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Unfortunately they do things like this .. and yes to girls they don't know in front of, or in close proximity to people they do.
You can't apply standard body language techniques to an abuse victim. Waste of time. For those of us that have worked closely with victims, I can tell you right now there is certainly no one way for victims to behave, sit, speak, respond, recall, etc. It is so so sad that there are still people who think that abuse can be written off if someone doesn't act the way they think an abuse victim should act.
That's not what I'm doing.
I would never "write off" abuse, in fact I have said repeatedly that she probably has been abused in her life.
A lot of us have.
I have however "written off" the allegation that it was Rolf Harris who abused her.
The reasons -
- the story doesn't make sense.
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- If this woman is part of the case against Rolf, she would not be speaking to ACA in public. Her statement is evidence and would be kept quiet until he was charged with this crime.
- He hasn't been charged with this particular crime even though she got interviewed by Op Yewtree officers who travelled from the UK to do it.
- She admits she has been in and out of mental hospitals, that she wants fame, and that she is getting paid.
Enough for me to stay off the mud slinging band wagon for now.
:cow:
BBM - she is part of the case against Rolf Harris. That was confirmed in the interview and matches with what is in MSM.
Transcribed from the ACA interview linked earlier. Note the use of 'up' and 'down':
3:10
TL: He moved his hand .. um.. down, underneath my duffel coat. Moved his hand . um..to the band of my skirt and put his hand down my skirt.. and down the stockings, pantyhose.. and down my underpants and.. and pushed his hand down my pants and fondled me.
6:30 (describing first alleged incident)
TL: um.. and then he put his hand my thigh, so.. Then I started to feel a bit weird. So the hand he had on me, he sort of moved around across my thigh .. um.. because my legs were on the outside of his legs. And that's when he moved his hand up.. up my skirt.
ACA: What was going through your mind at that time?
TL: Then I started to get worried and started to get a bit scared. Um... 'cause.. happened quickly, and then it started to go up quite high, up towards, um, my pants. It went right up to the top but he wasn't inside and touching my skin or anything like that.
8.00 (describing second alleged incident)
TL: Um.. he.. came over to me and sort of edged me toward the pot plant. And then w.. sort of made out like he was going to give me a hug. So.. um, I was sort of wedged in between.. um.. the potplant and .. um.. he had his hand over me. Um.. I can't remember exactly what he said but it was something like, 'Oh there you are' or, you know, s.. something along those lines. Gave me a hug, and I didn't say anything, 'cause I was pretty frozen at that stage, and I.. I was scared, 'cause I was trapped, basically, and um.. I didn't.. I didn't scream, I don't know why, um.. Then he put his hands.. um.. on my top. And put his hands down.. um.. my top. Um.. and.. started to touch my breasts and then really quickly, with the same hand, um, before I knew it he put his hands up my skirt and he put his hands um, down my tights and pants.
Odd use of plurals, also.
So.. was there a THIRD incident, where Rolf went down the waistband of her skirt, as she said at 3:10? Or can't she keep the details of her story straight?
Things that make you go hmm.
I wouldn't read too much into this small discrepancy. In the situation she was in during the interview, it could be nerves, or just a misuse of words. I'm all for looking for slips that reveal potential deception, but I just don't see this as one of those cases. IMO
I am hesitant to analyse her behaviour much more, as this is a victim-friendly forum, and as of right now, she is classed as a victim. Obviously, if she has anything to hide or confess to, it will come out. I just don't see the point in questioning her legitimacy when we obviously do not have access to any further information at this stage. And I'm certainly not going to sleuth her. I also wouldn't want this discussion to be read by other victims who are yet to report their abuse, and hesitate because they may be seen to be deceptive.
I think we're forgetting what Rolf Harris is really like, there have been other issues with Rolf for years, his stunningly racist comments in the media for example!
http://www.abc.net.au/news/2008-12-01/aboriginal-group-slams-bigoted-harris/225406
http://www.nyungah.org.au/documents/RolfHarri.html
Look, I understand the shock, and of course we need to see more of the evidence, but I feel no great sympathy for him.