WA WA - Sky Metalwala, 2, Bellevue, 6 Nov 2011 - # 7

[MizStery]

bbm
It cut off after the two........

Not one hour arrangements but two ? That cracked me up for some reason.:floorlaugh:

Remember on the other thread how we needled each other with our I may not be an expert....:floorlaugh:

 

[belimom]

Soooo....... If she would prostitute herself in this way, it's not a huge moral jump to selling Sky to a mad pervert.

You and I are thinking the same thing. I hope that's not what happened... :no:

 

[gngr~snap]

My question is: why did LE release this bit of info...? What are they trying to accomplish by releasing it? Maybe to flush out whoever she may have had contact with? :waitasec:

I think someone that had seen her profile on the site outed her..
or the owner maybe.
Thank you whoever you are for doing the right thing!
Hopefully you will start a new trend Talk away don't WALK away!

eta:Sugar baby sounds like she was gonna rent out the daughter! I'm sure thta was mot the case!
JB is in no way a "baby"!

 

[RT51]

I think LE is trying flush out witnesses to JB's behaviour. Personally, I don't care what she did on her own time, I just hope she didn't leave the kids alone, yet again.

As far as the one seat goes for the children to use to eat, I think she most likely fed them one at a time and kept that wet rag nearby for clean up.

 

[~n/t~]

I don't see a problem with the fruit on the counter and not seeing it as staged. Just because there are lots of oranges and apples, this type of fruit lasts quite awhile. She could be making squeezed fresh orange juice.

I am by myself and I have 6 apples, 5 bananas and 3 oranges I bought for myself for the week.

The juicer looks like it's new and imo, it became the highlight of the day with the children.....M wanting to try the juicer. I use to make popsicles with the kids when they were young from freshly squeezed juice.

I think like in the Baby Lisa case, perhaps some are looking at every little detail and turn into something nefarious.

I need something more than a juicer and a dating site to prove she harmed her baby boy.

 

[OneLove]

Maybe they are leveraging her. They may have MUCH more damaging info and hope she will spill before they make public EVERYTHING.

ETA: and I'm guessing they already have some good info on who her "contacts" have been, based on computer forensics. I bet johns are turning themselves in at warp speed to keep from being suspected of kidnapping Sky, or worse. It's those who DON'T turn themselves in that will get the proverbial proctoscope treatment from LE (and us ).

Bumping

 

[OneLove]

I need something more than a juicer and a dating site to prove she harmed her baby boy.

Ok, how about a juicer used only for staging and a prostitution site where she is openly selling her wares while she has preschool children in-house?

 

[Bearcat109]

My question is: why did LE release this bit of info...? What are they trying to accomplish by releasing it? Maybe to flush out whoever she may have had contact with? :waitasec:

Perhaps. Some may come forward because they know the police will eventually dig up their information and expose them.

 

[Chris_Texas]

:waitasec: All these photos are the same photo, of which appears to be the kitchen with "little" M sitting on the kitchen-counter.

Thanks! Let me try again:

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Kid's bedroom?

You don't usually see interior doors with glass and lock like this. This is a common area room of some kind that they are using as a bedroom for both kids.

Note: no outlet protectors

More pics of the kid's "bedroom".

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[ClassyT]

From SmoothOperator:

"But by March 2009- (with Julia still pregnant with Sky) she had once again spiraled downhill and agreed to go see Dr. Katerina Rebova who diagnosed her as bi-polar and upheld the dx of depression/OCD- she was prescribed medication along with behavioral treatment as well.. Julia did not improve due to her unwilling to try the behavioral treatments the dr was ordering.. She wanted to only take a pill.. Thus she switched from med to med in search of a pill to help.."

This is awesome stuff you've delineated here! I'm going to need to go through it to draw various conclusions but, first -- to all you other mental health professionals out there: does a diagnosis of bipolar AND depression seem off to you? I don't do a lot of diagnosing -- just treatment once the diagnosis has been arrived at by our resident psychiatrist, but isn't it implied that you have depression if you're diagnosed BPD? There are subtypes of BPD where the person may have stronger features of depression than mania but I don't get diagnosing depression and BPD when depression is already a feature of BPD. If it is unusual to diagnose depression as comorbid with BPD, then what was JB's clinician trying to say?

Wouldnt you be more BPDII? isnt that more depression than mania episodes?

 

[OneLove]

I would not be surprised to find that the juicer was not in her apartment when Sky disappeared. It may well have belonged to a friend or family member and she got rid of it as soon as pics were taken. It doesn't necessarily even look like it's been used in the pic.

 

[cocomod]

Notice on the "dating" website that she does not mention the kids. I wonder if she left the kids alone while she went to "meet" her sugar-daddy.

 

[gngr~snap]

The "sugar daddy's" could be where the crime scene is. What if she moved in with him and that's why no one had seen the kids for 2 weeks? I think she found a match or she would have logged on since 10/26...
Hope he wasn't harmed the 27th... LE would have lost so many days!

 

[carole]

Can I just add that there's all that daggone fruit on the counter but no photos of the kids actually eating it? (unless I'm missing something). There's toast, there's pancakes, there's veggies, there's hotdogs. No fruit. I found one photo of M. carrying fruit a year earlier, but that's it. What's up with the bounty of fruit?! I see them making juice. Apparently, no one drank it or there'd surely be a photo of that....just sayin'

Also, um, as a photographer....what's the subject in this photo? Not M. Not JB. The FRUIT.

The photos with all the fruit and the juicer in them are NOT Julia's apartment, they were taken at her mother's apartment.

 

[belimom]

Notice on the "dating" website that she does not mention the kids. I wonder if she left the kids alone while she went to "meet" her sugar-daddy.

I think she does -

mommy of 2 beautiful babies

ETA: - my computer is unhappy and won't let me quote any url's right now - but it's the link to her site is above

 

[belimom]

The photos with all the fruit and the juicer in them are NOT Julia's apartment, they were taken at her mother's apartment.

Are you certain...? I was thinking the countertop, etc., match her apartment.

 

[~n/t~]

She wasn't looking to date. She was looking to be kept. To the tune of $3,000 to $5,000 a month. Not cheap. Sort of speaks to her morals to me. The only thing that could have been worse is if she was working as an escort, which wouldn't surprise me either. Or a Craigslist companion. Let's just say she appears to be someone who believes that she should be compensated for her, uh, company.

thank goodness she said she has 2 kids......I can't imagine the outrage if she would've said she had no kids. :thewhip:

I interpreted it to mean she wanted someone who was financially stable and not some unemployed loser.....sort of weeds out the bad ones. KWIM?

But maybe I'm totally off because I know nothing about that dating site except people speculating that it has to do with prostitution.

 

[Patty G]

The juicer looks like it's new and imo, it became the highlight of the day with the children.....M wanting to try the juicer. I use to make popsicles with the kids when they were young from freshly squeezed juice.

I think like in the Baby Lisa case, perhaps some are looking at every little detail and turn into something nefarious.

I need something more than a juicer and a dating site to prove she harmed her baby boy.

For me, I don't care about the fruit and the juicer, however I feel she did harm Sky, either by neglect in leaving both children alone or in some other manner and now that the "Seeking Arrangement" website has surfaced, I am even more concerned.

 

[Chris_Texas]

Seriously? That dating site through you off the fence? She joined in July. Is a single mom not allowed to date?

Help me out ......I don't get why people are so upset about the dating site? I agree that it's another investigative tool for LE to look into but why is everyone in such an uproar before we even know if it has anything to do with Sky's disappearance? :waitasec:

It's not exactly a dating site. :innocent:

Sugar daddy is a slang term for a rich man who offers money or gifts to a younger person in return for part time companionship and sex. Mom of the year here is offering to prostitute herself out for cash. That, by the way, is the reason that ideal arrangement is in quotes -- she is saying that she is willing to consider pretty much any kink or fetish he has in mind.

 

[cocomod]

I think that it is telling that there are many, many pictures taken on one day, then nothing... then many, many pictures taken, then nothing...

I do think the pictures tell a story. The picture with the "messy" hotel room appears to be when her dad came to visit (by the way - he looks mean to me!)

The fact that she is looking for a sugar daddy is interesting. It may point partly to her breakdown. Although SB was trying, he could not supply enough money to satisfy her needs - like a built-in nanny.

I do not think it is necessarily true that SB wants homepathic doctors. It might be more likely that JB likes that type of medicine. Often, husbands allow the mothers to take care of the children's medical needs. For some reason, some want to automatically suspect the father of nefarious issues - such as controlling SB; however, we must note that Sky disappeared while in JB's custody, not SB. I am not yet a believer that SB has a hidden dark side to him. He is quiet and tried to help his wife during her bouts with mental "issues".