Plus, even if you still support your husband or are in denial, her house is ruined and a "crime scene," so she likely has nowhere else to go. She probably is in desperate need of support and family around her, and I would not want to be in the eye of media or other onlookers, which she surely would be if she were still in town.I think I’d be off like a shot as well. It’s just all so sordid.