GUILTY VA - Noah Thomas, 5, Pulaski County, 22 March 2015 #5

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  • #961
Even the thought of leaving my kids alone (5.5 and 2.5) for 15 minutes in the house to go somewhere makes my heart race with all the what-ifs. I mentioned in the previous thread that my impulsive human cyclone daughter has just up and tried to wander out of the house twice recently. Zero understanding of risk. She'll be lucky to be left alone when she's 13, much less 5.

And if, may the powers that be forbid, an accident happened - I wouldn't even think. I'd be inconsolable, screaming, sobbing, calling for help, probably need to be tranquilized. Even if it were an accidental death, even if it were my fault for not paying attention for 5 minutes or leaving something where it shouldn't be, I cannot wrap my mind around the reaction. Just can't. I'd deal with "my fault" later. My babies come first.
 
  • #962
So we don't know though if Noah was alive that morning? Just that he and the baby weren't with AW and PT when she brought him to work. If noah died the night before, I wonder where that poor baby was while they were hiding Noah's body. Poor baby...it's quite possible she had essentially been alone most or all of the night.

Yes, it's a hassle to get my baby and other kids out of the car at every stop when I'm running errands but leaving them in the car isn't even an option. My sister's ex MIL did that with her 4 young kids in the car...one hopped out (the 4 year old)and while he was behind the car, the 5 year old accidentally put the car in reverse and ran over and killed his brother. She has never forgiven herself.

It's hard but when I even take a ten minute bath, I put my 6 month old in his walker and pull him in the bathroom with me. It's just what you have to do.


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Catching up, but yes.

I became primal jungle woman when my baby was little. I showered to wash away the stank. Shaving was not on the agenda. Primping was for mommas with nannies, lol!
 
  • #963
I stepped away from this for a week. I have breezed through some discussion here and will try to catch up. You can't leave a child alone in a home sleeping or not. I tend to argue that leaving a 5 year old alone while sleeping is even more dangerous than awake because he might wake up and be terrified or leave the house in search of the parent, etc.

I am wondering about the respiratory stuff with the baby . Glad she got help and ftr, I am a little surprised that social workers made a medical diagnosis or maybe the reporting is incorrect and sw ' s only suspected it. That's being nitpicky but cps workers aren't doctors and those lines cannot be blurred.

Hope to catch up here. If my stomach (and heart) can handle it.

If her respiratory problems were really bad, she would have blue lips or something that would tell them that this was a serious issue. I dont thothink a medical license would be necessary to determine a baby is having breathing problems.
 
  • #964
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  • #965
If her respiratory problems were really bad, she would have blue lips or something that would tell them that this was a serious issue. I dont thothink a medical license would be necessary to determine a baby is having breathing problems.

Shallow or labored breathing, even, I would think would be obvious and enough cause for concern.


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  • #966
Catching up, but yes.

I became primal jungle woman when my baby was little. I showered to wash away the stank. Shaving was not on the agenda. Primping was for mommas with nannies, lol!

Lucky ladies! :)


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  • #967
So far I do not see 2 dangerous criminals here.I see 2 young parents who made some bad parenting choices that they will have to live with the rest of their lives.We still don't know the whole story.
For all we know maybe the kids were sleeping and they didn't want to wake them up and thought it would be safe to leave them in the few minutes they'd be gone.Maybe they only smoked their pot late at night in the bedroom.Maybe mom just didn't realize how bad of a cold the baby had.
This is so sad for all involved.

I honestly can't believe what I am reading. Bad parenting choices does not even begin to cover it.
 
  • #968
And if Noah had fell and cracked his head on an end table and died while mom was doing the dishes I suppose she should still deserve to be punished for not being there to catch the fall.
There is no comparison in these two things. She intentionally made decisions that led to his death. Completely different circumstances.
 
  • #969
I'm sorry, but I know a LOT of people that smoke pot. Daily, weekly, whatever. Whatever these parents were doing was NOT just pot. No way, no how.

There is way more to this story.
 
  • #970
Catching up, but yes.

I became primal jungle woman when my baby was little. I showered to wash away the stank. Shaving was not on the agenda. Primping was for mommas with nannies, lol!

I couldn't even shower when I had my first two preschoolers. I literally couldn't turn my back long enough to take a 2 minute shower - forget the shaving thing. I had to do it early in the morning before my husband left for work, or at night. I did have friends who could - they'd come out of the shower with their kids still sitting in front of a favorite video. My best friend had two kids who wouldn't even consider getting up off the couch during Barney or Jurassic Park. I guess where I'm going with this is, I never could turn my back, although I do know people moms who could shower and shave their legs and come out and their kids wouldn't be doing something alarming.
 
  • #971
Where was it confirmed that Noah was thrown into a Septic tank?

So am I to understand that you feel he got in the tank by himself, and was able to pull to tank cover back over in a manner that made it appear untouched? Because I can only see two options. Either he fell in or was tossed in. What is your theory?
 
  • #972
I'm sorry, but I know a LOT of people that smoke pot. Daily, weekly, whatever. Whatever these parents were doing was NOT just pot. No way, no how.

There is way more to this story.

Agree 100%. This was no "reefer madness" from those bad "educational" videos from the 50s, lol.


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  • #973
I ran across this article which gives the guidelines for minimum age allowable to leave your children home alone...

http://www.latchkey-kids.com/latchkey-kids-age-limits.htm

According to this, there is no minimum age a child has to be to be legally left home alone in Virginia. And, shockingly, also in most states.

How is this possible? If this is correct, how can LE or DFS conclude neglect based just on the fact that kids are left alone? Clearly, in Noah's case, something went terribly awry (and it may have happened before the parents even left in the morning and sustained neglect certainly may have been present).

From everyone's posts, I can see that most everyone feels that five (and certainly 6-8 months) is too young to be left at home alone, for any amount of time. What age is okay? 8? 9? 12? How much time alone? Just curious. I think small amounts of time are okay once they are around 9-11 if they can demonstrate responsibility and what not.

I've wondered that a LOT. Texas is also a state where there is no minimum age where a child can be left alone - it's left up to what a "reasonable parent" would do. It seems that makes it very difficult for LE to make a case if there isn't actually a law making it illegal to leave, say, a 3 year old in the home for an hour. It seems like there should be a standard minimum age (not sure exactly what age that would be) where a parent or babysitter would have to be immediately available and present with a child.
 
  • #974
MSM articles have quoted the arrest reports as saying whatever happened that brought the current charges both parents face "led to Noah's death".

His parents would not have been arrested and charged with felonies if an accident had occurred.

I would like to know why AW had to drive PT to work that morning anyway. Why did she need the car? Seems like he could have driven himself and then come home on lunch and had her drive him back if she needed it later.

My guess is they didn't volunteer the info about leaving the kids home alone until they were confronted with the video evidence that they were seen in the store without the kids. At that point LE knew they had left the kids unattended somewhere, either in the car or at home.

This is just my theory but PT had an arrest for DUI so I wondered if he had a drivers license.
 
  • #975
Ugh - "normal" and "until this issue can be resolved" are being thrown around as if this is some kind of simple misunderstanding.

Certainly, the judge isn't misunderstanding him. - “Mr. Thomas has been deceptive. I cannot take his assertions at face value.” -

Agreed. PT's charges may be lesser than AW's but his attitude surely stinks.



Neglect that led to his death could be that they left him home unattended which caused his death.
Nobody still knows how he ended up in the septic tank.It has not been confirmed that it wasn't an accident.

And if Noah had fell and cracked his head on an end table and died while mom was doing the dishes I suppose she should still deserve to be punished for not being there to catch the fall.

You are right, tresptip, we do not have confirmation that it was not an accident. He could have fallen in the septic tank...but then someone had to put the lid on before LE arrived.

As for the coffee table example...I respectfully disagree that it is a valid comparison. If a mother is in the home, she might hear the bump or thud, or at least she would surely come upon and find the child passed out within a few minutes. And then a reasonable, responsible reaction would be to call 911 for medical assistance. A child home alone who experiences an accident does not have the benefit of having aid rendered immediately or within a short time after the accident occurs. And a child who experiences an accident wherein the parent fails to call for help at all has virtually no chance.

Do you know, just a ballpark guess, what the temperature was in Dublin on March 22/23rd?
It was in some of the early MSM articles...I found archived data for Mar 25 - overnight lows were in the 30's and 40's. Highs in the low 60's.

Please show me where the charges include murder or manslaughter. This did not end up in the "physical injury" category. This was a death. They obviously have not determined if Noah went in alone or if he was placed in the tank so I don't see how you can conclude it as a fact. When LE and the DA make that determination...the charges will reflect their theory which they will then try to prove in court. They are not there yet. I read the charges and it is very clear to me.

I am confused. I thought one of AW's charges DID include the physical injury category?

From Roanoke Times http://www.roanoke.com/news/crime/p...cle_317ae1ed-ccc2-52cc-bb94-0ebfb2e94095.html

Ashley White was charged under two different subsections of the law. One charge, like Thomas’, relates to “reckless disregard for human life” and carries with it the same punishment. However, she is also being charged under a more serious subsection that is a Class 4 felony which is punishable by no less than two years and no more than 10 years.
That subsection involves “serious injuries” to a child that were received under an adult’s care. Those injuries, as defined by state code include: “disfigurement, a fracture, a severe burn or laceration, mutilation, maiming, forced ingestion of dangerous substances, or life threatening internal injuries.” (BBM)

An angry mob with torches can also deny a person bond too.

"Thomas' attorney, Lindsay Honeycutt, argued that under normal circumstances his client would be granted bond, but the “highly publicized nature” of the case has contributed to the matter."

I think that most defense attorneys would say something to that effect. Looking back what what they judge said, I don't think this is the sole reason PT was denied bond. She flat out said, “Mr. Thomas has been deceptive. I cannot take his assertions at face value.”

I have to wonder what they stopped at the convenience store for that morning. That's where they were seen on video, right? What was so important that they risked being caught on video w/o their kids?

I think they were probably somewhat in the habit of leaving their kids unattended, so it wasn't something that stood out as a time they needed to be cautious. Since we are all looking at this in reverse, realizing that Noah died that morning, it makes less sense that they would careless enough to be caught on camera. But if they were just doing the normal leave for awhile and let the kids wake up by themselves, then they wouldn't know that eventually someone was going to rewind that video and see they didn't have the kids in the car.

Yes, I agree. I think that if you are of the mentality that leaving your kids at home alone is ok, why wouldn't it be ok to stop at the store? And while many here speculate that Noah perished the night before, if he hadn't, then AW & PT may have just been going about their lives, business as usual. Why avoid a camera when they think they aren't doing anything wrong?

I ran across this article which gives the guidelines for minimum age allowable to leave your children home alone...

http://www.latchkey-kids.com/latchkey-kids-age-limits.htm

According to this, there is no minimum age a child has to be to be legally left home alone in Virginia. And, shockingly, also in most states.

How is this possible? If this is correct, how can LE or DFS conclude neglect based just on the fact that kids are left alone? Clearly, in Noah's case, something went terribly awry (and it may have happened before the parents even left in the morning and sustained neglect certainly may have been present).

From everyone's posts, I can see that most everyone feels that five (and certainly 6-8 months) is too young to be left at home alone, for any amount of time. What age is okay? 8? 9? 12? How much time alone? Just curious. I think small amounts of time are okay once they are around 9-11 if they can demonstrate responsibility and what not.

That article is not complete. The Virginia code specifies that the maturity of the child and the circumstances must be considered. Some of the examples given are if the child has access to an adult (knows how to go to a neighbors house, knows how to call 911). It is not just a blanket allowance of all children of any ages to be left unattended. Virginia also allows for each county to add their own stipulations to this code. This was discussed at length in a previous thread.

http://www.wset.com/story/28809827/update-noah-thomas-case-both-parents-bond-hearings-today

"At the afternoon bond hearing for Ashley White, Noah's mother, White's defense team called Dennis Cales to the stand. Cales, White's uncle, told the court he would allow White to live in his home in Giles County. White said his 11-year-old granddaughter lives with him and his wife.

"Putting her into a home with a child is unthinkable at this point," said Judge Karen Loftin, just before ordering White continue to be held without bond.

BBM

Pretty strong statement from the judge. I'd say a true accident is probably pretty low on the list of "What happened here?"

Agreed. I will maintain that it is possible until proven otherwise but I agree that it is pretty low on the list. I think this judge speaks volumes in her simple statements.

This whole thread would be different if sometime that morning there was a 911 call from mom saying an accident had happened verses a 5 day search which ended with finding his body in a septic tank. We would actually all feel bad for her I imagine. We may still question if he should or shouldnt have been allowed to play outside without supervision but we would all think "God how awful".

This whole thread wouldn't be here b/c there would be nothing to Sleuth. There are no cases on WS of perfectly innocent people acting responsibly and telling the whole truth in a timely manner. And you're right...I think there might be a fair amount of "how could she let that happen?" but we would all feel sorry for her while reading about it in the news and not here.

They could be still be charged with felonies if neglect caused an accidental death.
Agreed. In fact...I think a lot of people are reading in to the charges to interpret that AW's actions were intentional.

I think someone linked up thread that PT's license had been suspended or revoked.

I think it was surmised based on sharing a car and someone sleuthed a prior DUI against him but then I thought someone else cautioned as there are actually more than one Paul Thomas living in that part of the state. If you notice, he is often referred to including his middle name.

It's possible that the parents' neglect allowed the opportunity for someone else to put him in the septic tank, but I think LE probably would have let the public know that they are looking for a killer that put Noah in a septic tank. It doesn't appear to me that they are doing anything other than holding the parents, waiting for the tox reports to come back (they can and have determined IF drugs were present at the initial autopsy, but to determine levels, possibly route and time of ingestion/administering requires more extensive testing)
I agree. I think Sheriff Davis made it very clear that the public had no one else to fear from.

I think that depends on the child too. My oldest, I never left alone until he was 13 because he was not responsible in any way. My 11 year old has always shown great responsibility, so I will leave her home alone for a short period like a trip to the store or right after school if i have a dr appt or something. Usually the now 16 year old is with her, but honestly, the house could be burning down around him and he would be oblivious until it effected his video game. My 5 year old? Yea, he wont be staying home alone for a VERY long time. There is nothing a 5 year old could do that would make me think he was responsible enough to be alone. I wont even get into a 6 month old being left alone. No responsible ADULT would think that a kid can be left alone at those ages.

Yep. That. Great example.
Shallow or labored breathing, even, I would think would be obvious and enough cause for concern.
...Inspiratory stridor, wheezing, gravelly sounding, sucking chest....

I'm sorry, but I know a LOT of people that smoke pot. Daily, weekly, whatever. Whatever these parents were doing was NOT just pot. No way, no how.

There is way more to this story.
Yeah, I think a lot of people are making a lot out about the pot but smoking around your kids, even in the same house where 3rd hand smoke could have impacted their health, is not ok.
 
  • #976
This is a hard story to retell as it's painful to even think back on. But I tell it to let you all know how I was treated by LE, etc. during an incredibly terrifying moment in my life as a mother.
Remember when I said I wasn't super mom.... When my son was just over 2, and my daughter 9 mo. we were in the process of moving. My husband was at work, I was trying to get our home packed & 2 little ones entertained. That day I was packing some bathroom things & I was being plastic tubs of toiletries into the playroom where the kids were playing to go through & pack what we wouldn't need while we were still living at the old house. In one tub were some of my husband's medications (all with childproof prescription bottle lids).
I made the mistake of leaving the playroom to use the bathroom & was gone for maybe 2-3 min. In that time my son was able to get a prescription bottle open & ingest the meds. The meds were prescribed to my husband for anxiety associated with flying.
I came back into the room to see my baby boy barely able to hold his head up or speak. He couldn't stand at all. Then I saw the pills & bottle. To this day I do not recall calling 911 & then my neighbor. But apparently I did.
I was beyond hysterical. When the ambulance & LE arrived (& my neighbor) they weren't going to allow me to ride in the ambulance but I must've thrown such a fit- because they did allow me to. My neighbor stayed with my baby girl until my MIL arrived. At the hospital I was interviewed by CPS. I wasn't ever formally interviewed (other than them asking what had happened) by LE. CPS did not file a report against me. My son was in the hospital for 4 days & I never left him. My husband would bring our baby for me to nurse at the hospital. I just couldn't leave my boy. Thank the Lord my son fully recovered & is now a fabulous, smart, funny & loving 7 year old. He, of course has no recollection of that horrible day. But I will never forget it. Ever. We've kept all of our medications kept on a locked box since that day.

I tell you this story b/c I just feel that if Noah accidentally took meds or something he shouldn't have, I honestly (regardless of the drugs mom & dad are on) do not see how they could not have called for help right then. I sadly feel that there was some type of abuse that ended Noah's life. I don't feel like anything about this was an accident, which is just so so sad. I pray Noah's baby sister goes on to do great things & I know she'll always hold part of her big brother in her heart.

Apologies for the lengthy post...


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I also have a "not perfect" mother story. When my 15 year old daughter was 5 I left her in front of the TV with her sister aged 6 so I could use the bathroom. In the time I was away she went into the kitchen, got a chair from dining set, opened up a tall cupboard, used the chair to stand on a counter top, reach up to a shelf around 5ft up and grab a bottle of car paint restorer. She then took the lid off and drank it. It was bright red! I came downstairs into the kitchen and found my little darling with bright red car polish round her mouth and on her clothes. Phoned immediately for an Ambulance which rushed her to hospital, they had to phone the poisons department in the nearest city as we didn't live in Newcastle then and check the ingredients of the paint polish to see if she would be ok. Luckily she was fine, apart from a stomach ache and some rather unusual coloured poo for the next few days, but when I phoned the ambulance I didn't know if she would be poisoned by what she had drank or not. It never crossed my mind to try and hide what she had done, or wait it out. It was an accident as I could never have foreseen her climbing up 5 ft to grab paint restoring polish from a shelf in a cupboard and drinking it (what was she thinking?)

Having children means sometimes you need to rush them to get treatment. It's part of being a parent and no parent I know who has nothing to hide would even need to think twice if their child was hurt.
 
  • #977
Been following this case from the first but haven't posted much. It has been stuck in my head though. I was wondering, considering the time that AW drove PT to work and the length of time that passed before she raised the alarm for a missing Noah, did AW go directly home after dropping PT off? Were these children/this child left alone much longer than the drive time required to deliver PT? Do we have any evidence (other than AW's statement) to support when she returned home?
 
  • #978
So, it may be nothing to do with this case but I find it interesting that they were arraigned outside of Pulaski (remember the whole "court on Good Friday" debate?) and now they have a substitute judge. Just...interesting.

I find it reprehensible that nothing seems to talk about either of them showing interest in getting Baby A back. Not that they should have her nor deserve her but so much talk of "normal" life, jobs, bills, where to live, etc and no mention of their other child.

The MSM articles mention PT's attorney saying that PT would lose his house if he is not allowed back to work. Lose his rental house? So he wants to go back to the house where his child died? How could he even think to use the toilet there? And do we really think the landlord is going to be able to rent that place again to someone else anytime soon?

When I first moved to the town I live in, there was a lovely rental house that kept popping up. Curious why it remained unrented for many months in a university town where rentals go fast, I researched it. It had been the site of a horrific murder-suicide. The owner painted, put new carpet in, etc. Nothing could get a renter in to that house.

Interesting, too, that she did not ask to be released to go back to the same house. Because PT would not have here there or b/c she did not want to/could not bring herself to go there?
 
  • #979
Did they find evidence of heroin use?

Not that we know of. That is one point I find interesting. Articles state marijuana and Rx meds. Now, Rx meds could be misused, etc.

It made me wonder, too...if there was some cleaning up done, why only hide the heroin and not the pot? Or was there just nothing to clean up?
 
  • #980
Haha! I saw Reefer Madness.
 
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