She looks spaced out, like she's dissociating herself from what's going on around her.
Maybe that's how she blanks out. She obviously gets a sign from his (Ben) tone of voice.
I've a rescue dog. And have a pheromone in a small bottle that sits c in a plug socket and as it warms it releases dog pheromones. Therefore calming him down. As he's not nasty or vicious. He just tries to hide behind anything. Cupboards. TV. Bookcase (after knocking all the books down. Vet said try it). He still gets nervous n stressed but not as much as. If we raise our voices. Even slightly. He'll come to me on my lap. As if saying save me owner plz. It's hubby... he does like to be vocal. Especially when our sons are messing about like kids (they both over 18) lol
Anyway. Back to Ellie..
Maybe she zones out when he raises voice at her. But where was Izzy when this carried on. We know mom n dad sent her up to get Ellie after they called up to get her cake. To be honest. I think they've been 'grooming' Her into what's right as in what they do. And Ellie is naughty.
That pic makes me shiver. She's such a beautiful lil girl. (Reminds me somewhat of Becky Watts if you followed that case)
Why did the dad have so much hate towards her?
Do we know if he's ever laid hands on The sibling Izzy?
Is the hate directed at her becuz maybe he suspects mom was cheating at first?
Or maybe he didn't want kids just yet n she fell pregnant?
So given any of those scenarios. He resents Ellie.
If in fact. As I'm still not sure he didnt initiate SBS. on Ellie at 6 week's old. But 6 week's is a long time for a Ventouse delivery issue to show itself. Imo.
So maybe as he ended up in jail and was there for a period of time. He grew his resentment while there?
While he was launching his plea case.?
I DON'T KNOW arghhh.....
There are soooo many questions answered. And no one's getting/giving the answers. Not the right questions for the right answers.
And it seems like the mom was having issues with Ellie too. Wetting the bed. Being cheeky. Lying. Saying that she wants to go back to her foster parents.
I think Izzy went to Grandma's for a while.
But Ellie was fostered out.
Maybe Ellie felt 'safe' there. Could be who she was. Act her age. Be listened to. Not told to shut the f*** up.
And she loved the idea of being with her mommy again. But daddy is there too.
All my own opinion of course.
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