dixiegirl1035
I will do it, but I won't like it
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I'm so very sorry you had to go through that. This is a real sorry, and not AA"s reflexive shrug. Please don't feel that you made things worse, ok?I spoke in this forum previously about a contact who knew the killer, or more accurately, Tricia respectfully posted my experience as the contact.
At the time I shared my experience, I said I would go back and answer questions but it turned out to be too painful to be so exposed despite how kind and supportive everyone was. I did answer a few questions that I posed as speculation instead of truth, hoping that it might help.
It seems obvious, reading it now, that I had some inside knowledge, but I was looking for understanding and comfort not judgement. Now that he is convicted and (hopefully) the media will stop trying to track me down, I feel more able to accept the critical comments with the kind.
His conviction has awoken a host of feelings I didn't expect at all. No closure. Just confusion. And a bit more guilt. Because MacKenzie and I had so much in common. As conceited as it sounds, I worry that it started or reinforced his "type".
Him saying sorry...it makes me so confused. Just like I was when it happened to me. I was angry before...now I wonder how a man that can be so heartless can be sorry.
I missed the Dateline episode but saw a portion of it online. What surprised me the most was that she had a trip to Vegas planned. At first I thought that was the wedding she was supposed to attend, but it wasn't. The wedding was in LA, and she had a Vegas trip planned before flying to LA. Was she meeting a sugar daddy in Vegas? None of her friends or family mentioned a trip to Vegas. Also, the show mentioned that her family didn't know about the trip to Vegas and that it had been paid for by someone else. The airfare to LA had also been paid for by someone else. I'm assuming this someone else wasn't AA, as she hadn't met him yet. Did the police track this person down and question him? Makes me think she had a lot more experience in the "seeking arrangements" lifestyle than I initially thought. Maybe it was just enough experience to lessen her inhibitions about meeting a new guy in a deserted park at 3 am.
Different case, but I wanted to give a shoutout to a great podcast "Your Own Backyard." It's about Kristin Smart, the Cal Poly SLO student who went missing in 1996. It's a really good podcast and led to the arrest of the person who's been the prime suspect for over 20 years.
I don't think we heard about the "Vegas arrangement" before because it wasn't relevant to Kenzie's murder. I think detectives referenced the planned trip on Dateline to explain what they had to go through to get search warrants for a missing adult that they could not initially rule out was voluntarily missing.
Probable cause can be a double edge sword for missing persons. We see it all the time -- trying to balance the privacy of adults and acknowledge the family reporting their loved one missing.
I know there's a lot we haven't heard. We don't know why she met him at that time in the park. We don't know what reason he gave her for meeting there. We haven't seen the texts between them that led up to the meeting. We don't know why/how her phone turned off as soon as she got in the car. We don't know how he got her into his house. Unlike someone like Chris Watts where we got detailed information about his confession and what he did, we never got that info with this case - just that he'd planned to kill her.
I missed the Dateline episode but saw a portion of it online. What surprised me the most was that she had a trip to Vegas planned. At first I thought that was the wedding she was supposed to attend, but it wasn't. The wedding was in LA, and she had a Vegas trip planned before flying to LA. Was she meeting a sugar daddy in Vegas? None of her friends or family mentioned a trip to Vegas. Also, the show mentioned that her family didn't know about the trip to Vegas and that it had been paid for by someone else. The airfare to LA had also been paid for by someone else. I'm assuming this someone else wasn't AA, as she hadn't met him yet. Did the police track this person down and question him? Makes me think she had a lot more experience in the "seeking arrangements" lifestyle than I initially thought. Maybe it was just enough experience to lessen her inhibitions about meeting a new guy in a deserted park at 3 am.
Different case, but I wanted to give a shoutout to a great podcast "Your Own Backyard." It's about Kristin Smart, the Cal Poly SLO student who went missing in 1996. It's a really good podcast and led to the arrest of the person who's been the prime suspect for over 20 years.
What a weird case. What a weird use of the word "protest." I wonder if MacKenzie was expecting to have her hands tied--was bondage part of the arrangement? It doesn't seem like she started fighting back until he was already choking her. We've heard about the taser in the car but have never heard whether or not he used it on her. Her hands were tied while she was still alive (initially there was some speculation her limbs were not bound until after her death, to make her body easier to bury), but we have no idea how he managed to do that--did she let him? Or was she already incapacitated? But if she was, why bother binding her? So much of this still doesn't make sense, to say nothing of the whole purpose of the meet-up in the first place.
Oh, well. What's done is done and can't be undone. She's dead and he's in prison and everybody else just has to go on. The "hows" and "whys" of the case will always remain a mystery, I guess.
I recently looked up Ajayi's home address and it turns out that it looks like he lived closer to the Salt Lake City airport than the Hatch Park location. I had a hard time finding his home address because I thought he would have lived farther away. So, in my opinion, what happened?
^^rsbmI think, today, that Ajayi probably chose to meet her at Hatch Park in North Salt Lake, Utah. When I followed the case as it happened in June 2019, I theorized that MacKenzie may have known who she met casually but not well enough to know their home address so she chose to meet at Hatch Park. I got that wrong.
^^rsbmSo, we know why AJAJYI wanted to meet at Hatch Park instead of picking Kenzie up at the airport or having her take a Lyft to his house, but why did SHE agree to meet him at the park? If they left the park immediately for his house, wouldn't she already be thinking or asking - why did we meet at the park if it's farther from the airport than your house? Or if we're just going to your house, anyway, why didn't I just take the Lyft to your house?
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