I had an Uber driver offer to hook us up with an “herbal essence” while in NM.
Must've looked like you needed something...LOL
I had an Uber driver offer to hook us up with an “herbal essence” while in NM.
I'm probably overthinking, but I'm still stuck on my idea that this was a first-time meeting with the unknown person.
When communicating with people you know, text seems like one of the top go-to methods. (Yes, I know there are ways to communicate.) It would seem that once she established a relationship with a SD or hook-up person, they would use text rather than an app to communicate.
But when hooking up for the first time, it might be arranged through the app.
If LE can't find the unknown person in her texts, I lean even more heavily toward this being a first-time meeting. (Opinion subject to change as we learn more.)
Now cue everyone to tell me how antiquated texting is and how it means nothing.
jmo
Have you found evidence of foul play?
Not trying to coach but I tell my adult kids they are never an embarrassment, they always are welcome in my home, no questions asked. We can work anything out and I don't get angry. Still something as simple as a speeding ticket made one avoid coming home for hours, it wasn't a big deal. Parents can be too hard on kids at times and kids can be harder on themselves at times over minute things.MOO
Perhaps we should all be thinking about the potential consequences to her of nonconformity in her family's cultural group. Was she an embarrassment to her family? Did she meet up with an extended family member or friend of her parents' rather than the theoretical SD?? Was a solution to that embarrassment found???
Family conflict doesn't and never has eliminated foul play from the list of possibilities in these sorts of cases.
MOO
Haha- me too! Should be a warning for these accounts. I’m glad this was not an option when I was in college. Without the internet & SM, there were limits to how stupid you could get!Good grief, Having clicked on various fatherless and associated # and @s, now I'm scared I'm going to find racy #s and @s following me.
Just because it was the last person she was "texting" with doesn't mean its the last person she communicated electronically with. Not having her actual device makes it neay impossible to know each and every way (Apps etc) that she was using for communication. There are literally dozens and dozens of different possibilities. How can L.E. possibly know which to access or get warrants for?
Yes, absolutely true and I'm sure this is one of the reasons LE has requested the public's assistance. Does ML have any SM accounts they don't know about, has anyone had contact with her, etc. They need tips. MOOJust because it was the last person she was "texting" with doesn't mean its the last person she communicated electronically with. Not having her actual device makes it neay impossible to know each and every way (Apps etc) that she was using for communication. There are literally dozens and dozens of different possibilities. How can L.E. possibly know which to access or get warrants for?
Search warrant to the App Store?
IMO SBs also do not look at SDs as human beings but as a means to an end. The SD is someone to be used as a source of income (not necessarily cash, but it all boils down to goods rec'd). It is what it is. People's lifestyle choices do open them up to being a victim as well as reducing (NOT preventing) victimhood. This doesn't mean she isn't a victim, it just means you cannot sugarcoat facts/reality/stats. Also, IMO, if this meeting with a friend was on the "up & up" why didn't they meet somewhere for coffee that was open around the clock, or a gas station with lights, a parking lot with lights, or at her home, or her friend's home? Meeting someone in a park at 3 am opens you and your "friend" up to danger. This is a woman making poor choices and her friends need to stop protecting her reputation and start talking about the good, the bad, the ugly if they want to really help her.
This has my vote! LolSearch warrant to the App Store?
Hmmmm... I wonder if that's possible?? I've never seen a warrant issued for app store or iTunes. I will ask the prosecutor I work with.
I'm not sure either. There's no evidence of it. Hope I didn't break a rule. But the time of the meeting is sort of odd.
Hmmm who happens to be awake around 2:30 AM to text?
I asked my college age daughter how she'd most likely communicate with a person she was newly interested in and she said for her and her group of friends Snapchat is the most likely. I wonder how much info Tinder can release about conversations and previous "matches" she has had?Yes, absolutely true and I'm sure this is one of the reasons LE has requested the public's assistance. Does ML have any SM accounts they don't know about, has anyone had contact with her, etc. They need tips. MOO
I get where you're coming from, and you may be right. If she did bolt, and the emotional weekend kind of threw that fantasy into motion, it's her right as an adult.
But there's got to be a gray area somewhere, where she has to be aware and accountable for hours of LE and now FBI interference (not to mention parental heart attacks, but that's another story). If she walked away voluntarily, it takes a phone call to say "I'm okay." And even at this point, since over a week's gone by with no word from her, LE would probably insist on a private meeting with her to confirm her identity and safety.