Plenty of drugs, especially rave drugs cause a very appreciable serotonin dip after their initial effects wear off. An already depressed person might not be planning a suicide at 3am but be willing to carry one out by 9am
And why would he hide himself? Because he loves his friends and family and wants to spare them the pain of knowing he’s committed suicide or seeing his body. I’m sure he thought he’d never be found.
It’s so very sad. Poor, poor Frankie.
I had looked at it differently, that the not knowing would just add another type of pain for his family and friends and hadn't thought of it that way, so thank you for your thoughts.
Now that I look at it from this angle, there are a lot of things that could make sense when looked at from another direction. The messages his mum referred to could have been something he was upset about, for example.
Poor Frankie. I hope that all his family's questions are answered and that they can now take the time and privacy they need to start to grieve.
It's not uncommon for suicidal people to cover their traces in the belief that it will spare loved ones. It's an extension of the self-abnegating belief that 'everyone will be happier/better off without me'. Of course, the opposite is true and because family and friends are already distraught at the loss of access, the not knowing is a terrible addition to their pain. As you said upthread, the triggers for suicide are not usually very amenable to logic.
(Not that suicide has been confirmed yet in this case afaik.)
The fact that the updates have gone from body found to non-suspicious circumstances so quickly makes me think something was found on him. Can’t see it being a physical note as he’s pictured with nothing outside of shorts pockets, so a detailed note on his phone would make sense to me.
I totally agree with this. Very well described. We don't know if this was a suicide..but if it was, he had to feel excruciating pain and shame, maybe fueled with taking drugs or the wore off..
Poor Frankie so sad if he did end his own life. The messages his Mum referred to though were not from Frankie but from 'various people' who had messaged her and which led her to believe that he may of come to harm.I had looked at it differently, that the not knowing would just add another type of pain for his family and friends and hadn't thought of it that way, so thank you for your thoughts.
Now that I look at it from this angle, there are a lot of things that could make sense when looked at from another direction. The messages his mum referred to could have been something he was upset about, for example.
Poor Frankie. I hope that all his family's questions are answered and that they can now take the time and privacy they need to start to grieve.
True but in my opinion alcoholics' declines are more gradual both pharmacologically and psychologically. An alcoholic doesn't commit suicide the morning after a party, they have a fatal accident instead.Alcohol is also known to exacerbate suicidal feelings, I'll have to dig it out but I think a reasonable percentage of suicides have alcohol found in the system.
True but in my opinion alcoholics' declines are more gradual both pharmacologically and psychologically. An alcoholic doesn't commit suicide the morning after a party, they have a fatal accident instead.
I wouldn't be at all surprised if the circumstances in this one turned out to be interpretable either way though.
I'm curious if a CoD will be published. Non of my business of course, but I would like to know what happened. It will take away a lot of speculation IMO. I think it's communication wise not very clever to say "not suspicious", without telling the reason. What is common practice in the UK on this issue?
That is so sad . I believe there were so many searches by different groups dogs, drones etc? Yet found by a dog walker eventually? Is the footpath the only way to get to that spot?Just thought I would add this as I think I have some more information this afternoon. Floral tributes have been left at the woods I have shown with the white arrow in the map, I am assuming based on this (but I don't know for certain) that this is where Frankie's body was found.
The red marking shows a public footpath. Based on personal knowledge, the path is often/usually impassable due to flooding these days. I don't believe that it is regularly walked. This location does make me think that suicide is the more likely case here. If I am correct and this is where Frankie was found, it's heartbreaking to think that after so much time was spent searching quite lonely areas, he was so close to people. I think he had friends living just across the road, overlooking these woods. To my knowledge, these woods were never searched by police despite being just over a mile away from Frankie's last known location. Sadly I believe there was another suicide in the woods at the beginning of the footpath a few years ago.
A desperately sad outcome no matter what the exact details are. RIP Frankie.
Thanks for the info @blackcrow. I meant the long walk he had already done from leaving the rave.That's the thing - it isn't a long or lonely walk at all The footpath isn't long, and if he didn't use the footpath he would have had to walk through the village.
That screenshot might not give an accurate representation, but those woods are not very deep, and they are just off the road, really close to a housing estate. I have edited it to show the roads in blue. The path is one way he could have walked if he was trying not to be seen, but equally I think you could probably step in straight from the road at the top, I don't think it is fenced off.
There were a number of searches generally but I don't know of any searches of these woods and I don't think the police searches got as far as there. They are privately owned and there is a storage unit/barn at one end of them whith a lot of private/no entry type signs.