What will Cindy's Role be in Upcoming Events?

[OneLostGrl]

ITA.. we saw her turn on KC when she badmouthed her: "sociopath" is what she called her daughter. She criticized her in front of Jesse and in front of TonE.
She creeped out Amy by telling her all of KC's faults in the car on the way to TonE's. I'll bet that stolen car report in 1996 was an example of her turning on her. The 911 call is another example.

Chiquita--my mother used to make me crazy. I'd get so mad when she'd criticize me. I'd do everything she expected of me and it was never good enough. She would say one thing and do the opposite. I can easily see how mad and crazy KC could become with a mother like mine. Been there.
My poor younger sister became an addict at age 13. She's 52 now and never worked. My mother would say "she can't work because ...." just fill in the blank. One summer I worked 3 jobs to get a down payment for a house and a neighbor said "your mom hopes you don't get the loan approval".
I always thought I wanted my mother to just die, but I really wanted her to love me.

Ohh gosh you made me cry! I so know what ya'll mean- the mother thing is never easy and I worry every day that I'll turn into her- every day! I was never held responsible for anything in my entire life. I never had to work for anything or take care of my own needs except for my personal hygiene. If I asked for it, I got it.. if she couldn't afford it she'd take me to the store and steal it. She loved me, she'd "do anything for me"!

But nothing I did or said or wore or smelt like was ever good.. enough My fears were shoved aside and made fun of as if they were not real, we (my siblings and I) were forced to adapt to HER life, to fufill HER needs.. you always hope that one day it'll happen, that one day she will see you just as you are and love you for it.

:hug:

 

[ExpectingUnicorns]

Ohh gosh you made me cry! I so know what ya'll mean- the mother thing is never easy and I worry every day that I'll turn into her- every day! I was never held responsible for anything in my entire life. I never had to work for anything or take care of my my own needs except for my personal hygiene. If I asked for it, I got it.. if she couldn't afford it she'd take me to the store and steal it. She loved me, she'd "do anything for me"!

But nothing I did or said or wore or smelt like was ever good.. enough My fears were shoved aside and made fun of as if they were not real, we (my siblings and I) were forced to adapt to HER life, to fufill HER needs.. you always hope that one day it'll happen, that one day she will see you just as you are and love you for it.

:hug:

OLG, the fact that you worry every day about turning into your mother is a pretty good guarantee that you are and will continue to be a better mother than most of us that were blessed with two nurturing parents!! Thank you for your wise and sensitive sharing with so many peeps here. I just wish you would change your name from OneLostGrl to OneWiseWoman; it would fit you much better! Proudly moo.

 

[kageykaren]

lets go for ice cream! More hugs! I would bet CA is going to be groomed for trial in every effective way. Looks, deameanor, voice, language tone. same as KC. CA has the best of the best and ABC begind her. I'm not bragging but I posted a post on this thread that totally sums up for me what CA is about and her plans for the future. It seems to me that Ms. Notekeeper is going to stick this out to the end as she may be fianancially stable when KC is senteced and laid to rest in a maximum secrity prison. CA will probably make a few regular visists, bring some brownies for the guards and chat'em up while in the wait room. The visits will slowely come to an end. CA has just set herself up for anything she wants and I don't see her sharing. Take away the added frustration of obstruction most marriages end in divorce. Writings on the wall for me. ~<3~ Her grandaughter was murdered, (KC) and CA is gaining a new life. "Thou shall not say gods child's name in vain" Is that a bible verse? George??? That frightens me. ): ~<3~

 

[kageykaren]

OLG, We can all leave our picks for a new hat name, start the thread in the jury room and you pick one.! "Girl Lovin On" I'll keep thinking ~<3~

 

[sakirkland]

Did anyone notice at the hearing the other day CA had her head on GA's shoulder most of the time? If this has been already mentioned I'm sorry.

 

[essies]

Did anyone notice at the hearing the other day CA had her head on GA's shoulder most of the time? If this has been already mentioned I'm sorry.

She's in training-working on a media makeover IMO!! She may have had her head on George's shoulder but the producer was on the other side!! Info at the producer's website shows they work with their clients for just that reason!!
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Although, I think producer Jim has alot more work to do on George!! His performance at the last hearing on the stand was atrocious!!!

 

[sakirkland]

Thanks Essies. It just blows me away that GA & CA are going to these EXTREME measures for Casey. What's wrong with these people?

 

[kageykaren]

My exacts words Essies! I'm going to count on you to keep us posted concerning CA's future auditions displaying her improved avoidance and obstruction. No spin is going to smooth out the damage she has done in Caylee's memory. So the A's prefer training to be more likeable after baptismal instead of individu falmily mental health counseling to learn to speak the truth & heal. These 2 or 3 will never change and how they will live with themselves should be interesting. Is there a current You Tube video of CA & boys ugly coping?

 

[sakirkland]

Yes Kageykaren, that is what I was trying to say.

 

[essies]

George and Cindy's face should really be on this link!!http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/the_awful_truth/b142153_celebrity_liars_love_larry_king.html
Wonder if G&C will give Larry another go after their acting coach/producer is done with them?

 

[doogiesgirl]

ITA.. we saw her turn on KC when she badmouthed her: "sociopath" is what she called her daughter. She criticized her in front of Jesse and in front of TonE.
She creeped out Amy by telling her all of KC's faults in the car on the way to TonE's. I'll bet that stolen car report in 1996 was an example of her turning on her. The 911 call is another example.

Chiquita--my mother used to make me crazy. I'd get so mad when she'd criticize me. I'd do everything she expected of me and it was never good enough. She would say one thing and do the opposite. I can easily see how mad and crazy KC could become with a mother like mine. Been there.
My poor younger sister became an addict at age 13. She's 52 now and never worked. My mother would say "she can't work because ...." just fill in the blank. One summer I worked 3 jobs to get a down payment for a house and a neighbor said "your mom hopes you don't get the loan approval".
I always thought I wanted my mother to just die, but I really wanted her to love me.

You have no idea how much I understand your post. Why..... no I'm not going there. I'll just say I'll understand your (and my own) unexplainable need to have the love and approval of my mother. It's weird after all thats gone on. But there it is.

I guess we all have some dysfunction in our lives, don't we? Maybe we should count ourselves lucky to not be sitting where KC is. I'm not talking about killing your child BTW, think older generation. moo

 

[Searchfortruth]

Cindy's role in upcoming events ? I predict escalated episodes of catipulting herself over the court bench to garner just a brief look from her misunderstood daughter, possibly accompanied by over exagerated sighing, acute coughing episodes and eventually uncontrollabe drooling from the mouth...I wouldn't be surprised if she actually ends up falling head first over her perch in an attempt to get even a brief response from the "mother of the year". Of course Casey won't offer so much as a glance in her direction as the 911 call is being placed, but rather will shake hands warmly with each and every defense atty under her command during her exit from the court room.

This is an attempt at a joke...sort of. Either I'm on Anthony overload or I'm finally starting to crack. Feel free to not respond to this.

 

[Vera_75]

I am a parent, and grandparent, and I 'get' that Cindy feels guilty (which I believe she does), about what happened to Caylee, and Casey. So, in order to make reparations she lies, and/or tries to obfuscate the truth. Casey will not be letting either of them off the hook,...any day soon, or ever.

I read all of the documents, and watched all of the video's of Cindy and George, at the Document Store. It's very obvious that they are desperate to save Casey, even to the point of lying to everybody, including the Court. They are behaving like fools with the ridiculous comments. To me, it makes them look guilty of lying to the Court. They don't even listen to their lawyer!

In the beginning the only one of them who told anything near the truth was George, now he is lying just like his wife. I am also wondering if he really did see Casey leave the house, with Caylee, on June 16th, or is this just another lie to protect his precious sociopathic daughter? I should use the new, correct term, Antisocial Personality Disorder. Casey fits it 100%. Here is just one link that explains this disorder: http://peopleintenews.wordpress.com/2008/10/15/profiling-casey-anthony/

Sociopath or APD does NOT mean crazy! She is NOT crazy, and never was! She is just heartless, selfish, jealous, extreme liar, capable of murder, and none of these traits are considered mental illness. Singularly or together...they do NOT constitute crazy!

Just think about this, if Cindy and George had forced Casey to face the music, when she broke the rules, before this horrible murder (yes, I said it), then maybe Caylee would still be alive.

I am sure Cindy and George are torturing themselves over this aspect, and will forever, but we should not pity them, at the expense of allowing the guilty party to walk. An innocent child, their granddaughter, is dead, and even more heinous, was murdered by their selfish daughter.

Casey needs to pay for this. This time she has to face the music, on her own. Sometimes even the best parents interfere too much, trying to save their children from consequences.

Saving her, on prior occasions, has resulted in murder of an innocent, helpless child. THEIR GRANDDAUGHTER! I would not protect my children from this,...even if I felt guilty. The grandparents did NOT cause this murder! Deal with your demons A's, without making it worse by aiding, and abetting a murderer!

What concerns me, about this pair is that, under testimony, they will lie about everything that they think will show their daughter in a negative light. Cindy will not mention that she had a horrible fight with Casey on the 15th, wherein Cindy attempted to strangle Casey.

In fact, Cindy has repeatedly stated, under oath, that nothing of the sort ever happened between her and her daughter, not then, or ever. They have lied under oath, before, and will continue to do so, in order to protect Casey. The problem here is that the jury may not be as well-informed as we are, in fact, I can bet you they will not be, and I do not want her to walk.

The prosecution needs to build their case on hard evidence, not on the lies of the parents, or anybody else who has a soft-spot for Casey. I hope there is enough hard evidence to support the charges.

Does anybody know if there is a witness, who saw Casey at the dump site, during days following June 15th? Those are the kind of witnesses the prosecution needs! Witnesses with no agendas, and no self-serving statements.

 

[Just Jayla]

I am a parent, and grandparent, and I 'get' that Cindy feels guilty (which I believe she does), about what happened to Caylee, and Casey. So, in order to make reparations she lies, and/or tries to obfuscate the truth. Casey will not be letting either of them off the hook,...any day soon, or ever.

I read all of the documents, and watched all of the video's of Cindy and George, at the Document Store. It's very obvious that they are desperate to save Casey, even to the point of lying to everybody, including the Court. They are behaving like fools with the ridiculous comments. To me, it makes them look guilty of lying to the Court. They don't even listen to their lawyer!

In the beginning the only one of them who told anything near the truth was George, now he is lying just like his wife. I am also wondering if he really did see Casey leave the house, with Caylee, on June 16th, or is this just another lie to protect his precious sociopathic daughter? I should use the new, correct term, Antisocial Personality Disorder. Casey fits it 100%. Here is just one link that explains this disorder: http://peopleintenews.wordpress.com/2008/10/15/profiling-casey-anthony/

Sociopath or APD does NOT mean crazy! She is NOT crazy, and never was! She is just heartless, selfish, jealous, extreme liar, capable of murder, and none of these traits are considered mental illness. Singularly or together...they do NOT constitute crazy!

Just think about this, if Cindy and George had forced Casey to face the music, when she broke the rules, before this horrible murder (yes, I said it), then maybe Caylee would still be alive.

I am sure Cindy and George are torturing themselves over this aspect, and will forever, but we should not pity them, at the expense of allowing the guilty party to walk. An innocent child, their granddaughter, is dead, and even more heinous, was murdered by their selfish daughter.

Casey needs to pay for this. This time she has to face the music, on her own. Sometimes even the best parents interfere too much, trying to save their children from consequences.

Saving her, on prior occasions, has resulted in murder of an innocent, helpless child. THEIR GRANDDAUGHTER! I would not protect my children from this,...even if I felt guilty. The grandparents did NOT cause this murder! Deal with your demons A's, without making it worse by aiding, and abetting a murderer!

What concerns me, about this pair is that, under testimony, they will lie about everything that they think will show their daughter in a negative light. Cindy will not mention that she had a horrible fight with Casey on the 15th, wherein Cindy attempted to strangle Casey.

In fact, Cindy has repeatedly stated, under oath, that nothing of the sort ever happened between her and her daughter, not then, or ever. They have lied under oath, before, and will continue to do so, in order to protect Casey. The problem here is that the jury may not be as well-informed as we are, in fact, I can bet you they will not be, and I do not want her to walk.

The prosecution needs to build their case on hard evidence, not on the lies of the parents, or anybody else who has a soft-spot for Casey. I hope there is enough hard evidence to support the charges.

Does anybody know if there is a witness, who saw Casey at the dump site, during days following June 15th? Those are the kind of witnesses the prosecution needs! Witnesses with no agendas, and no self-serving statements.

IIRC, there was mention of a child who says he saw a car like KC's at the "dumping" spot.

Bumping for timeliness.

 

[BlOnDe_GuRrL]

Cindy's main role in the trial will be as a support to her daughter

They have lost sight of Caylee long ago..
In their twisted mind, they think that Casey going free is what "Caylee would want"
Meh..

 

[watcher9]

There was a sensational murder trial in Effingham County, GA where a son was found guilty for allegedly killing his father and brother and severely injuring his mother back in 2008. He was sentenced to two life terms in January but has since filed an appeal.

I just saw that Dateline will feature this case in a two hour special this Friday night where the story will be told ...mainly through the eyes of those involved in the case, whether through trial testimony or on-camera interviews... &#8220;It&#8217;s the story behind the story and about those whose lives were affected

I guess this is normal procedure for these type of cases and feel that the same will happen when ICA's trial is over.

I had always felt that these types of shows were unbiased accounts of what happened behind the scenes of a sensational murder, but now I question everything. I have seen how the media can slant a case differently from one source to another.

Will Dateline make disclosures as to whether they pay money for pictures or for anyone's interview in this type of show? Why wouldn't they just use public and legal records?

 

[Linda7NJ]

I was unable to vote.

I believe she will be the Offical Court Gum Chewer.

 

[LancelotLink]

Headhunter

 

[Bon]

I consider myself a very caring, compassionate person who hurts for people I don't even know but Cindy A is one person that I have not one drop of sympathy for......she is a conniving, controlling, liar............she knows Casey killed Caylee but like Casey she will never utter those words, even on her death bed.......such a shame Caylee doesn't have the grammy that she loved so much in her corner.......
Cindy made her bed, let her lie in it..................................

FYI, I was able to vote

 

[Linda7NJ]

I consider myself a very caring, compassionate person who hurts for people I don't even know but Cindy A is one person that I have not one drop of sympathy for......she is a conniving, controlling, liar............she knows Casey killed Caylee but like Casey she will never utter those words, even on her death bed.......such a shame Caylee doesn't have the grammy that she loved so much in her corner.......
Cindy made her bed, let her lie in it..................................

I still have nothing but sympathy for Cindy and George. I've tried to put myself in their shoes.......... it's impossible, but I do know, it's simply the last shoes I'd want to be in, on Earth.