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Here is an example of the dehumanising (IMO) way in which MG is being talked about in the media in the present day:
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Constance Marten and Mark Gordon dodged questions, jury told
Wealthy aristocrat Constance Marten and her convicted rapist partner “sought to mask the reality” to the jury and were “pickingwww.brightonandhovenews.org
Why not "another new father"? Why is he himself not described as a new father?
I am thinking of famous headlines such as "miner in fight with man".
Because "new father" is certainly what he was at that time, unless he had previous children that we don't know about. So the context may be one in which he was allowed in to accompany his wife - albeit apparently being called her "friend" and not the father - and we don't know whether he was present at the actual birth but perhaps he was - and then later, perhaps when they have been separated for a short time while she's getting a gown change or being stitched or whatever, expecting them to be reunited within about 10 minutes together with the baby, away from the theatre, suddenly there are police officers there with radios and weapons, and one of them is blocking the door, and the atmosphere is one of no way are we allowing somebody like you in there, matey, not with all the mothers and babies, not until you answer our questions anyway - it's too dangerous.
Whichever way you look at it, that is certainly going to have been somewhat of an emotional occasion for MG.
And it can be added that since this was her first child (again, as far as we know), she can't have had any SS record of being considered incapable of caring for children, or having had children taken from her. Nor is giving a false name when you're in labour a crime of any kind, so one has to wonder what on earth was going on.
Thanks for this reply and I understand your points well.
I think it's fair to say that no matter what MG perpetrated as a youth, he will have been brutalised and traumatised by his time being treated as an adult when he wasn't, by police officers and prison officers - men in uniforms holding power positions. He was probably also terrorised and violated by fellow inmates who were significantly older, stronger, harder than him.
So, despite his horrific crimes (if truly guilty) he is probably extremely triggered, reactive and vulnerable to anyone in a position of authority and especially security / policing or enforcement.
It would be far easier and more likely for CM to be the one in this duo who is the coercive controller and has brainwashed MG into submission and loyalty simply for the reason she is the one with most power and privilege and options. At any point in time, if MG were terrorising her or making threats, she could have had his freedom permanently revoked and had him put back in prison for the rest of his sentence. He probably has few or little real life friends and contacts whereas she is linked into this vast wealth of power and privilege and people who can pull strings and enact things beyond the average person's imagination - she's even stated such to the court.
Has CM had MG like an unwitting hostage on some foolish endeavour all this time? He is obviously loyal to her to the bitter end. JMO MOO