I have had just the opposite problem with resistance, lying, skirting issues, etc. in trying to get the school to help my grandson. Took me 3 years to get special ed, and of course they blamed me, his glasses, wanting to act cool, etc. for all his problems even though he wasn't living with me when having learning disabilities from birth. Now I can't find the type counseling or treatment that I feel he needs for some severe problems. I feel that it is almost hopeless, so it's not always the parent who won't get help. Some can't find anyone who will help and if they aren't intelligent enough to question things or able to hire an advocate, then the kids are just SOL. Sounds like Cho had plenty of opportunity for help, had enough money, and had to of done well in school or he wouldn't have gotten as far as he was with education. His problem probably wasn't schools or parent lack of help, he needed psyciatric help, but someone has to alert the medical people, get the person to treatment, and the laws have to be followed as far as rights.