Bobbisangel
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Bumping for Justin
Is there anything at all happening in this case? Are LE even working on it?
This is an email message to all Mothers from Justin's Mother.
As you already know, she lost her son October 2008. Her intent is not to make us cry, rather to insure that we remember to be thankful for and to treasure each and everyday we are able to share the Gift from God, which is our children...
Posted with her permission here at Websleuths: (To respect their privacy, I removed Justin's brother's name, Justin's father's name and her name from the email...)
Subject: HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY FROM JUSTIN'S MOTHER
Hello to all my sisters in motherhood!
I am sure you are all anticipating a lovely Mother's Day on Sunday. I hope it's a gorgeous day filled with lots of sunshine, surprises and smiles. As for me, it will be a bittersweet day, as you know. I will be remembering with all that is in me, the joy and happiness of the day Justin appeared in my world and I became a mother. After five years of marriage, I was ready for this next phase, and oh, what an adventure it was!! I remember with great fondness one of the first photographs taken of him at the hospital with his daddy holding him in his arms. Some of you have had the pleasure of seeing this picture, but my sweet little angel was tightly wrapped in his baby blue blanket and all that was visible was his precious newborn face peeking out, staring intently up at his daddy's face, mere inches away. You could almost imagine him saying "please take care of me forever". Which, incidentally, (his daddy) did - he was always there for Justin, through the good times and the bad. From the beginning Justin had a way of wrapping you around his little finger, so he was forever on his daddy's mind and in his heart, and still is. What a great father (Justin's daddy) is.
But, I remember that day, June 15, 1980 as being the happiest one of my life - oh my goodness, how quickly I bonded with that new little being, and what tremendous love I felt, it is amazing how deep it went - nothing could compare to those first few moments! It was just overwhelming and I wish I could have put it into a bottle and captured it forever. I know you've all been there, feeling those same emotions. Then, in a couple of days we took our new son home. Well, I also vividly recollect that first night! Lord, how could I forget! Justin cried almost the entire night, and myself right along with him! The next morning, totally exhausted and quite frankly, questioning my mothering capabilities, I called my mom in tears and cried "come get this baby!" And come she did! She stayed a couple of days with us and got me through those difficult "early motherhood trials and tribulations"! She rescued me! Mothers do that, don't they? Admit it, I'm sure you're all saying "been there, done that" as you most likely experienced those same problems early on with your little ones, and had to call your mommy!
As it happens, the days, months and years of his boyhood flew wildly by and we experienced all the many facets of parenthood, the fun times like baseball, beach, band and brotherly love--- after (Justin's brother) joined our family; as well as the not-so-fun times, ya know, like bugs (sickness), booboos, bad grades & boogie men! But I am here to tell ya, I would never trade those years for anything in the world, except, naturally, the opportunity to have more of them. But getting to the idea behind this email and what I want to say to all of you today is this - Treasure every moment you have with your babies, no matter how old, because you never know when they could be taken from you. They may be gone in the blink of an eye when God decides it is time for them to become his children and no longer ours in this life. Someone told me about 25 years ago that I needed to call my mother every day and tell her I loved her - well I'm telling you now, call your children every day (as well as your mother) and tell them you love them. You never know when it might be your last chance. The intent of this message is not to be depressing or morbid, but to enlighten and encourage you all to treasure every day you have with your loved ones and let them know how much they mean to you. Oh, and one more thing - "God bless you and thank you for being a part of my life!" Oops, I almost forgot, one last wish for each and everyone -"HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY" I love you all!
(Justin's Mother)
This is beautiful and heartbreaking this mother deserves answers to what happened to her precious son ...she has the right to not only read the files but have copies .....this man was a solider who served his country a good father a good son now he is gone anda crime is just swept under the rug ..from what i read it seems the girlfriend worked the shooter into a frenzy no this is not right the police need to tell this mother what they know and somebody needs to be held accountable....