They never will. I look at my eldest daughter who looks a spit of Alesha but is a year younger and it breaks my heart for the family. I feel sorry for the father how the media have portrayed him. Yes - he sells a bit of weed but does that really make him a bad person? I've known plenty of weed dealers who are decent people.
Since the start of the trial I have been paranoid about somebody breaking into my home. Last year or year before there was a case near to me where a guy broke in through the back door and murdered a mother and son while the father took his dog for a walk.
It can literally happen anywhere to anyone. Best we can do is be vigilant and not left any stone unturned.
My children are older now...eldest 23 and no longer at home. Youngest 13 but you never lose that fear of something happening to your child.
My house was broken into whilst I was in bed and two guys came into my room..Even though it was a number of years ago it has made me paranoid.
So I know exactly what you mean, I'm a light sleeper now and slightest little sound I'm up and out of bed checking everything is ok.
Totally paranoid when my daughter goes out with her friends too, it drives her mad as I'm checking on her all the time.
I don't think Aleshas dad selling weed makes him a despicable person, he will be beating himself up over what has happened for the rest of his life so I have nothing but empathy for him and the family. He looks haunted.
I really hope they get justice for Aleshas at the end of this. Surely a jury won't believe the rubbish the accused is coming out with.