Jeana (DP) said:
True enough, but we were talking about the father of a 14-year old girl who dropped her off at a bowling alley so she could be picked up to be taken to a party. He didn't know the adults picking up his teenager nor where the party was going to be. That's just not responsible parenting. We do our best even if we're not perfect, but what this father did is pure rubbish.
I'm not sure that is true. Where did you find that?
The story I found and posted above listed this, plus more:
Kyle Moore dropped his 14-year-old daughter off at a Tacoma bowling alley Friday night,
knowing she was meeting up with older friends for a ride to a dance party in Seattle, one with a zombie theme.
He didn’t kiss her for fear of smearing her black and white makeup -- a get-up that would enable her to get into the “Better Off Undead” rave for a discounted price, $15. He didn’t hug her for fear of getting the makeup on himself.
He [her dad] described her as outgoing and friendly, intelligent but -- like himself -- a bad student who had a hard time with the structure of the classroom
. He knew her older friends, who ranged in age from 16 to 21, and he trusted them.
She had recently been out all night for a St. Patrick’s Day rave. She always called, and she always came home when she said she would. Kyle said he tried to be a cool dad, so that Melissa and her 16-year-old brother, Cameron, would be open with him.
Sometimes, it worked: She admitted she smoked pot on occasion, but promised him she didn’t drink or do the harder drugs available in the rave scene.
But she did hide some things. After she got into the car with her friends on Friday, she changed into an outfit she thought her parents would have disapproved of. It involved a bra made of candy, said one friend who was there, a mohawked 16-year-old who goes only by Otterpop.
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I told her it’s not an atmosphere for young children,” said Otterpop, dressed in black with beaded bracelets covering his wrists. “She assured me she didn’t do drugs, and I had never seen her doing any. I figured everything was OK.
She was just really happy to be going.” Once they arrived at the “Better Off Undead” rave, Melissa did her own thing.
When the event ended, the friends her parents trusted couldn’t find her. They went home, and she went to an after-party at a blue, two-story home on Capitol Hill.

Melissa Moore, 14