Insight, please: If one engages a potential partner on one of these websites like “Fettish,” does the person going to the trouble to come to your home with “equipment, etc.” to answer your fantasy expect financial compensation? Are the people who accommodate “in search of’s” on this type of website considered sex workers?
I’m asking because if someone had no history of violence toward the opposite sex or seemingly hasn’t displayed a desire to engage in pretend violent sex acts, what would motivate them to answer a request for this very extreme and potentially dangerous fantasy play? It seems out of character without some very lucrative reward. Would the person be agreeing because they were going to get paid?
I’m not victim blaming. I’m asking in general terms as I have zero knowledge about these things. Please excuse my ignorance. Just wondering how these encounters are structured, if financially?