WA WA - Jonathan Hoang, 21, High-functioning Autism, left home w/o jacket, shoes or phone, 114th Dr NE, seen on Burn Rd, Arlington, 30 Mar 2025

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Hold up - I thought he was thought to have left the house. I had not seen anything about his father seeing him going downstairs. ???
 
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Thao last saw his son on Sunday, March 30, at their home outside Arlington, Washington. He says that he was doing his daily run on the treadmill around 7:30 p.m. when Jonathan came into the room and asked if he could sleep in the guest room downstairs.

“I asked him why, and he said, ‘Well, the treadmill is kind of noisy,’” Thao recalled. “I said, ‘Well, it’s a short run — I’ll be done within an hour, way before your bedtime.’ And so he went back to his room.”

A short while later, Jonathan came back into the room and asked his father if he could stay home from school the next day, explaining that he didn’t feel well. Jonathan was enrolled in a transition program at Weston High School in Arlington.

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Again, Jonathan returned to his room. A few minutes later, around 8 p.m., while Thao was still on the treadmill, he saw his son walking downstairs toward the guest room.



“He said, ‘I’m going to bed.’ And I thought it was kind of a little bit strange because we’ve talked about him sleeping in his room,” Thao said. “But I thought, ‘Well, if that’s what you want to do, that’s fine.’ So I said, ‘Good night,’ and he just nodded and then went away.”

No one has reported seeing Jonathan after that moment.
 
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Populations

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I can say this much, having worked with folks with disabilities for many many years:

1) They are often capable of A LOT more than family realizes. This can look like very different things for different people.

2) Just because they've never done something before, doesn't mean that they can't do it or that they won't decide to do something.

That said, LE needs to make at least some attempt at an investigation, which I'm really not seeing much of one here. It might be that he is indeed capable of much more than his family was aware of, but we don't KNOW that without some sort of proof that LE has investigated and found this to be so. Now, of course, LE has no obligation to inform the public of such proof, but family members IMO need to be at least kept abreast of the investigation, and it doesn't sound like any such thing is happening. MOO
 
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NamUs page:


Some info there in regards to his level of his impairment due to autism:

He will not be able to relay his own address or phone numbers. Stims: When anxious, he often rocks or paces. With high anxiety or stress, his movements can become stiff as he paces. Occasionally he has a vocal stim that sounds a bit like “hmm.” He often sits with his shoulders hunched forward.

A bit more there at his page on his usual behaviors/responses, under the “Circumstances of Disappearance” section of his NamUs page.

Also, it says:
Was last seen wearing khaki pants, green polo shirt, and black slip-on shoes.

I thought he was seen by the father going into the downstairs guest bedroom to sleep. If that was so, why wouldn’t Jonathan have been in his sleep clothes (pajamas)?

Perhaps the clothing was determined by process of elimination, what clothing pieces were missing, and not what he was actually seen in?
jmo
 
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NamUs page:


Some info there in regards to his level of his impairment due to autism:

He will not be able to relay his own address or phone numbers. Stims: When anxious, he often rocks or paces. With high anxiety or stress, his movements can become stiff as he paces. Occasionally he has a vocal stim that sounds a bit like “hmm.” He often sits with his shoulders hunched forward.

Stims are not impairment, stims are self soothing/self regulating behaviours.

That info (from the same page):

Although he is verbal, he may not have the skills to seek help, he struggles with problem-solving and tends to shut down when presented with a stressful situation or problem he doesn’t know how to address. If lost, he likely doesn’t know to put himself in a visible space for searchers.

...is way more important, IMO, than his stims. It's obvious Jonathan is NOT high functioning and CANNOT fend for himself. I wish I could know how good was his direction sense. We, autistic people, tend to have problems with that (all the merry times I got lost in a well known area), so if he was taken somewhere, even not very far away from home and left on his own, he might easily get lost and react with shutdown.

I suspect he was going to meet someone and was probably told it won't be a long meeting and he should hurry (that's why he chose his mom slip on shoes, they are way easier to put on than sneakers, and that's why he lefr without his jacket). I think the key to solve this case is most probably in Jonathan's home or in the internet places he frequented.
 
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Stims are not impairment, stims are self soothing/self regulating behaviours.

That info (from the same page):



...is way more important, IMO, than his stims. It's obvious Jonathan is NOT high functioning and CANNOT fend for himself. I wish I could know how good was his direction sense. We, autistic people, tend to have problems with that (all the merry times I got lost in a well known area), so if he was taken somewhere, even not very far away from home and left on his own, he might easily get lost and react with shutdown.

I suspect he was going to meet someone and was probably told it won't be a long meeting and he should hurry (that's why he chose his mom slip on shoes, they are way easier to put on than sneakers, and that's why he lefr without his jacket). I think the key to solve this case is most probably in Jonathan's home or in the internet places he frequented.
Sorry. I didn’t mean to be insensitive. I did struggle while composing my post, and still offended. I really apologize!

I highlighted the portion I did should anyone encounter Jonathan. One might notice these behaviors. And if they asked him his address or phone number in trying to help him, it says he wouldn’t be able to say.
 
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Urgent update from Crimestoppers. Jonothan Hoang spotted 1 week ago!
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Urgent update from Crimestoppers. Jonothan Hoang spotted 1 week ago!
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Was last seen wearing khaki pants, green polo shirt, and black slip-on shoes.

Well, according to the new photos, he isn't wearing any clothing he was last seen in.

It looks like he's wearing a blue t-shirt, black pants, and possibly gray shoes/sneakers.
 
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Area of potential sighting is shared

Interesting information on the official missing site. It appears that he was trying to find his way home, because he was spotted at several locations in Kirkland on NE 114th Lane. His address in Arlington is on 114th Dr NE.
 
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Interesting information on the official missing site. It appears that he was trying to find his way home, because he was spotted at several locations in Kirkland on NE 114th Lane. His address in Arlington is on 114th Dr NE.
Am I pulling the wrong addresses? Because these show as an hour apart drive and a days walk
 
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Am I pulling the wrong addresses? Because these show as an hour apart drive and a days walk

That is the problem. He was looking for his house on 114th NE, but he was on NE 114th in the wrong city. How he got there, we don't know. He seems to be wandering around looking for home.

I hope that the local TV stations are showing his picture frequently and are giving updates.
 
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That is the problem. He was looking for his house on 114th NE, but he was on NE 114th in the wrong city. How he got there, we don't know. He seems to be wandering around looking for home.

I hope that the local TV stations are showing his picture frequently and are giving updates.


This makes me feel like someone gave him a ride and this is the only way he could express it and that’s where they dropped him off.
 
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Was last seen wearing khaki pants, green polo shirt, and black slip-on shoes.

Well, according to the new photos, he isn't wearing any clothing he was last seen in.

It looks like he's wearing a blue t-shirt, black pants, and possibly gray shoes/sneakers.

Comment by Admin of the Help Us Find Jonathan Hoang FB page under this post (Link)

we have never known with certainty what he was wearing, but yes, the clothing originally thought missing was found and the NAMUS listing should be updated.

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So, it seems the khaki pants and green polo shirt they put out that he was wearing turned out not to be correct, as those items of clothing were since found at home,
apparently. Therefore, I guess it may not necessarily be a signal that he changed clothes, where we see him in this other set of clothing.
jmo
 
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Comment by Admin of the Help Us Find Jonathan Hoang FB page under this post (Link)

we have never known with certainty what he was wearing, but yes, the clothing originally thought missing was found and the NAMUS listing should be updated.

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So, it seems the khaki pants and green polo shirt they put out that he was wearing turned out not to be correct, as those items of clothing were since found at home,
apparently. Therefore, I guess it may not necessarily be a signal that he changed clothes, where we see him in this other set of clothing.
jmo
The original photo shows him in the same as the recent video so it’s definitely fairs to say he left in that and they didn’t know he had changed clothes or were uncertain. Except the mother’s gardening shoes is so very weird? Right? That’s very specific

Is the admin family?
 
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Surveillance footage from multiple neighbors shows a young man resembling Hoang in the South Juanita area near 105th Avenue Northeast and Northeast 112th Street.


The family will hold a grid search on Wednesday morning, and hand out flyers and grid maps in the area where he was potentially spotted in the hopes of finding him.
 
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Where are you buddy
 

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