What makes you think Terri Horman is innocent?

[debirlfan]

Giving the matter of the questionnaires some more thought.

Let's assume for a moment that no one saw TH leave with Kyron...

This probably won't be a popular suggestion, but - what if Kyron was a willing participant in his own disappearance? What if his supposed excitement about the science fair wasn't because of the fair, but because he knew that was the day they were going to "make their escape?" It could well have been pre-planned that he would sneak out the back door and meet TH somewhere - and would hide in the back of the truck or under the dash so no one would see him as they drove away.

Why? Abuse would be the most obvious possibility, but it could also be that Kyron was simply more attached to his step-mother than his father, and she could have told him that he would be taken from her.

And I know some have said that IF there WAS abuse, the simple thing would have been to alert the mother so she could take custody. Well, my understanding is that Dad had gained custody because the mother had a medical issue. TH could have been thinking "what if that medical condition re-appears or worsens?" Then the father gets custody back again - and TH is out of the picture and unable to do anything.

 

[froginTtown]

*** I just wanted to show everyone why I feel close to this case.. at times I see Kyron...so sad...

I just changed my avitar/pic to my 11 yr old son..Him and Kyron look alot alike...

I'm computer ill. and didn't know how to do it any other way...

 

[butterfly1978]

*** I just wanted to show everyone why I feel close to this case***

I just changed my avitar/pic to my 11 yr old son..Him and Kyron look alot alike...

I'm computer ill. and didn't know how to do it any other way...

No offense because I do understand you want to show why you feel close to this case, but putting pictures of kids online is not a safe thing to do, and in the media unless its worth the risk such as a missing child case media blurs the face out. Your son is beautiful, but PLEASE do the safe thing and remove his photo. JMO

 

[froginTtown]

No offense because I do understand you want to show why you feel close to this case, but putting pictures of kids online is not a safe thing to do, and in the media unless its worth the risk such as a missing child case media blurs the face out. Your son is beautiful, but PLEASE do the safe thing and remove his photo. JMO

It's such a shame when you can't show a pic of your own son. What kind of a world can we expect for our children/grand children to grow up in...so sad.. <<hugs>>

 

[Kat]

It's such a shame when you can't show a pic of your own son. What kind of a world can we expect for our children/grand children to grow up in...so sad.. <<hugs>>

You can upload the picture you want to share from your User CP (user control panel) into an album.

Then you can set your privacy settings for that album and who you want to let see that pic(s). Friends only, members...etc.

Had to go look to make sure I am telling your right: Go and click on the button User CP at the top of this page. Then look at the list to the left and you will see picture and albums link (under networking heading) click on that and follow the written instructions. Hope that helps.

 

[21merc7]

This is what I think!!! Also, my husband who ALWAYS comes down on the man's side in EVERYTHING, who doesn't read WS, but does watch JVM and NG, and has me give him an update every day, thinks this as well! He shocked me, truly shocked me earlier this evening when he said that.

Thanks for posting. This was my very first thought when this news came out.

 

[KeyboardCat]

It's such a shame when you can't show a pic of your own son. What kind of a world can we expect for our children/grand children to grow up in...so sad.. <<hugs>>

Agreed.

I am always fearful of the possibility of someone hurting my children. I am sure I should be criticized for this, but my husband and I have a king sized bed just so our two children can sleep with us. Even though they could sleep in their own beds, I want them in my bedroom. I cannot imagine not waking up and being powerless to help them in another room while I sleep. If anyone tries to get to them, they have to go through me. I know its extreme, but my reasoning is there a man who has a history of abusing children, but managed to never be arrested for it, lives not too far from me.

I cannot imagine what the world will be like a few decades down the road.

 

[WholeLottaRosie]

Agreed.

I am always fearful of the possibility of someone hurting my children. I am sure I should be criticized for this, but my husband and I have a king sized bed just so our two children can sleep with us. Even though they could sleep in their own beds, I want them in my bedroom. I cannot imagine not waking up and being powerless to help them in another room while I sleep. If anyone tries to get to them, they have to go through me. I know its extreme, but my reasoning is there a man who has a history of abusing children, but managed to never be arrested for it, lives not too far from me.

I cannot imagine what the world will be like a few decades down the road.

I think the Family Bed is a cool idea. We didn't do it, but, as a baby my daughter was always in our room, near me, at night, first in a bassinette, later in a crib - our bedroom is pretty big, and we made her area at one end. It worked for us, I sure slept better.

She has her own bedroom now, but, often sleeps in our room, on a day bed in the sitting area, by her choice. She often says she is going to sleep in her room, but will change her mind and come in.

 

[Mylou]

This case I find so incredibly strange because it is like it is slowly unraveling like some kind of mystery novel. I hate thinking like this, but it seems too bizarre to be true.
I find every day now I wonder what will be next. It's like all the focus on the SM, create anger and hatred against her, increase it with a hired hitman. Only the SM part is missing, like its all about her, yet we never hear directly from her. It's like her story being told without her imput. Very very strange.
And where is Kyron in all of this? A sweet innocent boy who just disappears one day in school.
I cannot think of a case that has been in the media before where everything focus's on one person, and that person never speaks.
I don't know what to think anymore.
Im not sure I want to hear anymore, except that Kyron has been found.

 

[Trident]

Just wanted to comment on part of this. I have read a lot of your posts and I respect your insight. I know for me , I see a lot of restraint and class for DY because if I thought someone had done something with or to one of my kids/grands I would NOT have that restraint. I just would not. I would probably end up in jail myself.

And you would be reacting like a real mother in my opinion.

 

[Trident]

This case I find so incredibly strange because it is like it is slowly unraveling like some kind of mystery novel. I hate thinking like this, but it seems too bizarre to be true.
I find every day now I wonder what will be next. It's like all the focus on the SM, create anger and hatred against her, increase it with a hired hitman. Only the SM part is missing, like its all about her, yet we never hear directly from her. It's like her story being told without her imput. Very very strange.
And where is Kyron in all of this? A sweet innocent boy who just disappears one day in school.
I cannot think of a case that has been in the media before where everything focus's on one person, and that person never speaks.
I don't know what to think anymore.
Im not sure I want to hear anymore, except that Kyron has been found.

I agree with most of your post, but I want ALL the facts out on the table, not just the ones "allowed". I'll just bet there's a lot more that went into this disappearance than will be made public and not all of it on Terri's part.

That said, I find it very sad that TH is bearing the brunt, now even PPD, and Kyron still disappeared while there were 3 other supposedy healthy adults in this mix.
We haven't heard the end of this yet folks, and as far as I'm concerned, KYRON is the only victim.

MY OPINION ONLY

 

[KeyboardCat]

WHY???!!! WHAT ON EARTH is more important than finding out where Kyron is? So she was on Sauvie buying crack? Cheating? Hiring illegal immigrants as babysitters??? What on EARTH could be so embarrassing that after a FREAKING MONTH she'd be so worried about telling the truth about if it would help advance the investigation? I just cannot wrap my mind around this. I don't care WHAT I had done...danced naked through a crack infested bordello while selling state secrets...NOTHING would be so embarrassing/illegal/immoral that it would stop me from telling the truth about my whereabouts when it came to finding an innocent child...nothing!

THIS!

Yessss

Thankyou, Rosiebean! :blowkiss:

 

[Trident]

I want to say that I'm not such a fool as to disregard all the innuendoes, probable causes, and gut feelings from the bio parents and LE. HOWEVER, I need to make my stance clear.

I'm not SURE TH is innocent, nor am I sure she is guilty. What I am SURE of is we have only heard bad things about her from the other 2 bio parents. IF she was not to be trusted, where was bio mom? Did bio dad thwart her having full custody, or didn't she want it? What in 'ell went down there?

I see TH being villanized, yet the others are so close to Kyron and SEEM to appear lily pure. Well, real life doesn't work that way. NO ONE is 100% pure - what aren't we "allowed" to know about the others in the disappearance? Would all the skeletons, if they were revealed, make a different scenerio than the one we're seeing? ONE person, TH, cannot be such a villan and continue to be a wife, mother, and stepmother. This just isn't reality. If it is, then the bio parents need to get counseling for entrusting their precious child to her daily care.

I cannot say TH is innocent. I cannot say TH is guilty. I CAN say something isn't right with this entire picture.

My opinion only

 

[tlcya]

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Trident

 

[cypress]

Trident, I would add my thanks to your post x 1000 if I could.

So, now it comes out that Terri has or had PPD, but people won't believe it because it supposedly helps her. Even though PPD would explain her weight gain and her supposedly strange behavior and lack of free flowing tears at the press conferences. Hmm...

Anyway, I'm not sure PPD really helps Terri, although it might explain some of her behavior. If she abducted and killed Kyron, PPD isn't going to exonerate her in the eyes of a jury, IMHO.

I don't find much of Terri's behavior all that odd. Perhaps she reacted differently than I would, but I don't know exactly how I'd react, and I pray I never have to find out. For the people saying she is acting odd, though, the PPD could definitely explain her behavior. Why is this not allowed? I'm surprised at the dismissiveness. I'm concerned about the public conviction of this woman without a shred of real evidence.

 

[Kimster]

We have a new thread on this topic due to new information being released. I am closing this thread and we can continue the discussion here: [ame="http://www.websleuths.com/forums/showthread.php?t=108861"]If Terri didn't do it, then why..... - Websleuths Crime Sleuthing Community[/ame]