G&AMom
Verified Mikette
- Joined
- Feb 8, 2013
- Messages
- 2,731
- Reaction score
- 18
Back in my early 30's, I met a guy who really kept trying to talk to me. We went out a few times, nothing romantic (to me), and one night I was at a local place and some girl confronted me in the bathroom. Asked me if my name was _____, which freaked me out (how does this stranger know my name??!??!!). She then proceeded to tell me that this guy was her boyfriend, maybe they had kids, I don't really remember now, but what I DO remember was her telling me her friends wanted her to just jump me but she wanted to speak with me first. I offered to have her follow me to close to where I lived, I'd call the guy and tell him to meet me, and she could bust him. She was more than happy with that, so I called him, he showed up near my place and so did she. She lit into him and I remember him standing their looking at me as I walked away and said, "How could you do this?" and I said, "Because you lied."
Thankfully, I never heard from/saw either again. But my view is that we are all sisters really, and many times guys will lie to get a little side action. Why not stick up for each other, instead of being mad at the girl?? YES, there are lying, conniving chicks who thrive on stealing the husbands/boyfriends of other women to somehow prove they "have it and she doesn't" but one day they will find out. And they'll deserve all they get. In the meantime, we should look out for one another.
My feeling in these situations is always, honey, if you can get him, he's yours. He's not the last pair of sandals at Bloomingdale's.