone, with key things left behind. He’s then strangely silent on what he did for the next five hours but he got a call at 6:00 pm from school/daycare to state his son had not been picked up.
So at this point he should be aware that something is very wrong. Because she is the one who picks up their son. Or if he was supposed to then why the hell didn’t he?
In any event, it’s been five whole hours of no contact. Phone goes to voicemail. Diaper bag left behind. Purse with money left behind. Car seat and car left behind.
And now he learns his son has also been left behind. No fiancée rushing through the door with baby, “Oh my gosh I lost track of time!! I can’t believe she slept this long. Can you feed and change her? I’ve got to rush to pick up S!!!”
Nothing. It’s silent. She’s not there. Baby is not there. And son has been left at school and not picked up.
But instead of walking over quickly to the friend/neighbor to see if she’s there, he goes to pick up son. Instead of immediately calling 911, he goes to pick up his son.
Ok. Partially not too incomprehensible because he likely wanted to get there quick and avoid late charges and not have a sad kid sitting there for longer than he had to.
But now he has his kid. He had a chance to question the daycare people. He returns home. What does he do? Because he comes home and she is. still. not. there.
No baby. No partner. No calls. No texts.
Does he dash over to the neighbor’s at the point? No. He doesn’t say that. Does he call around to her friend’s at that point? No. Nothing. Does he call the police? No.
He makes a sandwich.
And then what? Then he finally starts calling friends. And not finding her, not seeing her, knowing her car, purse and money, car seat and diaper bag have been left behind, son not picked up, phone has been going to voicemail since 1:40 p.m. with NO calls or texts, he still doesn’t call police. He calls his dad.
That’s the context.
You know if he had made that call to dad around 3? After searching for her and calling friends? I’d get it. “Dad it seems really weird here. All her stuff but her phone is here but she and the baby are gone. I called her friend’s. Went to the neighbor’s. No one has seen her. Phone is off. I’m getting worried. Am I being crazy? Should I call the police?”
I’d get that. But my God. Five hours later under those circumstances? Asking daddy what to do five whole hours later? Shouldn’t he know what to do as a parent and an adult under those circumstances? Shouldn’t he be panicked?
You know I’d even understand, “Dad! Get over here! I’m freaking out. Something is wrong! She never came home and didn’t pick up our son! I fell asleep thinking she would come home but she didn’t. It’s been five hours! I’m calling the cops. Please come over. I don’t think I can handle this.”
But that’s not what happened. According to SC his dad told him to wait a bit longer to see if she would show up...and he did.
He didn’t call the cops until six hours after they went missing.
That brings me to another paradox one no one has been able to adequately explain to me. He knew his wife didn’t have her car. He said this was the first day she had Margot on her own outside the home. Did he expect her to pick up their son? If not, why didn’t he? Why did the school have to call before he collected his child.
If he did expect her to pick up their son, how did he expect that to occur when she didn’t have a car or car seat? Walk? After being gone for five hours? With no purse or diaper bag?
And again, no panic when his son’s school calls to say mommy never came?
A lot is not making sense to me.
Or her purse. Left upstairs, or wait was left in her car???? With unlocked doors,which he emphasized he always told her keep locked. So hard to remember such crucial details.. purse upstairs/ in her car. It's like Shroedingers purse.
MOO
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