Well she is a professional counselor so I would not be suggesting her ideas are CRAZY. And no on is talking about throwing in any towel on finding out what happened. Here it is, I should never have shared the info about her son with a bunch of strangers anyway, I thought maybe people on this board cared about the other victims, her children. And thought it was important to show they are going through life and dealing with what kids deal with and have to have a mother missing at the same time. I'm sure it would be a wonderful idea to drag her young sons out to go look for a deaceased body of their mother, yeah, hum wonder why the dad's aren't out searching. Good God! I will not be sharing anymore info on this board about anything being that people only want to criticize and gossip about what might have happened and what isn't being done. Why don't you go search for RA instead of sitting on here speculating all day and wonder why no one else is doing enough to help find her. And further more her son wanted to get up and share with his class what he was going through, his teacher did not make him, he hoped they would understand and leave him alone, he is much stronger than any of those little aholes at school and he is for the time being handling things and trying to live as much of a normal life as he can .