You know, as a woman you are taught to not be "rude" or "snobby" to people. Always be nice. Maybe she was just frustrated at walking, her friends, who knows and he was "nice to her". Maybe she wasn't necessarily attracted to him but just was glad someone was , let's say at the time, helping her. One doesn't have to be attracted to someone to either accept a kind (at the time) offer. Just guessing though. Obviously.
Yeah, exactly. Growing up in my household as one of two daughters, there was an enormous emphasis on always being nice. I mean, sometimes we'd think we were being nice and our parents would say we weren't being "nice enough". The standards were high. So when I was 18 and going out and driving and so forth, guys would bother me, invade my space, invite themselves to my table... And I would smile and nod, thinking to do otherwise was rude. But guys like that interpret the slightest tolerance as interest.
That was when I met my now husband, and it only got more uncomfortable to be hassled by strangers when I wasn't even on the market. It took a long time to learn that you really just need to shut them down, nip them in the bud, be harsh and frank, "I'm not interested", "Go away"... It goes against everything I was taught but these guys think you wanna jump their bones just because you didn't hack at them with your car keys.