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I don't think it's anything more than proper etiquette to consult the family of a deceased loved one if you are going to use their name, photo, etc. for a memorial of some kind.
I remember in another case where a fundraiser was started for a memorial bench in a park which the victim's family had no idea about and didn't approve. It was eventually taken down but not before it caused quite a bit of a stir. Most people considered the fact that the family wasn't consulted as completely uncalled for, especially during their time of grief. MOO
I agree that it was just good etiquette and courtesy to consult her family. Some families in this scenario might, for example, object to her name/memorial being established near the place where she was dumped, instead preferring that any memorials to her be kept close to home where she was when she was alive. All speculation, you just never know how grieving people will react.
I think the most interesting thing about the reference is that no one said her mother was consulted.