my heart breaks for this little bundle that wasn't even given a fair chance.
i am so upset that this is the outcome of it all, but from the beginning, the focus of these two was NOT the child's best interest, <modsnip - OFF LIMITS> obviously, i will say for the two parents, mental health was a serious issue, and though i can't know the details, i am sure that this plays a part in the choices that they made. we had information, though, that this man was once (does that go away?) severely disturbed from a very young age and the crimes he committed was extremely violent and sick. the fact that she stayed with this man,<modsnip - OFF LIMITS>, losing a life of her own, in fact, shows where her priorities were, and they were not on the child as unfortunately we see with the heartbreaking news today.
however, this does not take away from the horrific abuse of this baby from the beginning. there was no prenatal care, no care afterbirth or for the welfare of this little one and in the end, not even the emotional tie to actually find help or even, and this pains me to even say, stay with this little gift after they were gone. this just shows how heartless these two were. there is no happy perhaps of what could have happened, because this baby was abused and neglected before birth.
from the very beginning of all this, i had a bad feeling about these two and their intentions. whatever spurned their paranoia, fear or whatever, the natural instinct to protect, care for and nuture their child was not there. if there were any people would may have helped them hide from SS or any authorities, i hope that they are also held responsible. this is what seems to be their 4th child. now gone, and they are arguing about going to london while this little body is alone in a field? no. there is no possible reason or excuse for this whole situation.
i hope those responders and LE have a good support to help them to deal with such a devastating find. it is incomprehensible to imagine what that must do to someone.
