Good Morning to all the WBers!!! Fresh coffee :cup: :cup: :cup: or refills!!!!
I hope everyone is having a fine morn on this beautiful Saturday.
I have had enough of AVL, I have turned her over to the Judge, Karma and the Universe. She got to me yesterday big time, I just don't want my serenity disturbed by her testimony. She isn't worth it. That being said and my :twocents: on this embarrassing colleague issue.
Some thoughts is Travis going along in life being a regular guy of 30 year old attempting to make it appearing to do a pretty good job of it too. He is struggling between his faith and finding his place with being single, hormones and pressure to be married. He wasn't perfect so who is. I am sure he would have figured it out eventually IF HE HAD THAT CHANCE!!
He seemed to be an easy going and out going guy who enjoyed giving/helping others as one part of his spiritual journey. He was very tolerant person of others faults, misgivings and empathetic.
When he met Jodi, the tides turned to a world he was not use to. He attempted to continue to be understanding, positive, over looking faults, and doing what he thought was what the "right way' to handle this horrible situation with Jodi especially once he was putting two and two together as to what she was doing. His tolerance of Arias stalking Obsessive vengeful behavior was pretty high until....
...a "Something" happen in May, 2008 Arias did that was the last straw for easy-going Travis and he loose it. "The Something" had to be so bad for Travis to slice and dice Arias. After hearing the admitted lines he did say, I heard hurt in his words. For example, The words he used "the slang for prostitute" means to me he may have felt used, "dildo with a heartbeat" means to me he still felt being used.
I believe, unbeknownst to him, he sealed his fate when he threaten Arias to "tell her parents and friend" "The Something". "The Something" had to be pretty bad in the eyes of Travis to actually go to her friends/family.
I don't believe "The Something" is hacking his emails, Facebook, My Space accounts, bank accounts because she had been doing those actions for awhile with his knowledge. "The Something" must have occurred in May and it was a whopper.
This is out of character of Travis it just has been something over and beyond what has been going on prior to all of her snarly, stalking behaviors previously.
I hope we can hear in re-buttal the "The Something" unless it is too prejudicial.
JHMO