I agree that it doesn't matter in terms of the case, but people are posting "pastor" as a putdown, and I admit that gets under my skin. I should sit this one out, probably.
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No, it doesn't matter what his job was. He could have been the greatest youth pastor guy on earth, saved kittens from a burning building, gave blood, helped the elderly, kids loved him, until this happened, as of Thanksgiving Day, 2017, those past 58 years of being a good guy, were tossed out the window.
We had a multiple murder that made big news, in my state, a few years back. A pastor, murdered these folks, who he knew, in broad daylight, at their store. They saw that he was coming and had known he was irate, iirc, and sent their child to the back (and he/she survived). Everyone who knew the man was stunned. All of the good work he'd done over the years, flew out the window on that day. Money, was at the root of it all. He's in prison for life, and they're dead. Another pastor, in our state, and we happened to know this one, (only in passing), was caught in a sex sting... It made the news! Always such a nice person, and from what I understand, his flock loved him. They were just deeply saddened and shocked. All of the good things that he did, and he did do good for folks, went out the window that night. He stepped down and I'm not sure what became of him.
If this happened and change the title from Youth Pastor, to police officer, doctor, school teacher, or firefighter, we'd still all be wondering, what on earth happened?! This guy was in a position of trust, in the community, he was supposed to be one of the good guys, and he did
this?!
I know, when my kids were in youth group, if their pastor had done this, I'd have been just floored, and I'd have felt betrayed, and sad, and angry, and all kinds of emotions, along with mourning the loss of the family. This is a person folks trusted to be around their children. A person in these types of positions, we kinda expect to hold themselves to a higher standard. Change this guy's job to "police officer" or "school teacher"; Would the comments be the same? Idk. I think they'd be fairly harsh, without condemning all school teachers, firemen,doctors, LEOs, etc..